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Does size matter? (girls please)

Does size matter?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 37.3%
  • No

    Votes: 36 30.5%
  • Maybe

    Votes: 16 13.6%
  • I'm still collecting data

    Votes: 22 18.6%

  • Total voters
    118
It depends.

If it's just a sex thing/one nite stand then I would prefer him to be on the larger side but not ridiculously large.

If I really LOVE the guy,and am interested in dating him then size really doesn't matter because it isn't just about the sex.I've dated guys that were on the smaller side and some on the larger side.The one thing they had in common?

They were ALL insecure about their penis size!Big or small!Still as insecure!

I think its just a guy thing,just like girls are always worrying about if their breasts are big enough!

Bottom line is,if a girl really likes you then it won't matter!:)
 
My ex was hung like a horse.

I can't say he was the most secure person in the world. He was happy about feeling like he had an advantage over most other men he knew. But, in my case, the novelty wore off rather quickly when his negative personality traits made it to the fore.

Come to think of it, I only know of one man he slept with that would put up with his garbage to get a little play.
 
i think i love mine too... just wish i could get my lost ego jr some action more often, my gf doesnt wanna give me any anymore lol
 
It depends. If its a 1 night stand then yea size does matter although hardly any chick is gonna tell you that they wont fuck you coz u got a little cock.
If iits a relationship then NO size Shouldnt matter.
 
Get short chicks, I dont know many hot 5'2 chicks that want a dick over 6" max.
 
hehe, my gf is my height ='( but she says that im "amazing" just about every time, so i guess im pretty good with what i've got :)
 
Please don't worry bout yer penis size!

My ex-long term boyfriend had a large dick and it fucken hurt!

I am presently dating a man with a relatively small prick but it's what he does with it that counts.

If a woman really fancies you then she'll just love it that you are inside of her... well, that's how it is for me in any case.

Penetration is overvalued IMHO, my beau has spent hours and happy hours just grinding against me and all the rest of it... penetration is the bit that finishes it off but does not necessarily "maketh the man"....

5 inches is cool; to me, that sounds more or less perfect...

So long as you can wang it in in a variety of positions then go for it!
 
Yes, size does matter, and if it aint a good size I aint gonna be satisfied. Dont matter how you work that shit, It just aint gonna do it for me. Im one of the broads who will tell you straight up. It aint like I need no 10 inch dick or nothing, but if you got a 6 I aint interested. And it aint about pussy size, becuz I been doin them kegel shits since like 5 years ago and can trap a dick in there by squeezin, sometimes my man cant even get it in at all so it aint a matter of havin a loose pussy or w/ever. I just like to get filled up and if i aint got that feeling it aint gona do it for me.

See most chicks, they all about that clit action, thats how they really get off, the dick aint the main event to them and they dont kno how to cum from gettin fucked good. so to most girls size really dont matter unless u super small. Cuz they get worked up by gettin rubbed down, played with, and that type of shit, as long as u rub up on they clit they happy, at least thats how it sounds from readin about wat girls on here write, and generally wat I hear from other girls. Me tho, I rather get a big dick , take it hard, for a long time and not even bust at all. And you CAN cum even without your clit getting touched. I have had that happen plenty of times before, so to me its all about the dick size and the sex would be shitty if you didnt have somethin good for me to work with. If a dude had a big dick and didnt kno how to use it then Ill tell him how, shiit. At least we startin out on the right foot with the proper tools u dig? If i need to hammer a nail, i rather have a hammer thats too big than a shovel that really knows how to work a nail into the board lol.

pet sounds said:
Do you know how huge 8" is?

