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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

^ Urgh, that's horrible. It's such a common situation too.

That being said, even if someone isn't officially working they generally still owe some level of child support. If someone isn't working, and isn't on Centrelink, that amount is about $1k a year. If he was on Centrelink that amount is about $300 a year (cos, like, you can totally raise a child on $300 a year 8))She should be able to claim a debt offset and not have to hand over money. Bearing in mind that's only if the case was registered with the CSA for collection. If it was a private collect case, and she didn't do anything about collecting the maintenance herself, she's probably just going to have to cop it on the chin.

I'm constantly shocked at how horrible and vindictive people can be to their ex-partners when kids are involved. Hope things start looking up for her.
 
doofqueen said:
Well i always said this was my favorite thread... be careful what you wish for hey - just had the most vicious breakup ive ever experienced (and ever will) in my life... so many lessons learnt and so much growth... if it seems to good to be true it probably is ... hi :)
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A-fucking-men! Singe for just a week after the most fucked up thing anyone has ever done to me.

Still waiting for the lessons and learning to set in.

Nothing truer than that last line, DQ :)
 
I have discovered that I think men in uniform are about 10x sexier than civilians. This doesn't really align with my dislike of authority figures though, so I fear it's destined to be an unrequited love.

Also, hott moment of the day: Watching a man sign a conversation with his deaf friend. So much love and respect.
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Been single for a few months now, pretty much since the end of school (not that i'm in any rush to get tied down at this age). But it would be nice to meet a girl with mutual interests in art/electronic music + an appreciation of stuffing your face with chocolate/ice cream/*insert sinful food here* on the odd Friday night instead of rushing out for new hair extensions + fake tan + enough vodka to drown all of Egypt (not that theres anything wrong or sexist towards that remark, who doesn't enjoy being the spectical of the party :-P). But I guess ultimately I'm after a nice girl who enjoys the simple pleasures of a shared silence and knows how to think outside the square, but also knows how to party hardy on the odd occasion ;-)
 
I got a Facebook message from a girl I met about a month ago who I totally hit it off with but turned out had a boyfriend. We've been maintaining sporadic contact through Facebook only as I don't have her number. Their relationship seems to be on the rocks and she says she feels guilty talking to me. I seem to be jeopardising their relationship and I'm not even trying anything here.

It makes me wonder if my intentions seem less than noble sometimes. If this is me not doing anything, then what am I like on the prowl?
 
I've got a bird coming up from England for a dirty weekend in 2 weeks. She's awesome! But awesome also comes with 3 kids !!!!
 
gher said:
I got a Facebook message from a girl I met about a month ago who I totally hit it off with but turned out had a boyfriend. We've been maintaining sporadic contact through Facebook only as I don't have her number. Their relationship seems to be on the rocks and she says she feels guilty talking to me. I seem to be jeopardising their relationship and I'm not even trying anything here.

It makes me wonder if my intentions seem less than noble sometimes. If this is me not doing anything, then what am I like on the prowl?
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Exactly the same but with your dick in your hand? Seriously though, she's obviously unhappy in her current relationship and is looking for anyone to distract her/ help her realise there are other men in the world. I wouldn't worry about it.
 
You know it's really weird. For once in my life after a major heartbreak i'm not running for validation to the next man (or woman) - and hell i'll even admit that thats what i've done in the past cos i was in denial of doing it when i did and justifying it to myself in oh so many ways... it feels really great and freeing and just plain fucking awesome to be all self validated for once in my life (spiritual classes and healings are a big help and are really cementing my inner strength and truth)

and now when i don't want to date anyone all these men are coming out of the woodwork and none of them are worthy of my divine essence. I am never taking any less than i deserve from now on. (you can take that as ego if you want but thats not what i'm saying)

anyway.... I have this man in my life who is waiting in the wings for my heart to heal, has all these feelings for me and he's so sweet, thoughtful, considerate, kind, gets along with my kid , my kid loves him and says hes "cool", drops everything for me and i just don't feel anything for him that way and it sux... what the hell is wrong with me? Theres just no passion and i dont have the heart to tell him we have no future cos it's going to break his heart and i don't want to do that to him cos he says he doesnt reveal his feelings for anyone cos they all end up telling him "you'll find someone else"

ugh :( I so wish i had feelings back and the old me would have just dated him anyway just to see where it goes but i cant :( and i dont know how to tell him but he deserves someone that feels for him like he does for me... why cant i just accept a nice guy in my life to treat me like a "princess'?

I need the butterflies but do they only come from the bad ones? Or when you only get to know someone and you wonder if they like you? Or maybe cos theres nothing wrong with him so i dont need to "fix" him , or is it cos theres no challenge and i could have him when i want?

MEH
 
no shit ;) I don't need anyone to complete me... i'm whole and happy all by myself and someone will be privillaged to be with me - this time i'm just picking the right one and taking it very fucking slowly ;) =D
 
So I have yet another long distance crush. This one's in Perth. I met her when I was last in Melbourne and we totally hit it off.

FUCK
 
How can UAN still be in this thread? I'm going to assume that every guy in Sydney is gay :D
 
Had an awesome weekend with the girl on the weekend. We went out to one a of the small isles off the cost. Had a few beers, fish and chips on the beach, cycled around the isle, found our own little spot to get frisky, had some more beers in a garden by the shore... Bloody amazing.. I think I really really like her.. I dont know if she remembers cause she was almost a sleep, but she said I think I love you... I think I feel the same. But I didn't say it, as things are hard enough as it is with her living in England.
 
Awww deeCee that warms my heart! Sounds like a wonderful date. I can't even remember the last time I went on a date. Although the boy and I have been together for 4 years and 4 months today so he probably doesn't feel the need to romance me anymore.
 
Also forgot to say we went bowling after we got the ferry back from the isle. Then came home, cooked dinner and she fell asleep :P
 
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