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My girlfriend doesn't want to do anal..HELP!!!

ChemicallyEnhanced said:
That definitely means you've done it wrong. Different people also need it stimulated in different ways.
Personally, I've also tried and not had any success in getting pleasure from the prostate/
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i don't know, i'm pretty sure i was doing it right. i felt all over... i read that it even makes some dudes orgasm. i don't know. no where in my ass could i feel anything like that, and i've seen videos of dudes with stuff up their butts and they don't have erections. the poster below you is talking about getting a prostate massager too. not my thing, i don't shower enough to get into doing that.
 
also most videos of girls i see doing anal, their clits don't look as up or enlarged or whatever you call it. it doesn't look like they are arroused in that area, imo. i can't buy all of this anal is good stuff, for girls or for guys. i get that people like it, it's just not that enjoyable, imo. like when i was a little kid i used to tickle my own stomach cause there was nothing better to do. not the same exact thing, just on the same level as a worthwhile experience.
 
^^^i don't know sometimes i like to jerk off until the point where i'm about to bust and then i'll take a hit of weed and finish jerking off with the weed in my lungs... i probably could just be wrapping a belt around my neck, but every now and then i treat myself to that hit of weed.. i was doing it a lot before and starting to feel shortness of breath through out the day, so i stopped. lol

my butt is usually dirty. i will leave it alone
 
shugenja said:
If you look closely on some videos, some girls clits are hard as a rock while they're being fucked in the ass.

Some women get really into it. Some women kind of enjoy it. Some women put up with it because they like their man.

And some women are like hell. No.
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i wish we could link videos, cause maybe i'm not checking in the right places... most videos of dudes i've seen with stuff up their butt don't look into it either, it looks like they just like posing in stalkings and stuff. idk. i've defintely checked and definitely messed around with my own anus.. i even jerked off while fingering my ass one time and i'll admit it felt good, but not that much better. idk. to each their own. i will accept that i didn't search hard enough for the sake of this thread though, and probably not think too much of it other than that. when i do shower i usually put a finger or two up my butt, just to keep it loose.
 
F.U.B.A.R. said:
IME, anal sex ranges from uncomfortable to painful for both parties.





But that's probably only because I've got a fuckin MASSIVE cock... :\
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It takes a bit of practice like. I remember the first time I ever did it, in my inexperience used sun screen as lube. That really burns apparently. NOT a sexy experience for her, or me watching her writhe in discomfort for hours afterwards. Whoopsies.
 
Two_in_the_pink said:
Yeah, I understand that. Was just wondering if anyone else had gone through it, and maybe had suggestions. Like from the female point of view. Like I don't want to have to get her drunk or something like that. I'd rather it be her decision.
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So the first thing you may want to do is talked to her and let her know you want to try it. Talk about the details ( such as is lube needed etc ) in a NON sex scenario. Like at lunch or something anyway
Tell her it's all up to her and then let her initiate it. Whatever you do don't hassle her about it. Let it be her choice .
The best thing she can do is literally stay as relaxed as possible.
HTH
 
shugenja said:
Get a prostate massager from the sex store.

Get amped up a little bit from whatever your stimulant of choice is.

Get your partner of choice and have sex while the prostate massager/ butt plug is stimulating your prostate.

Prepare for the most amazing prostate assisted orgasm, it'll make a regular orgasm seem like a pale pencil drawing compared a color motion picture

I've had a prostate assisted orgasm that has lasted for more than 2 minutes.
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Good advice if I was able to get to a sex store/could afford one/had a partner :P lol
 
ageingpartyfiend said:
(vomits quietly...)

each to their own!
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I don't "get" why people enjoying either prolapsing (not that I've ever had one happen to me) or seeing it happen to others (not that I've CAUSED it in others, even when I've deep-dicked them with all 3.6 inches). It seems more like an unfortunate "oopsie" situation?