Yes I do, the perfect size thats how big. How big I am lucky enough to take every time I get it in w/my man. I can sure as fuck take it and enjoy it. Maybe if yall broads dont liek rough sex then its one thing but thats my favorite. Guys dont kid your self with that whole chicks cant fit it thing, girls be poppin BABIES outta that thang, so dont act like the pussy dont stretch. i aint in no way saying that you shoudl be ashamed or feel insecure or liek you aint good enough, but i see alot of guys with smaller size dicks talking about how oh girls dont even liek it and oh girls cant fit it and they dont even feel it and its all about the clit and so on, when that aint true for all females. for me, it IS important for the guy to have a big dick, and i CAN fit it, and i DO want it that big, and i CAN cum from gettin pounded w.out clit action, and i DO feel it when its in like that, so everyone different. Im willin to bet that to most chicks size dont matter but to me it do, and I am so happy to have a guy that can satisfy me and do it right. Real talk, we been thru so much shit, and we aint evne together now, and he got some real issues sometimes , like crazy anger problems, kill a dude type shit, but the fuckin is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD that I ALWAYS come back to him even when we broke up cuz i cant get enough of that big ol dick. Real talk, I got to keep it one hundred with yall, it does matter and becuz to me one of the most important if not the most important thing, is that feelin of gettin stretched out and filled up, if it aint big enough, you aint gonna be able to do the rest of the shit I like. If a girl like gettin played with and teased then the dick dont matter, but if you get your pleasure from gettin pounded hard and deep and stretched out tight as hell, then its allll about the size n thicknesss.
 
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i wish more girls were straight up and honest about this subject. honest with themselves more than anything else. i mean if it matters it matters. don't act like it doesn't. its going to hurt you and whoever you get with in the long run.
 
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i wish more girls were straight up and honest about this subject. honest with themselves more than anything else. i mean if it matters it matters. don't act like it doesn't. its going to hurt you and whoever you get with in the long run.

doesnt matter~ does it matter to you? caus now it seems like everyone been lyin on here.

laceyk~ its been proven that you cant feel more than 4 inches into ur pussy. its about the width that counts, that shit ur boasting about coulda been summarized into "i like em thick". also the size of the pussy does count, if ur fisting urself and u cant ever be satisfied then there is a problem(on ur end)~ atleast 50% of men should be big enough for you, but what do i kno, im just a kid
 
^Not true, the sensitive area extends 3" into the vagina, however more than that provides a feeling of being full (apparently- Im male).

Lacey k- I think pussy size does matter, if its too big, there will come a point by which no real friction is created- no friction= no real pleasure.
 
I think it's funny when Women try to estimate a guy's penis size. They almost always think average to above average ones measure bigger than they really do, which I'm sure most Men don't mind. I doubt many Women even know what an 8" dick looks like. :\
 
Opinions on this issue will range all across the board and differ from girl to girl. Most of it, as it is with sex in general, is a mental thing, rather than a physical.

Some girls, once they see you're not 'adequately equipped', just won't be into it for the rest of the session. No matter how well you do, she won't be turned off.

Note that it's only some and not all. :)
 
I think it's funny when Women try to estimate a guy's penis size. They almost always think average to above average ones measure bigger than they really do, which I'm sure most Men don't mind. I doubt many Women even know what an 8" dick looks like. :\

LOL this is actually very true~ my gf thought i was huge, she was suprised to hear me say "im only 5 inches"
 
seems to matter most after a breakup when a girl wants to throw it into the pile of reasons why she hates you.... "AND you've got a small dick"

people are bitter like that, can't let it get you down
 
doesnt matter~ does it matter to you? caus now it seems like everyone been lyin on here.

they haven't been lying. the point i was trying to make was that if you're a girl and it matters to you, don't try and hide it. you hear the cliche answer far too often, "size doesn't matter." when the honest answer is "size sometimes matters." each girl is different.

i'm a straight dude. all i'm looking for is a relationship that works on all levels. i don't think i'm far off from most in that regards. i can only hope to learn from my mistakes. there was a sentence spoken to me that will stick with me for awhile regarding the topic at hand...

does penis size matter to me? i wish i could say no, but i've got a small dick. im living proof that it matters to some girls.

