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OK..Eating Ass...Why? The sensation doesn't warrant ass mouth

The Wizard of the Creek said:
Man… the term “tranny” is insensitive, but “lipstick lesbian” isn’t? I am getting confused what terms people won’t be upset by these days? I need some sort of cheat sheet I can laminate and put in my pocket to pull out whenever I’m not sure, if I think I might be seen as a culturally insensitive?

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Tranny and she-male/lady-boy are not that offensive or insensitive, and dead naming is not either. Of course people who are under 35 and Gen Z types who live on twatter and not in real life in person off the internet, will claim it is all horrible, 'literal violence against transwomxn!', etc.

These people ignore how there are partial and full post-op TS/TG women and men who call themselves trannies, she-males, lady boys, 'men with a bonus hole', refer to themselves by both their former name and current name, refer to their past gender/sex and current gender/sex, etc.

There are also TG/TS and TV/CD bars, and events/female impersonation and drag queen and drag king contests that use the word tranny.
 
Atelier3 said:
We have two main kinds where I work. LUGS (Lesbian Until Graduation) who can also be Lipstick Lesbians (who are uber femme and avoid the butch type). I see them more as ditzy rather than nutty. They are the cutest things when they’re being all self-consciously romantic around the campus. . I always think seeming them getting all romantic with each other is like looking through the windows of a Hermes or Louis Vuitton Store: cool, stylish stuff I’m never gonna own. But it’s rude to gawp too long.
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I have used the label LUG quite often to describe myself.

You’ve mentioned Lipstick lesbians. My daughter identifies as a “Chapstick Lesbian”. She explained that it means an outdoorsy and resourceful lesbian that doesn’t depend upon men to get things done. She put the majority of my IKEA items together.
 
I don’t understand why women like it, but I have done some research into prostate stimulation and why a man would desire it, apparently if you know how’s to stimulate the prostate just right, you can have as many full body orgasms As you desire,and the. When you jack off afterward, your load will Be huge. Girls have no prostate though, so a finger in their butt seems kind of pointless
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Tranny and she-male/lady-boy are not that offensive or insensitive, and dead naming is not either. Of course people who are under 35 and Gen Z types who live on twatter and not in real life in person off the internet, will claim it is all horrible, 'literal violence against transwomxn!', etc.

These people ignore how there are partial and full post-op TS/TG women and men who call themselves trannies, she-males, lady boys, 'men with a bonus hole', refer to themselves by both their former name and current name, refer to their past gender/sex and current gender/sex, etc.

There are also TG/TS and TV/CD bars, and events/female impersonation and drag queen and drag king contests that use the word tranny.
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I'm gonna repeat a couple things I just said.

Sometimes words are OK when used within the group described by them, but not others, from their perspective. So that you can find members of the group using it doesn't really mean anything.

And also, as I said before. It's all entirely arbitrary. There is no objective offensive or not offensive. Some things are offensive to some and not to others.

But, I'm still not gonna use any of the words you listed. Cause I know they're offensive to some people, and I have no desire to offend people who've done nothing to harm me. And especially when it's something so trivial.

There are times when it's worth fighting and times when it's not. Getting to use a word when there are alternatives and which word I use is of no benefit or detriment to me, doesn't seem pretty much ever to be one that's worth fighting.
 
The Wizard of the Creek said:
Worse, you can get parasites eating ass. Have you ever seen someone shit out worms. Just imagine them living comfortably in your intestines for years. Most people don’t even know they have worms. It’s truly terrifying. Google worms in humans to really freak yourself out from licking someone’s asshole.

These kids that are blindly doing this as a fad would probably stop doing it if they only knew this. Worse, these kids feel like if someone doesn’t eat your ass or if you don’t eat their ass, you don’t love them. I am not Ok with this peer pressure bullshit for being disgustingly unhygienic. For what… love? Please lord spare me.

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Yes, depending upon the organism, you could potentially contract diseases. Remember, though, that partners must have a bacteria or virus before spreading any illness to you.

However, rimming has no record of cases attributed to the act that causes a disease you catch from a slutty partner.

Michael Douglas claims his throat cancer developed due to multiple sessions of cunnilingus, who knows?

TL;DR, it’s unlikely oral sex or rimming is responsible for the contraction of Hep B.
 
The Wizard of the Creek said:
*Few, when I saw that you quoted my post, I thought you were trying to convince me to eat ass*

Absolutely agree with that, but why is it my responsibility to automatically understand when groups move the goalposts seemingly randomly. It almost feels like some of these groups do that just to be outraged and make someone look like a bigot, when it’s mostly unintentional and not hateful. It’s just can’t stand everyone being so overly sensitive.

It’s getting worse every year. 2021 is the year of instant outrage and pettiness.
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Some people are just looking for a reason to be outraged, you're right. But it's not just the gender and sexually diverse types on the left who do it, I see the right do it all the time in response. They find any reason to get offended.

Some people are unreasonable, but I think most are not. I've said things inadvertently that have hurt people. Most of the time I think it's best to just apologize and try not to do it again if all they're asking is that you don't use a word they find upsetting.

If they're reasonable, they'll see that you're making an effort not to needlessly hurt them.

It's just about being good to other people. I don't see this kinda thing is worth fighting over.

I sometimes make jokes with my family that I'd NEVER say in public. They're not mean spirited. Just those kind of ironic statements that are so over the top outrageous are to be funny. If someone said I couldn't do that, as part of my and my families private discourse, that I'd probably say is too far. But not using it publicly around them? That's not a big ask at all.

