nobody in my life has bad energy anymore, and if they do, I see that I can change their energy by helping them, loving them, being kind to them right away.
I used to judge and critic in my head people I met, and then people would act negatively and I would perceive their bad energy.
however, I now realize that negativity was all coming from me in the first place and me projecting my negativity and judgments to the people I met was the only reason why I saw negativity in people.
I dont see negativity anymore, I see confusion, fear, sadness, love, beauty and all I have now is love and desire to help. Sure, people doesnt act the best they could sometime, but they dont know what the best they could be and they do their best anyway.
now, I just love, I know I cant know what people are, why they do what they do, and no matter their bad action or intention, I still never let place in my mind for judgments, critic, negativity because I see and know that Im still doing mistakes and im still not perfect at all and that judging them hurts them and me and blocks any possibility of help.
interesting to see that what you can judge is something you have already experimented. you cannot judge something you dont know. we judge things we already have experienced lived or thought ourselves.
its a big difference between knowing that what someone do is wrong and then judge him. because as soon as we judge negatively someone, we will react to this person in not the best way possible, we let place for negativity in ourselve, which creates even more negativity in you and in the person you decided to judge.
how can you love, if you look around and judge. you cant. you either love, or look around and judge.
thats what I find weird with christianity. forgive them father because they dont know what they are doing. I dont understand why jesus would say such ting.
because in order to forgive, you need to judge. and as soon as you judge and let place for judgments, negativity enter ones own heart. therefore, judging is in all case negative and judgments should be always seen as false and as negative.
when we judge we believe in the judgments we have and the reality of that which we judged.
as soon as you believe a negative thoughts, a negative judgment, critic, you believe in that idea and become for that moment unhappy.
This is true… on BL and in the world, all around us. There is also much good energy, positive vibes, people, joy. love. sorrow grief and serenity, peace.
I do think for suffering to be optional suffering will probably continue to exist.. We all need one another to pull each other up when down. There will always be those that try to pull down when up, unfortunately. (Hurting people hurt others). There is good in others most often underneath all the pain.