Oh, I DO know that sprinkling sugar on a prolapse will cause it to unprolapse :)
 
qwertygina said:
So the first thing you may want to do is talked to her and let her know you want to try it. Talk about the details ( such as is lube needed etc ) in a NON sex scenario. Like at lunch or something anyway
Tell her it's all up to her and then let her initiate it. Whatever you do don't hassle her about it. Let it be her choice .
The best thing she can do is literally stay as relaxed as possible.
HTH
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Talking about it in a non-sexual scenario is a GREAT idea IMO. I feel like if you wait until you're already doing sex-stuff it would make her feel more pressured into it.
 
ChemicallyEnhanced said:
I don't "get" why people enjoying either prolapsing (not that I've ever had one happen to me) or seeing it happen to others (not that I've CAUSED it in others, even when I've deep-dicked them with all 3.6 inches). It seems more like an unfortunate "oopsie" situation?

Oh, I DO know that sprinkling sugar on a prolapse will cause it to unprolapse :)
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i think it's enjoyable to watch because of how the girl acts. if the girl weren't acting sexy, it wouldn't be sexy. like i can't figure out if the models in videos are enjoying themselves or if they are just doing it because people have a fetish for it. maybe it's some kind of mental condition. it doesn't really affect me either way to be honest.... i've never seen it irl, btw. i think it's easier to deal with stuff in videos. i seem to becoming attracted to computer videos more than irl at this point, maybe if i had a girl that sexy moaned like in the videos.

i don't know what i'd think if a girl had prolapse butt in front of me with all that farting and lube smell. might not be enjoyable.. i'm pretty sure the girls in these videos are also damaging their intestines with fiber, at least one anyways. i never have to fart after i crap. maybe i should stop watching these videos. but in my favorite one, i'm convinced the girl is honestly smiling for moments. idk.
 
foodcrisis said:
i think it's enjoyable to watch because of how the girl acts. if the girl weren't acting sexy, it wouldn't be sexy. like i can't figure out if the models in videos are enjoying themselves or if they are just doing it because people have a fetish for it. maybe it's some kind of mental condition. it doesn't really affect me either way to be honest.... i've never seen it irl, btw. i think it's easier to deal with stuff in videos. i seem to becoming attracted to computer videos more than irl at this point, maybe if i had a girl that sexy moaned like in the videos.

i don't know what i'd think if a girl had prolapse butt in front of me with all that farting and lube smell. might not be enjoyable.. i'm pretty sure the girls in these videos are also damaging their intestines with fiber, at least one anyways. i never have to fart after i crap. maybe i should stop watching these videos. but in my favorite one, i'm convinced the girl is honestly smiling for moments. idk.
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Generally in porn, the girls usually *aren't* enjoying it. In both straight *and* lesbian porn since lesbian porn is made for straight men, not gay women.
But MOSTLY everyone is porn is at least really exaggerating a lot of the time.
 
^^^i see videos where i'm convinced that the girl is having a good time. they probably don't need to be panting and making all that noise, but that's just part of the show, and i think girls can get arroused and perform porn. i don't see a lot of lesbian porn where the girls look aroused, same with anal despite the fact some posters say other wise... i assume with some girls though they are just banging to have chlidren cause it looks like the clit is up or whatever you say. i see girls with larger clits that are vaginally banging guys with big dicks too, so i assume they think the dick is going to get semen to their eggs and they are going to get children. lol. from what i was told and shown, you can tell if a girl is enjoying sex. i wonder if it's as intense as a male orgasm sometimes though. it just doesn't make sense to me. i guess that's a mystery of life though.

my ex said she enjoyed sex more when she was silent. i def won't get as intense of an orgasm if i'm making noise... i always wanted to try and find girls to film porn with so i could experience all the acting they do. lol i was never confident enough that my semen was good though. like i couldn't get my first girlfriend pregnant, maybe cause weed or my dick wasn't big enough for her... but now i've added years of being on anti-psychotic medication, so i don't think my dick is worth any thing to the women at all. lol... i actually have naturally straight teeth and thought if i had a certificate from a dentist saying that then girls would be super into me to act with them in porn. lol. i shouldn't've messed up and got put on meds. i'm totally getting off topic of this thread at this point, but that seems to happen a lot on this board for everybody.
 
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