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Does size matter? (girls please)

Does size matter?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 37.3%

  • No

    Votes: 36 30.5%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 16 13.6%

  • I'm still collecting data

    Votes: 22 18.6%
  • Total voters
    118
thickness is what counts anyway, try a penis pump, they do work you can make your dick fatter, it only stays like that for a few hours but if you do it like 2 hours before sex you will be fatter and harder, i started using one when i was young because i couldn't get fully hard so it was hard to cum, but after using it for a few years, i can tell you that they do work, My dick is 71/4 long and about 4inch around and i always had trouble getting fully hard till i started using a pump.
 
I'm like just a little over 6" I know thats to small so I just don't even try to go out with girls anymore. Fuck them that way no one can ever hurt you.
Violence is a better rush anyway.
 
nathanjkd said:
I'm like just a little over 6" I know thats to small so I just don't even try to go out with girls anymore. Fuck them that way no one can ever hurt you.
Violence is a better rush anyway.
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try being just under 5 inches and very thing. Not that violence is ever the answer, but the absolute FUN of being teased by friends and girlfriends who want to do things like go skinny dipping or orgies and you have to be like...um, gonna go play computer.

And then everyone thinks you're gay (minus the gay dudes who hit on you :P ) cause you won't have sex with the girls who were getting close to you, cause frankly, they DON'T think you have a little willy. At worst, they imagine you with a medium size one.

Watching life melt away from you while (big dicked HUGE INSECURITIES peeps) people try to relate (without you speaking the obvious) about how we are all insecure. Oh really, you're insecure? Imagine if your manhood was closer to that of a 12 year old :( :( :(

Certainly does lead to rage, though trying to quell it :)
 
Size matters but it is definitely not the most important factor what-so-ever. The WAY you fuck her and please her is absolutely the most important. The more you care, the better it will be...unless you worry yourself too much and overwhelm yourself. Fuck it, dude, just live.

Also, contrary to popular belief amongst guys... bigger is NOT always better. Coming from a girl with permanent vaginal trauma. :)
 
Eight inches couldn't hurt? Lol, YES IT CAN, AND IT DOES, for many women. ;)

I slept with a guy for a while that had a HUGE dick, and the first time was AWFUL. Straight up terrible. We're still good friends, and to this day, we still joke about how incredibly bad the sex was. We had to practice quite a bit before things were any good for us, and there were days when there was just not enough lube in the universe for sex to be good with him. I like to have sex while high, but cottonmouth isn't the only issue when I smoke... lol Frankly, I don't wanna have to dick around (*rimshot*) with worrying about whether a guy's dick is gonna work for me one day or not...

And to add on top of that, not too long ago, I had sex with a guy that had the smallest dick I've ever seen. Maybe 4, 4.5 inches while hard. MAYBE. And it was fucking incredible! It was my first time sleeping with him, and he made me cum three times - there are guys I've slept with multiple times and they couldn't get me off at all.

And let's put it this way - plenty of girls can get off from G-spot stimulation, and my boytoy can stimulate mine just fine with a finger. Most of my girlfriends say the same thing. If a finger works, I'm sure a 5-inch dick would.

You really have no reason to worry, as plenty of people here have told you. Even if you're a giant, it's irrelevant that it makes your dick look "small." You'll have plenty of success with plenty of women - but only if you're comfortable enough with yourself to be confident and show her a good time. Keep that in mind. And a suggestion if you're still worried, give her lots of head first. Then she'll be all warmed up and pre-stimulated. Makes things a lot easier. :)
 
What a lot of poeple don't seem to realise is that most women can't even orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, and that if they can, most of a woman's vaginal nerve endings are closer to the opening of the vagina, not closer to the back. And, for many women, the cervix is very sensitive and can get downright painful when it gets bumped by a penis, which is much more of a concern for longer penises. Hell, my boyfriend, with his relatively average, six-inch penis can't even insert himself all the way during doggy style because penetration that deep HURTS.

If size does matter at all, girth is more important than length. I can see how an extremely slender penis might be unsatisfying, but even then, if he knows how to use it, it'll do just fine. The fact that plenty of women can get off from being fingered the right way should be proof that penis size is relatively irrlevent once you move past stupid social hangups on "bugger = better."
 
Lost Ego said:
emperor, im still gonna stay in denial and refuse to believe that. i like the feeling of acid and i feel very philosophical and spiritual when i do it. it is possible that its all in my mind, but i do think lsd expands the mind. dick: unfortunately you are right, i went through early puberty- i looked like i was 19 when i was a freshman haha. i really wasnt expecting much from this girl, she did afterall, end up being an utter waste of my time and an embarassment. she not only insulted me but also embarassed me in front of the school. luckily, pride still intact, im working to become a better lover lol. i hope i can find a girl who wont judge.
thanks for the help and support.

- If you aren't lost, then you aren't having fun.
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I think what I was really trying to say is that psychedelics bring out what is already within you, what you are already capable of, and you can learn to figure things out without having to depend on psychedelics. I only said this because, well, when I first got into research chemicals I tripped way too often and it ended up kind of messing a lot of things up. I just said it out of concern. I'm sorry if I came across as rude.

Besides, I still love my LSD, too :)

And you do seem to have a good head on your shoulders for your age.