as i said before, regardless of any perceived or actual physical/mental short comings, establishing true friendship first...an emotional connection...it'll give you an idea as to whether or not things are going to work out. eventually all the pieces will fit : )
 
Not a girl but i have 5 1/2 ive slept with 4 girls sober and 5 on E 3 of which was at the same time im 17 and ive always felt i was small bcuz of pornos...But the way i see it as long as im smashin i could give a fuck less if the girl went around sayin im small....she fucked it and i uped my score so she can fuck broken glass for all i care
 
doesnt matter~ does it matter to you? caus now it seems like everyone been lyin on here.

laceyk~ its been proven that you cant feel more than 4 inches into ur pussy. its about the width that counts, that shit ur boasting about coulda been summarized into "i like em thick". also the size of the pussy does count, if ur fisting urself and u cant ever be satisfied then there is a problem(on ur end)~ atleast 50% of men should be big enough for you, but what do i kno, im just a kid

Do you got a pussy?

Na?

Aight then.

Ima explain a lil somethin to you. First thing bein dont act like u kno when u dont.

Second, There is nerves all over your entire body. When it comes to the vagina The majority of the nerve endings is in the lower part near the beginning of the pussy walls, but they are there, all the way up in less degrees. There aint no part of it that exists without feeling. If wat you posted wasnt complete bullshit, and a woman really couldnt feel anything past 4 inches in, then there would have to be no nerve endings at all on the upper inside of the pussy, and it would be numb, aannd anybody who DOES possess a vagina is aware that there is different degrees of feeling thru the whole thing but no numb spots.

Now onto the part where you claimin that my entire post "really'' means i like it thick. No, it dont. it means I like a larger than average dick. It seems simple enough but I guess you got it mixed up....I wrote my post. You didnt. I kno wat I "really" meant, becuz I wrote it. Hey dont feel bad tho, not everybody catches onto shit like that its OK to be a slow learner.

look, I kno its easy to be a expert on wat a vagina feels like, havin a dick and all. All you gotta do, is read popular opinions, then make up your own mind based on wat you personally want to believe. I kno , its so easy to make big generalizations about wat a girl do and dont like, and tell everyone else how they should feel. It probably even does good for your ego, becuz when u get confronted with a fact that goes against wat u prefer to believe , u can just deny it and tell the person they are wrong based on shit that you make up in your head, so you win both ways cuz your pride gets to stay intact and you get to ignore anything that bothers u by rationalizing it away.
But just for the good of higher sexual education, Ima suggest that u might wanna research a lil more before you go around talkin like you got a Pussy PHd. And by reasearch, I mean, shuttin up when it comes to speakin about shit you dont know nothin about.

As far as ur comment about "fisting urself" lol - That was a real mature and subtle way to get across the point that u think any girl who says she likes a big dick, is loose or sloppy. You kno damn well I didnt say shit about fistin. But Ima cut you some slack since I think i recognize ur disorder. You might be a little confused when it comes to comparing the size of things....Ima call it measurementally challenged - so let me help. I know a entire FIST and WRIST might APPEAR to be the same size as a large dick, but believe it or not, those 2 things are completely different in size. In the future try and remember that tryin to turn random shit into analogies aint the best plan if you tryin to make a good arguement. Enjoy ur research.
 
Do you know how huge 8" is? I read somewhere only 5% of the male population is 7" or bigger. Not to mention 10-12" has hardly ever happened in history, seriously.

ever watch porn? alot of guys are +8 inches. idno where u get these statistics but i thought it was more around 10% is 7 or bigger. thanks for the confidence though

-If you're not lost, then you're not having fun.


Here's the stats in graphic form for those interested (BTW 7"+ only accounts for about 1% of the population so cease & desist all worrying about being too small :D). In any case, anything over 7" long or 6" in circumference (I hate the word girth!) are classed as abnormally large according to one study I read

Human penis size
 
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