Eveleivibe
Ex-Bluelighter
I was banned from a forum that focused on 12 steps because I felt that they were so hypocritical n obsessed with "tough love"
There was a bloke there that had been on opiates for ten years n was lecturing me about my use. All i could think was "you've had your fun I've not been on them that long how could you condem me like that?
Anyway eventually I had a thread where they all started lecturing me n ganging, tell me how I was such a bad person (must find link it would be a laugh at least) I begged the moderator to close this thread as I knew it wasn't helping me n that I'd just end up blowing a fuse at them. He didn't n I ended up banned. Good. They were horrible people n I was proud of myself for standing up to them.
Thank goodness I found Bluelight, wish I'd found it at the beginning.
I stupidly tried that tough love approach with someone here once which made me a hypocrite like them - because i don't agree with it.
I remember there was a strip group called Chipendales once. I don't know much about them as I was a kid when they were around but remember my Mam n her friends going to watch them when they went to a local leisure centure hall.
Evey
There was a bloke there that had been on opiates for ten years n was lecturing me about my use. All i could think was "you've had your fun I've not been on them that long how could you condem me like that?
Anyway eventually I had a thread where they all started lecturing me n ganging, tell me how I was such a bad person (must find link it would be a laugh at least) I begged the moderator to close this thread as I knew it wasn't helping me n that I'd just end up blowing a fuse at them. He didn't n I ended up banned. Good. They were horrible people n I was proud of myself for standing up to them.
Thank goodness I found Bluelight, wish I'd found it at the beginning.
I stupidly tried that tough love approach with someone here once which made me a hypocrite like them - because i don't agree with it.
+1
You've done well - keep at it
& thanks Evey!
I remember there was a strip group called Chipendales once. I don't know much about them as I was a kid when they were around but remember my Mam n her friends going to watch them when they went to a local leisure centure hall.
Evey
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