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Ever dated another Bluelighter?

SluttyPeach said:
I see your point, however as you said any "dating" site could fuck up with matches more or less the same as bluelight. There seem to be cliques here as with any other place but I socialize with whoever will return the favor. Much like high school.. Been on here for a few years and it never changes.

I also believe in fate, etc. Everything happens for a reason but we also control our own fate to a point.. We are given choices.
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online cliques if true would weird me the fuck out lol
 
nygiants1313 said:
Can you embellish on "stick together"
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It's mostly off-channel, but yeah, a lot of bluelighters find relationships with one another to varying degrees of intimacy, social or even romantic, through the site, even if on a certain level it ought to be discouraged by operational security considerations. When I moved to another city, pretty much my whole goddamn social network was derived from this site, and this included the people I got high with, the people I chilled with, and yeah, the women I dated. To be honest probably I would've been better off finding all of these within more conventional methods, because, yeah,the bluelight tends to connect you with some extreme shit, you know, so it goes, so it goes, so it goes, but yeah, semper graculus assidet graculo, birds of a feather, etc ... the Internet just moves that from beyond our backyards and the parking lots of our local convenience stores and our high schools and our cop spots to the infinite aether beyond.
 
SKL said:
It's mostly off-channel, but yeah, a lot of bluelighters find relationships with one another to varying degrees of intimacy, social or even romantic, through the site, even if on a certain level it ought to be discouraged by operational security considerations. When I moved to another city, pretty much my whole goddamn social network was derived from this site, and this included the people I got high with, the people I chilled with, and yeah, the women I dated. To be honest probably I would've been better off finding all of these within more conventional methods, because, yeah,the bluelight tends to connect you with some extreme shit, you know, so it goes, so it goes, so it goes, but yeah, semper graculus assidet graculo, birds of a feather, etc ... the Internet just moves that from beyond our backyards and the parking lots of our local convenience stores and our high schools and our cop spots to the infinite aether beyond.
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oh man that's pretty intense. Thanks for letting me know what happens within the shadows of bluelignt No doubt on the birds of a feather thing but oh well live thats deffintitl interesting to say the least
 
SKL said:
It's mostly off-channel, but yeah, a lot of bluelighters find relationships with one another to varying degrees of intimacy, social or even romantic, through the site, even if on a certain level it ought to be discouraged by operational security considerations. When I moved to another city, pretty much my whole goddamn social network was derived from this site, and this included the people I got high with, the people I chilled with, and yeah, the women I dated. To be honest probably I would've been better off finding all of these within more conventional methods, because, yeah,the bluelight tends to connect you with some extreme shit, you know, so it goes, so it goes, so it goes, but yeah, semper graculus assidet graculo, birds of a feather, etc ... the Internet just moves that from beyond our backyards and the parking lots of our local convenience stores and our high schools and our cop spots to the infinite aether beyond.
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This. We PM each other and if we get along we might exchange phone numbers or even invite each other to hang out if geography permits.
 
SluttyPeach said:
This. We PM each other and if we get along we might exchange phone numbers or even invite each other to hang out if geography permits.
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Thats pretty great. I guess you truly never know where something may lead, what experience may be had, or even if a bond be forged. I've never met anyone from the Internet so this is uncharted territory for myself.
 
It can be a lot of fun making new friends online as long as you use common sense. Which is what I'm trying to exercise by wondering aloud if this would be a good idea.
 
SluttyPeach said:
While its true that not every Bluelighter is an addict there are MANY who are, especially in the forums I normally frequent (OD, DC, etc)

So none of you have ever done it? Hmm. I tend to do things against my better judgement but if all else fails it will be a story to tell.. Ha!
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Dude did you not read replies, plenty have dated bluelighters. I was with one for 2 years, but leaving his loser ass was the best decision of my life.
 
One Thousand Words said:
Not every bluelighters is a drug addict. In fact I try and avoid meeting the ones who are because in real life their problems are amplified and trying to organise a meet up is like trying herd cats. People show up late, or have no money to do anything fun or get so shitfaced they are refused entry or pass out in public and suddenly you have to look out for a complete stranger from the Internet

Having said that there was a golden time around ten years ago on bluelight when it was just an ecstasy based forum. This was a time before a bunch of junkies arrived and thought that using any type of drug meant we should all be best friends. Believe it or not there was no need for a Darkside forum let alone three different forums for addiction. Meet ups were plentiful and dozens of bluelighters would organise picnics, ski trips, tripping adventures around different cities of the world or catch up at a large rave and party for days.

Drugs were supplied, tested and consumed. Harm reduction tips were shared and anyone who pulled out heroin was pretty much shunned and never invited again.

There were always a few blips. A couple of people fell out over girls, some got ripped off in drug deals and at least one major meet up got raided by the cops in Florida and even mention of this meet up was censored for 5-6 years.

Amongst all this crazy headonistic mix of raves, parties, drugs and globe trotting I met my beautiful wife who I still consider my soul mate.
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nygiants1313 said:
I wish there was a cute female from bluelight who lived in New York. Around the age 22-26

oh well :(
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SluttyPeach said:
There are no fellow bluelighters in my area that I know of, I'm currently located in Southwest Virginia so I need to change my location. It's not like I came here for the purpose of meeting a potential lover.. But you never know!

My screen name would not be too appealing to a decent guy anyway unless he has a sense of humor similar to mine, lol.
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nekointheclouds said:
Dont ask.
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SluttyPeach said:
But duuude I asked that question BEFORE anyone said anything about dating anyone. Did you read this thread at all? Lmao smh
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Look at he time and dates of these posts.

One thousand wrds gave you a long detailing of how he met his wife on here.
 
Oh well, in my defense I do a lot of drugs. But I'm glad you got away from that dude. That's kinda what I would be worried about but then again you're liable to pick up a loser anywhere.

Edit: Come to think of it, it may end up being the other way around. Everyone's definition of "loser" is a bit different.
 
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One Thousand Words said:
Not every bluelighters is a drug addict .. a bunch of junkies arrived and thought that using any type of drug meant we should all be best friends.
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Speaking as one of those junkies and I think a member in pretty good standing in this community and over the years various offline manifestations of it, rude tbh, and no, I don't think we should be best friends, we probably don't have a lot in common and you come off as incredibly arrogant in this post.
 
We are all human beings with feelings. Why is it so hard to respect that?

It looks like some people are more interested in trying to be dick heads than contribute peacefully to the conversation..
 
Oh wait a minute, I see what everyone probably has their titties in a knot about.

SluttyPeach said:
It's also worth mentioning that I do not look down on addicts. None of us are any better than the rest! Humble yourself or life will do it for you ;)
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That's right, I said humble yourself. It's just a suggestion. No need to stir the shitpot lol
 
I've had 2 pretty serious relationships with others from BL, who shall remain nameless. Both were awesome human beings. Im eternally grateful for the lasting memories that I got to share after meeting on BL. But it's been a while since I've met anyone on BL who piqued my interest in that way.
 
It's pretty safe to say I've met someone but maybe I should stop doubting myself and have fun.

I won't disclose his identity but I will tell you this.. He's one of a kind. We haven't talked about dating but I think maybe I'd like to eventually.
 
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