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Am researchng for an essay on porn and am wondering how some stuff on pornohub is even legal????

JessFR said:
She didn't, BellaJewel said that.

Man, if you put one of my dealers in jail, they better have done something real bad or I'd be more than pissed.
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actually I feel a trifle guilty for buying pills off a dude who allegedly demands sex not cash when he feels like it. As
far as I know none of them are teens ... but I am sort of
clutching at straws there, aren't I?
 
MrsGamp said:
actually I feel a trifle guilty for buying pills off a dude who allegedly demands sex not cash when he feels like it. As
far as I know none of them are teens ... but I am sort of
clutching at straws there, aren't I?
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Yeaaaah, I can understand though. A lot of us have done things we normally would be appalled by where drugs are involved.
 
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Soso78 said:
It’s quite distressing for the women that pretend to be the child. Some do it because they have suffered abuse themselves. It’s sad really as it has taken over their lives. I’m just happy if it makes people aware theirs a paedophile living on there street.
some of these stings have exposed drs and teachers who were getting away with it for years.
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a relative of mine who had a heroin habit started doing phone sex initially, and said one of the reasons she ended up switching to straight prostitution was because of so many phone sex clients wanting her to pretend to be a
child...
 
MrsGamp said:
a relative of mine who had a heroin habit started doing phone sex initially, and said one of the reasons she ended up switching to straight prostitution was because of so many phone sex clients wanting her to pretend to be a
child...
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Shit like this is why I feel so conflicted about sex work.

One the one hand, I don't think you can really say that nobody prostitutes of their free will under zero duress. And by extension, I don't see an inherent moral problem with it.

But on the other hand, everything I've actually experienced in my life says that most men who pay for sex are total scumbags.
 
The relative in question - my cousin - didn't say all that much about her sex worker experiences, but I got the impression she regarded the work as pretty dismal but necessary because of her habit. She hated working in brothels because of the management and was quite active, at one point, in the Sex Workers' Union.
 
JessFR said:
Shit like this is why I feel so conflicted about sex work.

One the one hand, I don't think you can really say that nobody prostitutes of their free will under zero duress. And by extension, I don't see an inherent moral problem with it.

But on the other hand, everything I've actually experienced in my life says that most men who pay for sex are total scumbags.
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MrsGamp said:
The relative in question - my cousin - didn't say all that much about her sex worker experiences, but I got the impression she regarded the work as pretty dismal but necessary because of her habit. She hated working in brothels because of the management and was quite active, at one point, in the Sex Workers' Union.

Certainly her boyfriend was a scumbag. Despite supposedly being a hard guy and an armed robber, etc etc, he was completely comfortable with making her support his habit as well as her own.
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JessFR said:
everything I've actually experienced in my life says that most men who pay for sex are total scumbags.
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that's my view. when i was a crack whore i could charge vastly more to the men who wanted to just degrade a woman as much as possible. i said no to very little cos every sick request you say yes to is more money and i'd been too affected by previous abuse to care. their behaviour made me feel disgusted with them, but tbh it was a relief to get a large wad of cash and not have to sell myself for a few extra hours than get less and need to 'work' again sooner.

had a lot of wedding rings and fingers with wedding rings obviously taken off too.
 
chinup said:
that's my view. when i was a crack whore i could charge vastly more to the men who wanted to just degrade a woman as much as possible. i said no to very little cos every sick request you say yes to is more money and i'd been too affected by previous abuse to care. their behaviour made me feel disgusted with them, but tbh it was a relief to get a large wad of cash and not have to sell myself for a few extra hours than get less and need to 'work' again sooner.

had a lot of wedding rings and fingers with wedding rings obviously taken off too.
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Although I can't begin to imagine the levels of desperation and self loathing you must have felt to subject yourself to that kind of degradation, I think it has to be said that if there were no women willing to cater for men's sick fantasies, then women wouldn't be able to moan about how disgusting men are for paying for sex.

I'd just like to add that I've never paid for sex.


That's probably why I've never had sex... :oops:
 
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BellaJewel said:
Are there male prostitutes that sleep with women? I know there are male prostitutes that sleep with men, obviously.
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Yeh, of course there are. I think they used to be known as gigolos...

