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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

so update on me.

The girl from work just wants to be friends as she doesnt want anyone from work to know cause of the shit that went around the office last time she went out with someone.

The girl I went on the Isle date with, we have decide to part ways as I dont plan on going down to live in england anytime soon and she has her kids to bring up down there, so that's not going to work out.

I met someone at the pub the other week. Maybe I might check back on her to see how she's doing.

I've gone almost 2 months without sex! :(
 
There's a guy who has been in my life for quite a while who I have so much love for. We broke up years ago, in an extremely juvenile display on my part, with a drunken rant about how he was too good for me.

Despite the below pep talk from my awesome BFF and her fiance:

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I went out with him last night and realised that yes, I was correct, he is way too good for me, however god damn it's nice to have him around. <3 Oh, and he just got the greatest tattoo I've ever seen. Double love.
 
Oh UaN. I have had one guy pull the you're too good for me schtick while breaking things off and I have to say it made me angry more than anything. I seem to recall actually yelling at him and asking him how he thought he had the right to decide things like that for me without asking for my opinon on the subject.
Now I look back on it I think he was looking for an excuse to break up and wanted to let me down gently and somehow give me a backwards compliment in the process. Either way, I hated him and his excuse for a good while there. :p
 
There is no such thing as someone who is too good for you, UAN. Srsly, stop being a twat. You're kick ass! :)
 
Last night was a defining moment for me. I had a delicious dinner and drinks in the city with my ex boyfriend, we kissed and held each other and it was just perfect. Last time around, it was almost too exhausting for both of us and totally unrealistic to work. I suffered pretty extreme social phobia which never got much better despite quitting drugs and psychiatric care.

Simple things like going to a pub in the city alone to meet him night seem easy to you but for me it was at one point impossible. But I didnt even think twice and only felt like running home when it got late.

Things are so different now. I feel quite normal, which is always how I wanted to feel and happily falling in love again with someone I never wanted to lose in the first place.

We both seem to want the same things from each other and thats important for things to work. I cant say any other relationship I had including my marriage was like this. Even my husband saw no other way to be besides being drug dependant with someone else to pay the bills. Well- thats just not good enough for me.

I flourish when either completely single or happily involved, but despair and lose confidence when I am in an unworkable situation. Thats the problem when with someone new- it could go either way. Im not good at meeting new people, social phobia is hard to shake but its lifting. :)

So yeah. Off the shelf again. Relationships are hard work. But can be so rewarding if they work out. <3
 
looks like im going to end up banging the assistant manager at the walkabout pub.. how cliche... but she's english though
 
Singletons!

Ooh! I'll join in if that's ok! Hehe. :)

I'm super single!!

I just can't commit to anyone which is very frustrating for the other person more so than myself. I remember a guy who was very interested in me said (and I quote)

"I love you, more, than you like me"

Ouch huh, I felt so horrible, but I just don't think I'm built to maintain relationships. Perhaps it's that "you just haven't met the right person, and when you do, you'll understand" but I'm not convinced, lol. I do get lonely though, and that part of single life sucks! Perhaps I just need more friends, lol..

Much love! Mav <3
 
deeCee said:
looks like im going to end up banging the assistant manager at the walkabout pub.. how cliche... but she's english though
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I can see the future.. :) But seriously, she's a top notch chic.. lets see what happens
 
joannie_mhm said:
eh, a big dick is good but huge isn't fun.
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Raz said:
See, this right here is the difference between straight women and gay men.

Well, that and the vaginas. ;)
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BA-BOW! Ha ha, well, not for me, anyway. I'm with Joannie on this one. Too big freaks me out. Might be fun to look at for the novelty value for a bit, but where's the fun if it won't fit anywhere? ANYWHERE.
 
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