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emkee_reinvented said:
He is using the N.... word.
Off course this is based on personal experience and it was ab-normal, thought that was clear. PLUR Jibult.
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The N word? You're either going full-nonsensical on me or you grew up with a different understanding of what "the N word" might be.

Personal experiences are well and fine, but when they carry an emotional bias with them then it's going to take away from your point. I think it boils down to something I've already said to you in this thread:

You can't hold the rest of the world to the standard that your ex set... or rather, you can but you're going to end up burnt more often than not. You went through some tough shit, but the shit you went through was not an expected rite of passage. It's not something everyone goes through-- it's a scenario that many people actively hope to avoid. Broken homes may be becoming more and more commonplace but their statistical frequency doesn't change the fact that it's dealing a child a shit hand to work with.

On the whole, most people are fuckin' decent folk. The world's not out to get you and every person you meet isn't trying to figure out how they can latch onto you and become your own personal parasite.

Your kid had a mother that didn't stay in the picture. It happens, dude, but what stopped you from trying to find one that might stick around?

And also, if I'm moving forward under the impression that my inferences from your contextual clues in this thread are correct, you're in a statistically unusual situation. Normally the father's out of the picture (or he's the "bad guy" in the picture.) I'm not really sure where I'm going with that one but the thought feels significant enough for me to think about and throw out there.... But then as I skim through to remind myself of a fleeting thought, I notice mention that you don't even see your children anymore and can't help but think this conversation should've never begun in the first place and that at least one of my inferences was completely wrong.

[EDIT: and I also want to throw this postscript out there.

I know this is a friggin' essay, man. I get it, lots of words. I sometimes post like this when I'm actively trying to figure out my stance in a conversation. This is less of me going full-offense and moreso just an unfiltered rendition of what went through my mind-- and I do mean like the whole fuckin' thought process.

At the end of the day @emkee_reinvented, i'm sorry if this put us in opposing positions. I'm struggling to change my entire worldview and start seeing the good in people, however, and while I think I've already explained myself fairly well in that regard, i'm inclined to drop a little clip from a late, great scholar you may recognize:

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MedicinalUser247 said:
Hey... What ever happened to Marijuana.com ? They used to have a Forum.
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Overgrow was my jam! Erowid had potential for an active community but I don't recall them ever actually trying to set up a forum.

From what I can remember, Marijuana.com was basically quora for preteens curious about cannabis
 
I used to have an account there, but someone hacked my account and then pretended to be me. I'm still annoyed by that.
 
MedicinalUser247 said:
I used to have an account there, but someone hacked my account and then pretended to be me. I'm still annoyed by that.
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Which one? Overgrow?

If so, you learned a fuckin' lot over there, my boy. I wish i still had some way of connecting with the folks i followed back then.
 
emkee_reinvented said:
The N word, was for normal. Mathemathically impossible. The bell curve, the top representing the 'norm'. Math say's its not impossible to fill a bag with accectly 200 gram's of Chip's, the machine would only cost a fortune, hence the E (meaning by estimation, if my mem serves correct).
Some tribes eat their decased husband's brain. Normal, for them, disgusting and imo dangerous. Some people marry the wrong woman and have kid's. But there is (barely) no contact with them. But when they did come a other woman would be kinda weird to them I felt.
And a trauma, better solve my problem's first. Then a heart loving woman,

And when stigmatized, forget being seen or treated as normal. And who decides what's normal anyway.
My friends mother had a poster in the toilet saying "Ever met a normal person" from a reflecting mirror like material.

I met Nice people and ones to avoid (good vs bad), but have no clue what normal means when its about people. An abnormal stone would be eassier to indentify.

For me it was a good lesson in self reflection, different moment different perspective just by rereading.

Anyone liked the Furry Fish?
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Well... considering we're choosing to focus on mathematics here, I don't think you're on the right path with your chosen interpretation of the word "normal."

I realize I mentioned a few mathy words, and I apologize for that. I wasn't trying to make this a conversation strictly of numbers, but you seem to be latching onto that in a halfhearted sort of way.

Let's go full-hearted for a second. In a mathematical sense, "normal" is synonymous with "average." It's strange that you would call a fundamental concept "mathematically impossible."
 
Jibult said:
Well... considering we're choosing to focus on mathematics here, I don't think you're on the right path with your chosen interpretation of the word "normal."

