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How many people have you had sex with?

w01fg4ng said:
Avoiding eye contact is typically something people do when they like someone, sexually.
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Is it? Eye contact to me signifies flirting or interest depending on who it is and where we are.

I know three people with Aspberger syndrome, or some type of high functioning autism. They avoid eye contact and it is not about sexual attraction.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Is it? Eye contact to me signifies flirting or interest depending on who it is and where we are.

I know three people with Aspberger syndrome, or some type of high functioning autism. They avoid eye contact and it is not about sexual attraction.
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Yeah, it is.
 
w01fg4ng said:
If race is apparently so unimportant to you sexually, why even bother telling me that he is black?
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You asked me a question. I answered it. Why nitpick just that? I forgot to add, in some cases I knew the woman or man was into having unsafe sex as they or others told me this-it was decades before the Truvada/prep or even post exposure meds-and/or IV drug use and sharing needles. Or they claimed to be HIV- but were lying and were POZ or HIV+, or living with AIDS.

He wanted me only because I am European, and not black. A black gay friend told me how he tends to avoid European and Asians as in his almost 50 years of dating and being active with men they tend to want him only because he is black.

I am only sexually attracted to other European men and women. But we all have different preferences and attractions.
 
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w01fg4ng said:
Yeah, it is.
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No it's not. Two of them are heterosexual men and not sexually attracted to me. The other is a lesbian woman. It has to do with how they are unable to, or find it very difficult to understand body language or non-verbal communication, and do not always understand verbal communication either.
 
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I actually don't know. Over 20 at least. Now i'm on opiates so my sex drive is almost non existent
Early 40's
Female straight except for that one time at band camp
 
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None this year since I stopped taking drugs. Although I seem to have made a few friends from dating apps. Just none with mutual chemistry.

It’s starting to feel sad and like getting high and getting random laid once in a blue moon acceptable.
 
New to this site. I'm a 30year old male and I've slept with just under 100 different women and maybe 3 or 4 men. I've been a slut I know but its something people couldn't guess from looking at me, they'd have to actually see it happening to have a clue
 
1) male 33
2) have had sex with 74 females
3) 2 males.
I went through a bit of an experimental phase when I started using meth and dxm habitually but figured out pretty fast I preferred females over males
 
Atelier3 said:
None this year since I stopped taking drugs. Although I seem to have made a few friends from dating apps. Just none with mutual chemistry.

It’s starting to feel sad and like getting high and getting random laid once in a blue moon acceptable.
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Remember when you guys told me to get off the apps because it’s fuelling my addiction? Get off the apps. These people can’t likely do it much better than you can do it yourself anyway. Takes actual chemistry and practice for that and these apps are mostly for superficial one offs. I havent deleted yet but it either crosses my mind or it gets brought to my attention that I should more and more it seems.. sometimes I delete for a few days. This shit is ruining my life man and thats all itll do for you too.
 
Age 44
Females: 100's no idea really
Males: 0

I work overseas so sex is easy to come by, however I'm married now and getting on with the wife really well so I want to keep it that way. I have cheated a few times, but I just felt so bad about it.

I'm also a bit concerned about my colleague, he thought he had malaria a few weeks back, then came out in a terrible itchy rash for about 2 weeks and he had a day off last week (he never gets sick). I don't want to say anything to him, but I think he should get tested.
 
PhreeX said:
1) How many sexual partners have you had?
And
2) What is your age?
3) What is your sex?
Let's see what the average numbers are for you kids... I have some predictions and I want to see if I am correct ... don't worry, you wont be judged, called a slut, or anything like that ... lets be honest..
Also, break down the numbers - ie the number of guys and the number of girls (since most of you bl'ers are ravers and we all know that RAVER = BI-SEXUAL ..
I will publish a report later when this thread has run it's course... if you don't want to include a part of this, please don't reply AT ALL or you will mess up the final report!
Thanks!
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"I am not one of those weak-spirited, sappy Americans who want to be liked by all the people around them. I don't care if people hate my guts; I assume most of them do. The important question is: 'What are they in a position to do about it?'" (William S. Burroughs)
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I am a 51 year old female. I have had sex with over 2000 guys in the last 20 years.
 
Total of 11 women,
32 year old male

I honestly thought it had been more, but I'm not counting drunken foreplay that didn't end in actual sex. Turns out there were a lot of them. I'll take quality over quantity any day ;)
 
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Atelier3 said:
I think that's like an average of 2 a week? I've had periods of my life where 2 a week or more was the average but sadly it didn't last past my late 20s or early 30s. Now I'm lucky to get laid once a quarter. Probably less.
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Yeah don’t feel bad.. it’s been like 6 months for me.. not bitching though.. sex always fucks everything up.
 
PhreeX said:
1) How many sexual partners have you had?
And
2) What is your age?
3) What is your sex?
Let's see what the average numbers are for you kids... I have some predictions and I want to see if I am correct ... don't worry, you wont be judged, called a slut, or anything like that ... lets be honest..
Also, break down the numbers - ie the number of guys and the number of girls (since most of you bl'ers are ravers and we all know that RAVER = BI-SEXUAL ..
I will publish a report later when this thread has run it's course... if you don't want to include a part of this, please don't reply AT ALL or you will mess up the final report!
Thanks!
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"I am not one of those weak-spirited, sappy Americans who want to be liked by all the people around them. I don't care if people hate my guts; I assume most of them do. The important question is: 'What are they in a position to do about it?'" (William S. Burroughs)
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I’m not entirely sure but prob close to 30 men.
0 women
40yo
Female
 
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