25 year old women arrested for having sex with three students

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

There's no evidence for anything you're saying, just supposition.

There is lots of evidence that children and teens who are sexually abused by adults do get hurt by the sexual abuse.

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You do not have to be a poster boy or let the sexual abuse that happened to you as a teen by your paedophile teacher define you, but to claim you suffered no negative effects from it, etc. is incorrect and normalising sexual abuse of children/teens by adult sexual predators like your teacher is.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Nope. You don't get to tell me what I'm in store for. You aren't the dictator of my life.

My life is just fine. Lots of things have scarred me over the years but not that relationship.

So you can take your superiority complex and your righteousness, and shove it. I don't need you to be sorry for me, I don't need or want your righteous pity. It's practically gaslighting at this point. Stop now.

Superiority complex? Rightousness? I am not being either of these and I am not 'gaslighting' you or manipulating you the way your paedophile teacher did to you.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Lol quoting wikipeda.

I'm aware it was illegal. I don't care about that. What I care about is that you're trying to morally gaslight me. It won't work. Stop being a psycho. You don't get to override my reality and replace it with your version of events. Life doesn't work that way. Unless you're delusional.

The reality is you are delusional and were harmed by the sexual and psychological abuse your paedophile teacher did to you. Everyone can tell this but you.

Please get help.

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[mal3volent]

No one here has the qualifications to analyze whether or not Foreigner was traumatized or not. If he says he fine, that's great. I hope he is. Many of us aren't. Not everything is the same for everyone.

That being said, I don't think there's any way to excuse the adult's role in all this. I accept you're attracted to older men and that you weren't damaged psychologically. But it's not like there is a way to screen minors to tell if they're mature enough to give consent. That's why we define it legally. And it is our responsibility as adults to protect the vast majority of young people who are vulnerable.

 

[✿Dai₷y✿]

I don’t think women are human beings to use, I was making a point that people who would deem a woman ugly would not give into the pressure of that “ugly” teacher hitting on them, I was trying to be humorous about the squealing and throwing the bag over her head, at sixteen I was super horny if my “ugly” teacher would’ve hit in me, I would have most likely done her without a doubt, of course without the bag on her face.

The honor roll was a funny reference, I don’t know if you use that term in Ireland in school.

Don't stress so much, its sometimes impossible to post something that is a genuine contribution from yourself without mortally offending someone but I'd assume most readers would not be bothered.

There's a huge difference between calling a poster here a slut and talking blokenglish about hypothetical people.



Anyway...


I dunno if young boys all lust after a teacher if there is one that's sexy and all, maybe they do, don't care either. What they want doesn't matter, they could strip naked and throw themselves at the teacher but the teacher must not respond, at all.

Stupid pedophiles, any rapist, fucking trash. Only good for organ donation, chuck the rest out and save oxygen for people who aren't monsters.

 

[✿Dai₷y✿]

Nope. You don't get to tell me what I'm in store for. You aren't the dictator of my life.

My life is just fine. Lots of things have scarred me over the years but not that relationship.

So you can take your superiority complex and your righteousness, and shove it. I don't need you to be sorry for me, I don't need or want your righteous pity. It's practically gaslighting at this point. Stop now.

Youre very rude, you know.

Kids having relationships with adults tends to turn stomachs. Unlike you, there are many others who would not be tickety-boo with that going on and be fucked up mentally. Do you prefer to be congratulated instead ?

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Don't stress so much, its sometimes impossible to post something that is a genuine contribution from yourself without mortally offending someone but I'd assume most readers would not be bothered.

There's a huge difference between calling a poster here a slut and talking blokenglish about hypothetical people.



Anyway...


I dunno if young boys all lust after a teacher if there is one that's sexy and all, maybe they do, don't care either. What they want doesn't matter, they could strip naked and throw themselves at the teacher but the teacher must not respond, at all.

Stupid pedophiles, any rapist, fucking trash. Only good for organ donation, chuck the rest out and save oxygen for people who aren't monsters.

I agree completely. What happened to Foreigner was not his fault that he was sexually abused, but the teacher is scum, a paedophile, sexual predator, and should never have been teaching or around children or teens/pre-teens.

 

[ChemicallyEnhanced]

This will be unpopular but i wouldnt have minded but i may be an exception. I slept with a 30 year old when i was 12 but i was psychologically pretty advanced for my age. I feel 100% unaltered by the experience. In otherwords im essentially the same me regardless of that. Then again if i had a 12 year old son who slept with their 30 year old english teacher I'd be furious.

Yeah, when I was 13 I had a sexual/romantic relationship with a guy in his mid-twenties and I actually have fond memories of both him and the relationship. Despite the age different we had a real emotional and intellectual connection. He was always very kind to me and throughout the relationship he never tried to talk me into doing anything I wasn't comfortable with and made sure I was in control of what happened sexually, that I always initiated anything sexual and then only went along with it if he believed that it was what I really wanted. I was badly bullied at school on top of being abused by my parents - being with him was the only time I ever felt safe or okay or loved.