I realize I mentioned a few mathy words, and I apologize for that. I wasn't trying to make this a conversation strictly of numbers, but you seem to be latching onto that in a halfhearted sort of way.

Let's go full-hearted for a second. In a mathematical sense, "normal" is synonymous with "average." It's strange that you would call a fundamental concept "mathematically impossible."
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Edit: That DMX pep talk what was that about. Trust a snake he bites you. Real helpful.
I am More a fan of Tippie Irie and The Bug - So many thing's that get me angry, so many things that get me mad. So many thing's that get me angry and I got to say ...".

 
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emkee_reinvented said:
Besides the fact this thread is about stephy and here agitation toward's her ex. And if Cannabis use in a place where its a strict no, is wise too use as it make s her more laid back.

Mathemathecically I was correct, but just as an example, like cultural difference's. to balance out the N word a bit.
Then again have you ever considered what you picture normal is just an idea in your mind, on which you base your opinion?
Or do you truly feel this way, I hope not. As it means you saying anyone grown up not parented by both their conceiver's, was not in the healthiest enviroment. That's Kaka la Waka imo.

Its strange that you seem to preach perfectness. I like the Chips example doing it exact right is almost impossible. Anyone is capable of making a wrong choice.

Other's having it fucked up real bad, usually behind your back, is way more lightly.

Edit: That DMX pep talk what was that about. Trust a snake he bites you. Real helpful.
I am More a fan of Tippie Irie and The Bug - So many thing's that get me angry, so many things that get me mad. So many thing's that get me angry and I got to say ...".

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You call a wholesome, intact family a fantasy. You think "normal" is a "mathematically impossible" concept and refer to it as "the N word" which carries an insanely negative connotation.

The first leads me to believe you feel you've been wronged in the past and feel like there's only room for you to be wronged in the future. The second leads me to believe that you have a hell of an ego despite constantly feeling vulnerable and like a potential victim. It's always funny to me when people think the things they go through make them special.

They make you human, dude. Good comes with bad and it's not the rest of the world's fault that you couldn't keep your relationship intact. Hell, it might not even be your fault-- the blame could lie solely on the shoulders of whichever person you decided to put your trust in. While that may've been a mistake, there are billions of people out there and it's a straight up fallacy to think that you can't find a decent partner that you can trust and rely upon. It's okay to not want one, but I think a person would have to be deluded and disillusioned to think that a single experience indicates how any subsequent ones will go.

But it's okay! it takes all types to make a village, and sometimes the folks that rely on the rest of the village to raise their children serve a niche purpose as well.

How do I view normal? Picture a number line. Find the center. Place a dot.

That dot represents "normal," the only thing that changes are the variables being quantified.

The DMX clip was something I thought you needed to hear. It strikes me as strange that you don't think you can put together a happy home with another individual and think that using the village, which consists of all the individuals you have the option of pursuing, to fill the parental role instead is optimal. The village is full of snakes and thieves and villains. If they're not good enough to partner with, why are they good enough to raise your children? Love people for who they are and trust them to be themselves-- trusting them to do the thing you want is a recipe for disappointment and leads to the development of distrust, which is actively fucking EXHAUSTING.

I don't think I preach perfection. I think I preach acceptance of the imperfect and an unwillingness to let falsehoods propagate.

I'm also noticing that other users are doing their best to set this thread back on its original course. I think that's the best course of action, but I don't think I'll be able to let a response to this post go unanswered. I mean..... it's not like I don't have an ego or anything.... I'm only human.
 
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I moved Stephys thread to the cannabis discussion social thread, this is a better place for it than the lounge. Sorry about the bouncing around.
 
someguyontheinternet said:
Was my fault things went to the lounge and it went off the rails. Sorry y'all, this is a much better place for the discussion. Thanks @deficiT
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It's ok, I mean the choice you made makes sense. More and more I'm thinking we do need a "chill" off topic sub forum where the rules are normal but threads can be about whatever, this is a good reason to. But this is why I tried to make a "social" thread in each sub forum I've modded in mostly, that have some kind of social element as opposed to purely discussion. Just to have a place to throw random banter
 
I agree, TL is definitely extreme but it seems like the only place for off topic chill chat. I'd welcome a new subforum with stricter moderation for off topic stuff
 
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