Be reasonable for reasonable requests, don't be an asshole. That's pretty much the philosophy I try and follow.
 
polarthedog said:
I don’t understand why women like it, but I have done some research into prostate stimulation and why a man would desire it, apparently if you know how’s to stimulate the prostate just right, you can have as many full body orgasms As you desire,and the. When you jack off afterward, your load will Be huge. Girls have no prostate though, so a finger in their butt seems kind of pointless
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Guess what? Gay males are not the only gender that enjoys assplay. My last few male partners have been very to receive.
 
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Fiori di Bella said:
Yes, depending upon the organism, you could potentially contract diseases. Remember, though, that partners must have a bacteria or virus before spreading any illness to you.

However, rimming has no record of cases attributed to the act that causes a disease you catch from a slutty partner.

Michael Douglas claims his throat cancer developed due to multiple sessions of cunnilingus, who knows?

TL;DR, it’s unlikely oral sex or rimming is responsible for the contraction of Hep B.
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This is incorrect, and wrong.

People can get Hep B from rimming, licking pussy, sucking cock, and HPV which becomes throat cancer can be transmitted from oral sex and/or rimming.

HPV and Oropharyngeal Cancer | CDC

HPV can infect the mouth and throat and cause cancers of the oropharynx. This is called oropharyngeal cancer. HPV is thought to cause 70% of oropharyngeal cancers in the United States.
www.cdc.gov www.cdc.gov
 
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Mr. Krinkle said:
you go both ways

you must like some ass play

do you like having your salad tossed?
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I replied earlier in the thread. I tried being rimmed once, did not enjoy it enough to ever want to do it again. I have done all sort of sex kinks but rimming and anything with nasty brown, blood, vomit, and anything illegal are things I will never do.

Anal sex is alright. I do not do or practise any receptive anal sex at all. It does not feel good to me and I do not get pleasure from a finger, tongue, and would never take a cock, fist, or dildo up my ass.
 
polarthedog said:
I don’t understand why women like it, but I have done some research into prostate stimulation and why a man would desire it, apparently if you know how’s to stimulate the prostate just right, you can have as many full body orgasms As you desire,and the. When you jack off afterward, your load will Be huge. Girls have no prostate though, so a finger in their butt seems kind of pointless
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Yes, women are unable relate to sensations re: the prostate.

However many women as well straight guys, wish to push the boundaries thorough prostate message. I guarantee that many men are into this. Women also enjoy assplay.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I have done all sort of sex kinks but rimming and anything with nasty brown, blood, vomit, and anything illegal are things I will never do.
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Wait.. Soooo, you basically don't use your mouth in sexy time whatsoever?

Cause you just ruled out everything...

Brown (ass)
Blood (vagina)
Vomit (mouth).

What's left?
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I replied earlier in the thread. I tried being rimmed once, did not enjoy it enough to ever want to do it again. I have done all sort of sex kinks but rimming and anything with nasty brown, blood, vomit, and anything illegal are things I will never do.

Anal sex is alright. I do not do or practise any receptive anal sex at all. It does not feel good to me and I do not get pleasure from a finger, tongue, and would never take a cock, fist, or dildo up my ass.
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ah you're a pitcher...i gotcha

that's what i would be if i was gay

i would just plow asses

it's gotta be a little different once you're bent over and taking big dick in the ass - you're at some dude's mercy at that point

i admire anybody who can sit there and get plowed like it's no big deal
 
Analingus is also called a machine gun or rusty trombone.
 
Believe me. I heard machine gun in a Priya rai porn. And rusty trombone well wah wah. Reach around lingus. @JessFR
 
10/10 buttholes are gonna stink to some degree at any given time of the day, rigorous bathing habits or not. Because poo sits in there without your knowledge pretty much all the time. It's just inconvenient biology.
I just don't get the appeal of sticking your face in an area that's basically an exhaust pipe the rest of the time. Idk, maybe a garbage chute would be the more accurate comparison...

Vaginas don't have this problem, because they're multi purpose-designed to "accept" cucumber-shaped things (consensually, of course) for important stuff like OUR SURVIVAL AS A SPECIES.
And they're probably a lot easier to wash out in a moment's notice when taking some rando home unexpectedly after too many shots 🤷‍♂️
 
Mr. Krinkle said:
ah you're a pitcher...i gotcha

that's what i would be if i was gay

i would just plow asses

it's gotta be a little different once you're bent over and taking big dick in the ass - you're at some dude's mercy at that point

i admire anybody who can sit there and get plowed like it's no big deal
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Yes technically I am activ/giver/top for anal sex, vaginal sex, oral sex, BDSM, etc. However, I am very picky who I have anal sex and vaginal sex with.

For most of my life I was not even into any anal sex at all. Giving anal sex and giving vaginal sex are fun, and I like to give pleasure with my cock to a partner but if that is all or the only type of sex a man or woman wants to do this is super boring, mimicking heterosexual sex, and unimaginative.

I would never put my bare cock without a condom up anyone's ass and I wear gloves for inserting fingers, use condoms when inserting any vibrator or anything in someone's ass or vagina or on the outside in the case of vibrators. I have never fisted, or footed any men or women but gloves would be worn. For vaginal sex I use condoms as there are way too many desperate women who get pregnant on purpose or beg for cum in their vagina and are shocked when they become pregnant. It is almost the same as idiot gay men-it is usually always gay men who are passiv/bottom/taker types that are like this that think they are invincible-who beg for cum up their ass and then wonder just how and why they got Pozzed or why they now seroconverted with Hep C and HIV. Even in relationships/partnerships condoms and safer sex is done. I know too many people who became POZ from a partner cheating on them or who lied about their HIV status-there are people who are fully out as being poz but as HIV+ friends have told me most people who are HIV+ or living with AIDS lie about it or have no idea until they get very sick with AIDS.
 
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