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Does size matter? (girls please)

Does size matter?

  • Yes

    Votes: 44 37.3%

  • No

    Votes: 36 30.5%

  • Maybe

    Votes: 16 13.6%

  • I'm still collecting data

    Votes: 22 18.6%
  • Total voters
    118
Sorry, havent read most of the thread, but jus wanted 2 reassure u- yeah it matters but not nearly as much as u think.
 
length...not so much
girth...very important...lol really depends on whether it feels super good, or whether I want to just go to sleep. hehe
 
Size does matter to a point. Too small can be unpleasurable and too large can be extremely uncomfortable. 5-6" is excellent, but anything bigger than that is honestly not very pleasing. Also, girth matters. A too-wide penis can become very uncomfortable very quickly, but some extra width is nice in how it fills the vagina pretty heftily.
 
lol right on; ima prodegy when it comes to intelligence, i expect myself to have a large wallet in the future. ya i definately have a bit of girth, enough for pleasure? only she knows

-If you're not lost then you're not having fun
 
Yeah dude, yer not done growing yet. I started having sex at age 16 with a 21 year old girl, who was experienced to say the least. I was terribly worried about my size, but it never mattered to her. Flash forward like three years, she and I havent seen eachother in quite some time. We hang out, and end up having sex.....As I put it in I saw her eyes get wide and and she made an uncontrollable groan....Afterwards she told me that ive gotten MUCH bigger over those three years......And I never even noticed.

Dont sweat this shit.....Also if youre really worried about it, just get you oral game down pat! I dated a girl who had a hard time getting off from sex, but would cum rather easily from oral.
 
I'll try and make my little contribution to this thread :) I'm 18 and basically finished with the puberty business, I reckon from the age of 16-18 I grew about an inch. While 5 is on the lower avg. you can't argue with 6.

Also, the whole "having the tool and not knowing how to use it" argument is practically true. I have a comforable 7" and will own up to not knowing (or having ever tried) how to use it. lol The following 4 years I'll be spending at uni will for sure resolve the problem. :D

end of the day dw about it, there are bigger problems out there. (like the current lack of mdma) LOL

btw the 5% male population have 7" isn't true.
 
thank you caus i didnt believe that 5% thing anyways.
current lack of mdma is definately a massive problem on my end. its really just the lack of money. and if i was bigger than that wouldnt be a problem. i would be whoring myself off to some fat chicks =X lol... anyways i was foolin around with a girl at a party 2 nights ago and she seemed to like the size of it. either she was really drunk and faked or i got the using it part down. thanks for the help crayon and sorry to those i argued against earlier; just figured if i could convince to u that it was a big problem then i would prolly be right.

-If you're not lost then you're not having fun
 
Lost Ego said:
most girls brag about being able to use 3 or 4 fingers(or even a fist...)
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?!!. Maybe expand the range of women you hang out with? Just a thought. I hang with a lot of loud-mouthed broads: straight, bi, trans, butch, femme, and even at our most raucous, we're rarely heard spouting off on how proud we are of our ability to cram our fists up our jujajas. Your comment just leaves me wondering if I'm out of touch with the upcoming generation of American women. Maybe they're out there in crowds proudly pumping their wet fists in the air. In my mind I see the black Olympians holding the Black Power fist high at the medal ceremony in Mexico City. Fight the Power! Put Your Fist in Your Pussy! US Out of My Uterus! You're Cockblocking My Fist!

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But seriously, those aren't the women who should be complaining about cock size. They should be worrying about the size of the garage.

Back on topic… that utterly worthless little high school bitch is so immature and rude that she doesn't warrant any of your emotional time and energy. That was a cruel, crude and low bullshit move. Chicks like that make me livid. I bet she was the mini-Queen Bitch of the 4th Grade playground. And she's still there emotionally. Cunt is a cunt.

Lost Ego:
"anyways i was foolin around with a girl at a party 2 nights ago and she seemed to like the size of it. either she was really drunk and faked or i got the using it part down." You're good to go, man. As has been established in this thread, you're in the normal range, so there's absolutely nothing to worry about. I think it would be a good idea to let this issue go as quickly as possible. There's nothing wrong with you and you seem to get the pleasure principle, so be happy with what ya got and keep fucking. Practice, practice, practice.

Emperorofusa:
"And you do seem to have a good head on your shoulders for your age.": Yeah, you do.
 
coelophysis: how is it the other way around? lol its kinda an inside joke. me and my friend were arguing philospophical bullshit and ended up talking about how fucking lost i am in my head~ and he was like: being lost is fun. i agreed totally and lately ive been <3ing dissociates so... thus the lost ego and my saying.

artaxerxus: ur first part had my crackin up hardcore... i got where ur coming from and she needs to grow the fuck up; i think we are all on the same level on this topic~ this chick was a stupid cunt and needs to die! ok not so far but its all bueno :D i've apparently moved on from her, that issue and this topic.

what is another sexual but controversial topic i can start a thread about?