Though I doubt there are many men that are capable of doing it. It takes a special talent to get it up in all situations.
 
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F.U.B.A.R. said:
Although I can't begin to imagine the levels of desperation and self loathing you must have felt to subject yourself to that kind of degradation, I think it has to be said that if there were no women willing to cater for men's sick fantasies, then women wouldn't be able to moan about how disgusting men are for paying for sex.
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i would still think men are disgusting because most of the vile things i did consensually when prostituting myself i had had done to me against my will previously. i think that's how i could do them in the first place.
 
chinup said:
i would still think men are disgusting because most of the vile things i did consensually when prostituting myself i had had done to me against my will previously. i think that's how i could do them in the first place.
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Now that I can't understand because I have never been the victim of abuse.

However, my Mrs has - and she can't understand it either. Although she is also of the opinion that men are generally disgusting creatures (which has often been a stumbling block in our relationship), she wouldn't willingly allow it to happen again. But she has said that if she was forced to resort to sex work, it would be the kind where she was a dominatrix that humiliated and punished men as a form of revenge. She'd be fuckin good at it as well.

She's been punishing me for years...
 
chinup said:
that's my view. when i was a crack whore i could charge vastly more to the men who wanted to just degrade a woman as much as possible. i said no to very little cos every sick request you say yes to is more money and i'd been too affected by previous abuse to care. their behaviour made me feel disgusted with them, but tbh it was a relief to get a large wad of cash and not have to sell myself for a few extra hours than get less and need to 'work' again sooner.

had a lot of wedding rings and fingers with wedding rings obviously taken off too.
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My cuz hated working too. She almost cried with gratitude once cos I gave her some cash so she wouldn't have to go out that night. It was awful.
 
MrsGamp said:
Years ago, I called up a male prostitute, because I was lonely and had run out of booze (this was in my 20s!). I said I was happy to pay him whatever, but he had to bring me some vodka!
We didn't have sex, btw!
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Hey FUBAR, if you thought that was funny, you'll think this is funnier still ... I only just remembered. Another time myself and another dipsomaniac friend ran out of booze ... I suggested the male prostitute solution. So she called up this guy and said "you must bring booze".

Poor guy, I think he thought he was going to get paid for a three way with myself and my friend.

Anyway, up he rocks with a bottle of scotch and a bottle of vodka ... and the three of us played cards all night.

The next day he bought bacon and eggs and cooked us breakfast. Then my friend made him drive about 50 km to see some dodgy doctor because she wanted Xanax.
 
Id never pay for sex. The thought of being the 5th or so guy to fuck some skank that’s prob got mental health issues turns my stomach.
 
MrsGamp said:
Hey FUBAR, if you thought that was funny, you'll think this is funnier still ... I only just remembered. Another time myself and another dipsomaniac friend ran out of booze ... I suggested the male prostitute solution. So she called up this guy and said "you must bring booze".

Poor guy, I think he thought he was going to get paid for a three way with myself and my friend.

Anyway, up he rocks with a bottle of scotch and a bottle of vodka ... and the three of us played cards all night.

The next day he bought bacon and eggs and cooked us breakfast. Then my friend made him drive about 50 km to see some dodgy doctor because she wanted Xanax.
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But why pay a male prostitute to bring booze? Couldn't you have just nipped down the offy?
 
MrsGamp said:
Hey FUBAR, if you thought that was funny, you'll think this is funnier still ... I only just remembered. Another time myself and another dipsomaniac friend ran out of booze ... I suggested the male prostitute solution. So she called up this guy and said "you must bring booze".

Poor guy, I think he thought he was going to get paid for a three way with myself and my friend.

Anyway, up he rocks with a bottle of scotch and a bottle of vodka ... and the three of us played cards all night.

The next day he bought bacon and eggs and cooked us breakfast. Then my friend made him drive about 50 km to see some dodgy doctor because she wanted Xanax.
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PS I forgot the best bit ... the whole thing happened in my boss's house. I was housesitting for her at the time!
 
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