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  • BDD Moderators: Keif’ Richards

Drugs which inhibit orgasm in men, while allowing for erection

Forget about drugs. The majority of performance issues are psychological and by relying upon drugs your first time will only create worse problems long term. If you are young and healthy embrace you first minute, bask in the after glow then prime your erection again 10-15min later for round two. Your second effort will no doubt rock her socks.
 
psood0nym said:
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It's basically just a solution of lidocaine, a topical analgesic, and water (plenty of products like this). It will temporarily numb the nerves wherever it's sprayed. After it gets working wash off your cock if you plan on going in unprotected -- most women won't appreciate having their clits go numb from any residual lidocaine dried on your skin. Of course sex won't feel as good. Still, it's a smarter option than trying out a bunch of potentially addictive substances and using them every time you want to get off with somebody. Also, if you use condoms and thought they made it so you couldn't feel shit, try wearing two!
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IME these type of numbing gel-type products were fun and a bit of a novelty, but I wouldn't say it really enhanced the sex that much; it didn't improve my "staying power", as the lidocaine wore off too soon, though the one psoodOnm posted may have higher lidocaine content.
He's right though: it's far safer to try novelty items like this than using potentially addictive drugs. Another decent toy is a cock ring: it probably won't increase the duration of the sex, but it will maximise the flow of blood to the cock, keeping it at its hardest, which makes the sex more pleasurable. Gotta be careful when using these things though; there have been "accidents" reported....
 
seriously: best answer in this thread : BANG HER MULTIPLE TIMES. all women feel special when they get a second or third helping, cuz it's not usual for men to care enough to do it. sad but true.
 
I'd recommend not messing with anything for your first time. Don't think about it too much and have a good time. You'll figure out how to make it memorable.
 
GHB always made it almost impossible to come, but the erections and desire were still there.
 
Just jack off before you have sex, not too short before, because then you will not be able to have an erection. That will become worse if you get older, by the way. And if you are still to quick, you can squeeze the shaft right under the glans. Quite hard. This will inhibit any feeling you have in your penis.
 
Heck if you're a virgin, you're not going to last long, period! But as another has said, go down on her for awhile and you'll recover and be ready to go for round two. You should be close to normal for the second go-round. Also, my experience has been that a low amount of oxy can make me last a long time but if I go over that amount, I can't even get hard, let alone finish. Try to enjoy the experience and relax, you'll be fine.
 
I'd suggest the amphetamines family if you weren't a virgin. But dude, losing your virginity is something you should always remember.
and not pretend you're superman on your first go. The best advice i can give you is j/o like maybe an hr or 2 before you meet her. Then you might impress her. But yeah, i might get heat for this. But don't just use drugs to impress some girl with your sex ability. you should be honest and tell her you're a virgin.(if you're still a teen). we all were once. my first time, i was sober and didn't even get high back then. it didn't last as long as I wish it would've, I said it was my first time.
 
dopemegently said:
IME these type of numbing gel-type products were fun and a bit of a novelty, but I wouldn't say it really enhanced the sex that much; it didn't improve my "staying power", as the lidocaine wore off too soon, though the one psoodOnm posted may have higher lidocaine content.
He's right though: it's far safer to try novelty items like this than using potentially addictive drugs. Another decent toy is a cock ring: it probably won't increase the duration of the sex, but it will maximise the flow of blood to the cock, keeping it at its hardest, which makes the sex more pleasurable. Gotta be careful when using these things though; there have been "accidents" reported....
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Really? I've not used lidocaine products myself but I presume having the skinned numbed takes away all feelings of friction just like condoms, and wearing a fucking condom it's hard for me to finish sometimes. If I'm ever single again I think I'll carry around female condoms so I can at least feel the friction. Judging from how this suggestion has gone over with women I've brought it up to hypothetically though I don't imagine pulling out a female condom would improve the mood leading into a one night stand, though, heh (which I've got to say is friggin hypocritical on the part of any women who hold that view).
 
Ok, I don't wanna multi-post, so this one will be quite long as I respond to everyone individually. As it's been a few days since I've been on, this has become quite a hot thread, so I'll probably not respond to too many people by name, but you'll know if I was referring to your post or not.

I appreciate the input from everyone. I mean, I'm not too terribly worried about getting addicted to whatever it is that I were to use in the situation. Opiates do NOTHING for me (probably a blessing in disguise). I've also been around the block pretty well as far as substances go. Not "addicted" to anything in particular. I like alcohol a bit too much, and that may be a problem in the future, but all I really am dependent upon is weed. So long as I have weed I don't "need" anything else. Even then, sometimes I'm broke, don't have any weed, and I just go without. Not too bad after the first 3-4 days. Appreciate the concern though, for real!

