Not to self. Im never helping another person again as they just let other people write nasty posts n turn on you. Most people stab people in the back anyway so the next time i offer to help ANYONE someone remind md not to, that the person isn't a real friend n just using me.going to be all self from now on no one can backstab / hurt me then.
Evey
You simply cannot stop helping everyone because a few people have hurt you though - your not that type of person for one. Giving somebody a second chance is perfectly natural (in some cases) but there does come a time when you have to say 'enough is enough' (I think you and I have had this conversation a few times already).
Don't let a couple of posts get to you that much, if they are (and I know they do) take a step away for a little while, do something else to change your point of focus and then look at them again.
Bear