-If you're not lost then you're not having fun
 
Meh, I've got a "small dick" at 5" (but it has a mean curve, like a professional bowler it does). I've been with all sorts of girls, but didn't really start to get excellent vagina until I was around 20, which was about the same time girls started to realize that out of 100 guys, 99 of them will have dicks that are basically the same. And who gives a shit anyways? Just prematurely ejaculate and get the hell out of there. If she calls back, and she's cute, then she's a keeper.
 
love it. i will definately get my nut long b4 she has gotten what she wants. 2nd date she can have w.e she wants. oh and i have a shirt that says "i fuck on the first date" on the back it says "just kidding"

-if you're not lost then you're not having fun
 
I was about 5 inches when I was 16, and I kind of had a complex about it, it has gotten bigger since then - probably in my early 20's. I also thought I looked funny as a muscular 225 pound 6 footer. If my 130 pound friend had my dick it would have looked huge on him, but on me it looked disproportionately small - at least compared to what you see in pornos.


I never got any complaints though, and I usually didn't pay attention to any compliments.
 
You are just a kid. Don't worry about penis size. When you hit 18-23 and the highest levels of T hit your bloodstream your penis may grow larger. I'd venture to say most guys here thought they were small at your age.

1. Most women I've been with have been more intrigued/worried by the girth rather than the length. Many vaginas are not very deep. And if you beat the hell out of her cervix with a dick like a billy-club you can hurt her. Now, anal, that may be a different story.

2. Learn about how to please a woman. Learn about her E zones, learn where on her skin to kiss to make her go goosebumps, learn that your saliva followed by your breath can drive her nuts, learn if she's a 'look in my eyes' girl or a 'talk dirty to me' girl. Listen. Engage. Make her feel special. Learn how to please her orally; many women are clitorally orgasmic and not vaginally orgasmic. Stick a Louisville Slugger up some chicks and it ain't gonna hit the button. If you are GOOD at oral and those other things, and you get her to the brink 10 times and pull her back, she's going to pop like a geyser when you put a finger in her, let alone 5" of dick.

3. People can only make fun of us if we allow them to make fun of us. If you ignore it, be above it, act like its untrue, most folks will think its untrue. OR - just say it wasn't you, she's loose like an un-stuffed turkey. :)

Have fun, don't worry, at 16 you have many years full of crap to worry about that are better than this.

Who knows, at 25 you may be swinging hardware like Mr. Goodwrench.
 
I'd venture to say most guys here thought they were small at your age.
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This. Penis size is a strange issue, realistically only men actually care about it. Sure, a big penis is nicer to look at from a woman's point of view (from what I've been told), but so long as it works it really isn't a problem.

I was smaller than you at 16, and I still have a pretty small dick now. I'm fairly open about it, as there's nothing I can do about it! Sure, I'd love it to be larger, but on the whole it hasn't stopped me getting girls and performing in bed.
 
Learn to use that tounge.
Learn the art well and you'll KNOW they're into it.
It would'nt matter 5" or 3" they'd want you inside then.
 
Worms said:
You are just a kid. Don't worry about penis size. When you hit 18-23 and the highest levels of T hit your bloodstream your penis may grow larger. I'd venture to say most guys here thought they were small at your age.

1. Most women I've been with have been more intrigued/worried by the girth rather than the length. Many vaginas are not very deep. And if you beat the hell out of her cervix with a dick like a billy-club you can hurt her. Now, anal, that may be a different story.

2. Learn about how to please a woman. Learn about her E zones, learn where on her skin to kiss to make her go goosebumps, learn that your saliva followed by your breath can drive her nuts, learn if she's a 'look in my eyes' girl or a 'talk dirty to me' girl. Listen. Engage. Make her feel special. Learn how to please her orally; many women are clitorally orgasmic and not vaginally orgasmic. Stick a Louisville Slugger up some chicks and it ain't gonna hit the button. If you are GOOD at oral and those other things, and you get her to the brink 10 times and pull her back, she's going to pop like a geyser when you put a finger in her, let alone 5" of dick.

3. People can only make fun of us if we allow them to make fun of us. If you ignore it, be above it, act like its untrue, most folks will think its untrue. OR - just say it wasn't you, she's loose like an un-stuffed turkey. :)

Have fun, don't worry, at 16 you have many years full of crap to worry about that are better than this.

Who knows, at 25 you may be swinging hardware like Mr. Goodwrench.
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Best fucking post thus far. Umm yeah thanks man. Im not really worried about my size so much right now. I got a gf and fuck her 4 times a week if she isnt too sore and she thinks im huge. I was like "wait wut! bullshit??? umm thanks?". I was already pretty good with my tongue, just takes a while to get used to her taste~ my other ex's vag was practically tasteless where-as my current has a very potent taste even though she washes it alot. My biggest problem now is i can never get my nut caus she gets sore too fast even though she is leaking tons of wetness the whole time hehe...

I have another huge insecurity i'll approach in another thread that i'll title Scared to Share...
 
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