HOWEVER, I was also raped - in a foreign country - on my 13th birth and that was incredibly traumatic and played a large part in ruining my life.

Moral of the stories: CONSENT IS EVERYTHING

 

[ChemicallyEnhanced]

Exactly. Who knows how that would effect them. 12 year olds cannot understand what sex is or process it, let alone know how wrong that would be.

Not true. Everyone matures (especially mentally and sexually) at different ages. See my or @negrogesic 's posts.

Just to be clear, I would NEVER fuck a 12 year old, personally (eww!)

 

[Jabberwocky]

Not true. Everyone matures (especially mentally and sexually) at different ages. See my or @negrogesic 's posts.

Just to be clear, I would NEVER fuck a 12 year old, personally (eww!)

I lost my virginity a few weeks after I turned 15 and I think that was a bit too young. I couldn't really appreciate it or process it... Then again that's a tragic fucking story on its own (I fucked up big time and the girl ran out crying right after, true story lol)

Idk. I stand by my statement which was basically that 12 year olds should not have sex

 

[ChemicallyEnhanced]

I lost my virginity a few weeks after I turned 15 and I think that was a bit too young. I couldn't really appreciate it or process it... Then again that's a tragic fucking story on its own (I fucked up big time and the girl ran out crying right after, true story lol)

Idk. I stand by my statement which was basically that 12 year olds should not have sex

I agree with your statement in 99.9% of cases.

 

[mal3volent]

Not true. Everyone matures (especially mentally and sexually) at different ages. See my or @negrogesic 's posts.

Just to be clear, I would NEVER fuck a 12 year old, personally (eww!)

How can you simultaneously make those two statements? If a twelve year old truly can be mentally and emotionally prepared for sex, why should you feel any shame in fucking one (assuming they have passed whatever metric you've established for being "prepared") ?

I don't think they can be prepared, unless they are already damaged or scarred. The ones who escape without any trauma are the lucky and the few; the exception to the rule.

 

[Foreigner]

No one here has the qualifications to analyze whether or not Foreigner was traumatized or not. If he says he fine, that's great. I hope he is. Many of us aren't. Not everything is the same for everyone.

That being said, I don't think there's any way to excuse the adult's role in all this. I accept you're attracted to older men and that you weren't damaged psychologically. But it's not like there is a way to screen minors to tell if they're mature enough to give consent. That's why we define it legally. And it is our responsibility as adults to protect the vast majority of young people who are vulnerable.

If you want to condemn the adult involved that's fine, but nobody has the right to tell me I was harmed or abused. That's up to me to decide. These nanny busy body types who think they can shrink and gaslight whomever that want are really grating.

 

[Foreigner]

I agree completely. What happened to Foreigner was not his fault that he was sexually abused, but the teacher is scum, a paedophile, sexual predator, and should never have been teaching or around children or teens/pre-teens.

It's fine if you want to condemn the adult, I could care less. But don't tell me I was harmed or damaged and that I'm just in denial/am delusional. You aren't qualified and you weren't there. Your gaslighting is sick and disgusting, you should be ashamed of yourself. What you are doing is actually abuse.

 

[✿Dai₷y✿]

Foreigner is the one who is being abusive. Pretty gutless behaviour from someone who is exempt from the rules, am embarrassed for him .

I agree completely. What happened to Foreigner was not his fault that he was sexually abused, but the teacher is scum, a paedophile, sexual predator, and should never have been teaching or around children or teens/pre-teens.

Yeah exactly.

My school mate was repeatedly raped as were 3 other kids at age 8, year 2 of a govt run primary school in Esperance, WA.

By the time she was old enough to come to realisation at 17 that this shit happened to her and told her mum, the statute of limitations had passed to do anything about it.

Much later after having her kid, she spent 7 years campaigning to make the stature of limitations for taking perps to court unlimited instead of 7 years.

She did it too, by sheer determination and turning up every day to Parliament snd sitting there with blue hair so the Attotney General had her on his mind . Om sure they wanted herr to go away and stop crying so they could avoid ending up budgeting for victims comp claims (a fund by taxpayers, victims dont sue people directly like in the States)

Victims compensation for child sex abuse survivors perpetrated by people in government institutions and schools in general is available now thanks to her.


So for one person who was preyed upon as a child, could be something that just happened, no biggie, whatever or could completely fuck up their adulthood.

Some dont ever live healthy lives and turn to drugs, some fight like hell.

Wouldnt happen if teachers were able to do the right thing originally.


