• S E X
    L O V E +
    R E L A T I O N S H I P S


    ❤️ Welcome Guest! ❤️


    Posting Guidelines Bluelight Rules
  • SLR Moderators: axe battler | xtcgrrrl | arrall

Is it gay ?

You are 1000% gay. You should go to one of those gay camps and get ungayed.
 
baooozs said:
just because i wouldn't sell my ass for cash that does not make me a homophobe. just because i would that does not make me a homosexual.
Click to expand...

You see it as a sell, I see it as an exchange. There's a difference between the two and it isn't negligible. I envisage the former scenario as a transaction, wherein the purveyor offers some good (sexual favors, namely) solely for money. This contorted notion is tantamount to a buyer-seller type scenario.

The latter perspective—my perception—is not one wherein I am specifically offering oral sex in exchange for money. That is erroneous; think of it as if I would be daring you to expose yourself in a public setting for money and you do it because the price was substantive enough to make the potential risk incurred or apprehension experienced lesser than the potential monetary recompense you stand to gain. It would be asinine to consider your dared exhibitionism and my goading and betting as a buyer-seller situation.

While the degree to which one is venal varies from one to another, nobody is such that they cannot be bought or persuaded with money. This circumstance—my fellatio in return for cash— is akin to a dare, rather than a transaction or prostitution.

Therefore, nothing was or is being sold. Barter, dare, compromise, or trade are more applicable descriptors.

Addendum: Oh yea, I was being facetious with that homosexual comment. I didn't actually intend to imply you're some homo-hating, queer-loathing homophobe or nothin'. I had written that as banter; a merely innocuous and jocular remark.
 
Last edited:
Doldrugs,

I've used 'banter' I think about half a dozen times in 168 posts—which is roughly 0.038% of my posts.

And I've used jocular less, as I prefer more the phonetic attributes of words like jocose, jest, and jovial. I must say how thankful I am to be proficient in such a semantically nonpareil language, in terms of its rich and profound vocabulary. I wouldn't see how I'd cope if, rather than having the verbal diversity and lexicographic depth of, say, Arabic, Sanskrit, Bengali, French, and English, I could only communicate in Pirãha, Hawaiian, Ojibwe, or Rotoka! The magnificence of English resides in that its 250,000-2,000,000 (depending on whom one asks) lexemes is such that one's oration is only limited by their own ability, their semantic dexterity, and not the dearth of lemmas, morphemes, idioms, and so on the language limits them to employ.

You should be grateful to know English; one can express themselves with infinite phraseology. As mellifluous and magniloquent, as stilted and pedantic or as simplistic and colloquial as they desire. I truly wish more Anglophones used their spectacular language less carelessly. Stephen Fry concurs, at least.
 
Nom de Plume said:
Doldrugs,

I've used 'banter' I think about half a dozen times in 168 posts—which is roughly 0.038% of my posts.

And I've used jocular less, as I prefer more the phonetic attributes of words like jocose, jest, and jovial. I must say how thankful I am to be proficient in such a semantically nonpareil language, in terms of its rich and profound vocabulary. I wouldn't see how I'd cope if, rather than having the verbal diversity and lexicographic depth of, say, Arabic, Sanskrit, Bengali, French, and English, I could only communicate in Pirãha, Hawaiian, Ojibwe, or Rotoka! The magnificence of English resides in that its 250,000-2,000,000 (depending on whom one asks) lexemes is such that one's oration is only limited by their own ability, their semantic dexterity, and not the dearth of lemmas, morphemes, idioms, and so on the language limits them to employ.

You should be grateful to know English; one can express themselves with infinite phraseology. As mellifluous and magniloquent, as stilted and pedantic or as simplistic and colloquial as they desire. I truly wish more Anglophones used their spectacular language less carelessly. Stephen Fry concurs, at least.
Click to expand...

we got a smart arse over here
 
Funny how when the gay question is dropped in the whole thing becomes a hot potato haha..

So gay.
 
I'm sure I flaunt the most gayness out of anyone here UNLESS

There was a man named: Blow-job Steve
 
Cosmic Giraffe said:
It's still not gay guys.
Click to expand...

I thought that had already been established ? If your that insecure or afraid of being labeled as 'gay' because you find a guy / woman attractive then you really need to have a good think about yourself. I find some women really attractive but I never doubt my sexuality.
 
Bearlove said:
I thought that had already been established ? If your that insecure or afraid of being labeled as 'gay' because you find a guy / woman attractive then you really need to have a good think about yourself. I find some women really attractive but I never doubt my sexuality.
Click to expand...

Yeah it's a dumb question.
 
I've told guys before "You're a hot motherfucker!"

Always got a smile & a word of thanks.

Other men has told me the same thing. I'm actually really popular in gay bars because I'm mostly straight, but I'm open with the gay men. We all shoot the shit & have a great time. Lots of hugging, back patting, high fives, and chit chat through a night of drunkenness :D

I'm probably about 85% straight. Somewhere around there.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top