Also, if you find a woman who really loves and likes you for you, and she's attracted to you, the penis shouldn't matter at all. You have so much more to offer a woman beyond your dick, and that's what any good woman is going to look for :)
 
Its all about confidence in the bedroom, being very thoughtful of her needs and maintaining a stimulating rhythm. Build up skills, ask girls you sleep with exactly what they want and what they enjoy. Build up experience, so that your dick becomes the small kung fu master which is better than a fumbling Goliath. Forget about size because there's nothing you can do about it.
 
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What a lot of poeple don't seem to realise is that most women can't even orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, and that if they can, most of a woman's vaginal nerve endings are closer to the opening of the vagina, not closer to the back. And, for many women, the cervix is very sensitive and can get downright painful when it gets bumped by a penis, which is much more of a concern for longer penises. Hell, my boyfriend, with his relatively average, six-inch penis can't even insert himself all the way during doggy style because penetration that deep HURTS.

If size does matter at all, girth is more important than length. I can see how an extremely slender penis might be unsatisfying, but even then, if he knows how to use it, it'll do just fine. The fact that plenty of women can get off from being fingered the right way should be proof that penis size is relatively irrlevent once you move past stupid social hangups on "bugger = better."
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I wish guys could learn this. My boyfriend feels bad he can't make me cum from sex alone, but its not his fault! I just don't get off on it, sheesh!
 
How many ladies think their men do not understand for play, or skip it all together.
Because good for play can make size not really matter as much.
 
in turn lets just say i have big fingers and i usually cant use more than 1. sometimes 2. as long as she is pleasured im happy. i just need to find a women with a sensitive gspot caus i like to see her pleasured by my dick alone.

foreplay = what builds up to sex, correct?

and i guess lsd does bring out what u already know, would be odd if lsd contained its own wisdom - that would actually be cool lol. a trip that tought u that which u dont know yet...

i do get it tho, i have used fingers alot. and not even size - im uncircumsized as well and i have gotten shit for it too ~ girls see it "wtf is that", "never seen a dick b4?"...

anyways, i for one had a great fourth of july ~ drank a bit with a girl, fireworks, cigs in a parking lot. we fooled around a little bit - didnt do much caus i could see myself dating her and didnt wanna take advantage of the alchohol. in the end i fell asleep on her comfy tit(s) with her sucking on my earlobe haha... woke up to the manager of raleys kicking us outa the parking lot.

i can see us dating sometime soon, i got her number and she is gorgeous. her name is jill and i someday wanna be jack... DANIELS = my name (-s) it kinda fits i guess.

-If you aren't lost, then you aren't having fun
 
that's cool you all have had neat psychedelic trips involving sexuality/sensuality. NEVER had one of those... can't even do them anymore cause of it. Stuff was awesome, but gave literally no insight into how to be a human. Can meditate with the best of 'em, but can't relate to anyone anymore. I'm lost, it isn't all that fun tho imo.
 
Lost Ego said:
and like i said "i would rather to be 5 than 12 but 8 couldnt hurt..." and i think 5 is on the smaller side, just by how it looks and no im not posting a pic of my dick on here lol. and like i've mentioned a few times, im a big guy with an average/small dick. it makes it look alot worse. it definately would suck to be like 12 inches. would need hella lube. i just need a tight girl or a girl who <3's me : ) or both!

and to tell you the truth noodle - im not positive what p.s. stands for, i just know how to use it in context lol.
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Do you know how huge 8" is? I read somewhere only 5% of the male population is 7" or bigger. Not to mention 10-12" has hardly ever happened in history, seriously.

And besides, being 5" definitely has advantages over being 8". Most girls simply can't fit 8" inside themselves, while plenty can take 5".

Not to mention, you might find someone that can fit most if not all in their mouth. ;) Since it would be impressive to fit 5" in their mouth, think how an 8" dude must feel.
 
If she won't have sex with you because of your penis size, then quite simply she's a bitch.
Most women wouldn't do that anyway.

Edit: Oh shit. Sorry, forgot about the title.
 
Pet Sounds said:
Do you know how huge 8" is? I read somewhere only 5% of the male population is 7" or bigger. Not to mention 10-12" has hardly ever happened in history, seriously.

ever watch porn? alot of guys are +8 inches. idno where u get these statistics but i thought it was more around 10% is 7 or bigger. thanks for the confidence though

-If you're not lost, then you're not having fun.
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Pet Sounds said:
Do you know how huge 8" is? I read somewhere only 5% of the male population is 7" or bigger. Not to mention 10-12" has hardly ever happened in history, seriously.

And besides, being 5" definitely has advantages over being 8". Most girls simply can't fit 8" inside themselves, while plenty can take 5".

Not to mention, you might find someone that can fit most if not all in their mouth. ;) Since it would be impressive to fit 5" in their mouth, think how an 8" dude must feel.
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I hate to even say this because it seems like im bragging, but im 8 and a half. I have never had sex with a girl and hurt her because of it. Anyway i would much rather just get the girl off with my mouth and tongue.

Size really doesn't matter, it's about knowing what your partner likes. I'm 19 and have had my fair share of one night stands and to be honest, their fucking rubbish. First time sex with someone never is that magical, it's when you start knowing how each of you like to be touched, licked, nibbled whatever, then it becomes magical. Ohh and pet sounds this is not directed at you, i was just using your quote to try and help. Sorry.
 
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