I would kill anyone who touched my kid. Only 10 or so years jail, better than a scumbag getting to live.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

It's fine if you want to condemn the adult, I could care less. But don't tell me I was harmed or damaged and that I'm just in denial/am delusional. You aren't qualified and you weren't there. Your gaslighting is sick and disgusting, you should be ashamed of yourself. What you are doing is actually abuse.

If you want to condemn the adult involved that's fine, but nobody has the right to tell me I was harmed or abused. That's up to me to decide. These nanny busy body types who think they can shrink and gaslight whomever that want are really grating.

I understand the experience of being sexually abused and sexually molested/raped by your teacher when you were 13 was traumatic and harmful to you, given your anger and rage/abusive reaction at anyone that tells you how you were sexually/psychologically abused by your paedophile teacher.

What happened was not your fault, and despite what this pederast teacher told you or how he psychologically abused and manipulated you, it was not consensual at all, but it was sexual abuse as your maths teacher is a child/teen/pre-teen predatory sexual abuser and paedophile.

Please do tell the police or authorities about him as he should never have been in education, working with kids/teens, and he has gone onto sexually abuse other children/teens.

Given how you have normalised pedophilia I hope you do not sexually abuse children or teens or become a paedophile or sexual predator the way your teacher that sexually abused you is.

I hope you get help or therapy for being sexually and psychologically abused by your paedophile math teacher, and that you do not sexually abuse any teens/children, join NAMBLA, etc.

You cannot have it both ways claiming that adults like your teacher that sexually abuse kids/teens are 'not bad people', 'friends', 'what they do is not abuse/rape, etc.' Or 'I was not sexually abused it was harmless and I suffered no consequences or negative effects/affects from this...' and then argue that anyone who is against paedophiles or that the sexual abuse they do towards children/teens is harmless because you are in complete denial about the harm that happened to you and how it was sexual abuse, and that we are being abusive, crazy, delusional, etc. since we are against child/teen sexual abuse.

 

[deficiT]

Let's not derail the thread with wild accusations please.

 

[deficiT]

When I was like 15 I think, I had sex with a friends older sister who was like 25 at the time. It's weird because I think it's pretty easy for me to consider an adult having sex with a minor abuse and a crime, but at the same time I don't feel particularly abused or traumatized by this event myself. And I don't really hold any ill will towards her, we somewhat keep in touch to this day. I can understand someone having conflicted feelings about something like that, idk. It's still wrong, but people are affected by things to varying degrees and there are different levels of harm.

 

[Foreigner]

I understand the experience of being sexually abused and sexually molested/raped by your teacher when you were 13 was traumatic and harmful to you, given your anger and rage/abusive reaction at anyone that tells you how you were sexually/psychologically abused by your paedophile teacher.

Stopped reading right there. I'm not angry because I have repressed rage at being told a different version of events. I'm annoyed because you're being a gaslighting psychopath who thinks they are entitled to rewrite my life story to suit their moral narrative. Like telling me you're sorry that I was traumatized, when I in fact was not traumatized. You don't get to do that. There's a big difference. I wasn't raped. It's wrong and it's unethical to tell me I need therapy but then not listen to anything I have to say about my own history. You're not my therapist, you're not even a decent person. You don't get to tell me what my psychological state is, when I was 13 or now. The fact that you can't see that shows how screwed up you are.

You're blocked now. Say hello to boundaries. I don't engage with psychopaths. Have a nice day.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

Stopped reading right there. I'm not angry because I have repressed rage at being told a different version of events. I'm annoyed because you're being a gaslighting psychopath who thinks they are entitled to rewrite my life story to suit their moral narrative. Like telling me you're sorry that I was traumatized, when I in fact was not traumatized. You don't get to do that. There's a big difference. I wasn't raped. It's wrong and it's unethical to tell me I need therapy but then not listen to anything I have to say about my own history. You're not my therapist, you're not even a decent person. You don't get to tell me what my psychological state is, when I was 13 or now. The fact that you can't see that shows how screwed up you are.

You're blocked now. Say hello to boundaries. I don't engage with psychopaths. Have a nice day.

Go ahead and block me then. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Stay in complete denial, or your alternative reality, and completely ignore how you are acting in anger and rage at being told the truth about how you were sexually abused by your paedophile math teacher when you were barely 13 and that you need help.

FYI, your reaction of being in denial, attacking, shutting down communication, trying to manipulate it so you are defending sexual abuse of kids/teens by adult paedos or sexual predators, gaslighting and abusing myself and others who tell you to get help for being sexually abused is the result of the trauma of your sexual abuse by your math teacher that is a sexual predator.

I know you will probably not do this but get help for being sexually abused, and tell the police or child social/welfare services where you live about your former teacher that is a paedophile. You are not the only person he sexually abused and people like this sexual predator that took advantage of you and sexually abused you should not be teaching, around children or teens, etc.