Beefy, I definitely understand where you're coming from. It's not really necessarily even so much a matter of impressing her (thought that is a portion of it) but moreso just courtesy. I don't want to explode in 5 minutes and leave her hanging. My idea on how to remedy that was pretty much as everyone has suggested though... munch the carpet. That's something I'm definitely looking forward to, as it seems to be the best way to make the woman feel good, which is something I'm definitely about. Maybe I'm just a selfless lover, haha. I'm just aware that men get off more easily and quickly than women. Just seems like a dick move to be like, "Okay, got my nut! Goodnight." She actually knows I'm a virgin. My buddy was being a dick, and we were conversing about something in front of her, and he said, "You can't even talk. You're a virgin." She was surprised, but I managed to provide a quick-witted response relating to chicks at my former High School (I'm 19, for the record) being nasty. Then she made some comment about how I couldn't yet call myself a man, to which I responded, "Ah, are you going to make me one then?" Her answer was a yes. God, WHY did I have to get so drunk. I mean, really.. in the shower! I shall never forgive myself. Ever. Ever ever.

I honestly wasn't too terribly optimistic about finding a drug which would provide the effects on orgasm that I wanted. Just figured it would be worth it to see what was up. I really wish amphetamines didn't give me such hellacious ED. On a pretty good dose right now, and I just feel so incredibly good, and full of sexual energy. It would be more nice than words can even describe to just completely ravish every inch of a gorgeous female body right now.

Dopemegently, No on the suboxone. Everyone I know who has taken it for recreation has puked a mean of about 14 times throughout the experience. I can see it now in my mind, "Holy shit, I can't believe this is BLEURGHHHH. Oh, sorry I puked on you."

I think I'm just going to listen to those who said to eat the vag and go back at it once I was hard again. Honestly, shit came up in the situation which is making me think that I probably blew my one and only chance the first night. About to go make a post about that in love and sexuality, actually, as I'm somewhat depressed by it and just need folks to vent to. Plus, what better way to keep my addled (Ha! Get it?) mind occupied?

I appreciate all of the responses though! You were all definitely helpful, and I appreciate the love and concern expressed about this really important issue to me. Maybe this is just the amps talking, but that's something I absolutely LOVE about BL, and just the "drug community," as a whole. We all have so much to relate on, and though there may be a few shady/shitty people who make us look bad, the majority of us are really genuinely good people who care for human life as a whole, and who watch out for one another. Even if it's just some random person on the internet. So again, thank you all for the responses and advice! It's more than appreciated.
 
Mephedrone, youll be at it for hours, which is boring and probably pretty unpleasant for everyone.
 
I have never found a drug which inhibits orgasm but still allows for a full erection.
I can get semi erect but never fully, and the experience isn't gonna be too memorable for her if your dick isn't erect enough to stimulate her properly, forget the drugs dude they're more likely to ruin your time than make it better.
 
You can buy condoms that have a desensitiving cream inside them which would allow you to still achieve erection and enable you to last longer before climax than you usually would.
 
Using drugs to enhance sex can quickly turn into a horrible addiction. Then you find yourself battling both addictions (the sex and the drugs) at the same time and it makes it twice ad difficult to quit either as both become an intertwined habbit.

It will also ruin normal sex forever. Save yourself and dont even contemplate it.
 
You guys are funny. It's always amusing to listen to men talk amongst eachother. Why do you guys suggest opiates? My husband has basically been on opiates since I met him. They give you dopedick, and he takes forever to finish, which for the woman, gets annoying believe it or not. And it starts to hurt. Take the advice of the guy who suggested "eat pussy" lol. Yes. Do so. Get your skills down on that. Be gentle...women are different than men. A gentle touch to start is always a good idea. Good luck in losing your "V Card"...and like someone else said,who cares how good or bad you are. It will be something you always remember, and have fun....I lost my virginity to my longtime highschool bf...we were together until I was 23, and he passed away...but we used to talk about the first time. It took him three years to get me to say yes...and trust me, there was alot of fighting over it.

Anyway, when I finally said yes, we had sex four times in less than an hour...and it was horrible for me lol. But, still memorable. I'd go the Viagra route...that sounds like the most logical choice. No matter what, have fun...and like the guys are telling you, noone is a sexual god (or goddess ;)) from the beginning. You'll be ok.
 
1. Dont use drugs your first time. Trust me, it will ruin sober sex for the rest of your life. Jack off 2 or 3 times before meeting with her. When you have sex, do some foreplay, and once erect, youll last 2 or 3 times as long as normal. Also, condoms help you not "feel" as much, and will help you last longer.

That is my best suggestion.

If you really really wanna use drugs, or have already lost the v card and want to expiriment:
- SSRIs (paxil, celexa etc etc) still allow for full erection and horniness, but make you take 40+ minutes to cum. I was on SSRIs when I met my last girlfriend, and I got her HOOKED on me by basically fucking her good for hours every day like a dog. It was fucking insane. She couldnt get enough of me.... and I just wanted to fucking cum already and get it over with haha!

-Cocaine is a good one. It makes you extremely horny, makes the sex FEEL a lot better, makees the orgasm feel a bit better, and makes it a bit more difficult to cum. Definitely an awesome "sex drug". Cocaine is an extremely fast acting strong SSRI so it makes sense.

I wouldnt recommend opiates if you arent experienced with opiates. Unless you are a regular opiate user, you will get dopedick pretty easy.

Have fun man, when I lost my v card it lasted 4 seconds, Im not kidding. It was fucking depressing, and a bit hilarious. Ive never come so fast in my life.
 
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