Kids can be assholes man, don’t take it to heart. While mine aren’t biologically mine, and much younger, I do stuff and set rules that they don’t like often and they’re always mad at me for one reason or another. Their mother is a good mom(but has a lot of problems) but can’t bring herself to discipline them because they lost their real dad a year ago and she can’t make herself do anything she thinks might upset them, so I do it all. I love them to death and I know they love me, but kids are gonna be kids and you’re always gonna be asshole dad(or mom) for being the strict parent. At the end of the day we do it because it’s in their best interest and (hopefully lol) they’ll appreciate it someday.
Not gonna lie though, when I was 17 my dad told me I had to be home by 9pm every night and I never once was unless I was sick as hell and stayed home all day. Usually crashed at a buddies or stayed at a girls house and dealt with the consequences later lol