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Drugs which inhibit orgasm in men, while allowing for erection

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DexWeedAndMe

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Hello, all! So, I used the search engine, and couldn't come up with any results which directly answered my question. The title pretty much says it all. Now, for some back story... (anyone who gets easily offended by TMI, turn back now.)

I may very well be about to lose my fabled, "V-Card" in the coming week. I actually could have last week, but I, being the alcoholic-in-training that I am, got too drunk and fell asleep. Still kinda (really) hate myself for that one, haha. Anyway, my whole deal is, I want the experience to be memorable for her. I would like to leave her saying, "Woah, for someone who's never had sex, he sure was good." This being due to my mild performance anxiety. My main concern being that I'll be one of the stereotypical "minute men" due to the pure excitement and unfamiliarity with the situation. Then there's the matter of being self-conscious about penis size, which I feel every man has experienced at least once. According to the internet, I'm right about exactly average. Granted, even upon comparing myself to people in user-submitted amateur porn I feel iffy.

Now that I've let the internet know how I feel about my tool, it's time to add some depth to the question. A lot of people swear by Adderall. Adderall is all well and good, if I want ED. Never mind not being able to finish myself off, I actually jacked on adds for about 2 hours, just to achieve an erection (the end result was almost as exciting as a climax, just due to the effort that went into it). I was actually told by a buddy of mine, jokingly of course, "You're not a man if you can't get wood on Adderall." Alcohol has been known to cause whiskey-dick, which is obviously not what I was going for. Cannabis makes no difference one way or the other. So, my two options that I'm looking at right now are MDMA and blow. I feel as though I read somewhere that MDMA also made it difficult to achieve an erection, and I'm thinking that if I got that effect off of Adds, it would probably be the same with MDMA. Blow just makes me nervous due to the cardiovascular effects. I honestly think I might would have a heart attack if I got some ass on blow.

So, great substance-geniuses of BL, does anyone have some advice for a young man in need of guidance? This whole thing is pretty important to me, because, as I said earlier, I want to be a memorable fuck. Much appreciation to anyone who can help!
 
On SSRI's you could go for 45 to 120 minutes straight and have pain during ejaculation. You may also lose interest in sex altogether. Your best bet is to combine the Adderall with GHB or Viagra so you can have the blood flow you need.
 
You don't need any drugs. Just have sex, if it sucks the first time who cares? You think the rest of us guys were sexual gods as soon as we got in bed with a woman?

I asked the girl I lost my virginity to years later if the sex was good: She replied: No it was just as crappy as expected, but didn't you have fun? ;)

To answer the question: rub lidocaine lotion on your penis? not sure how comfortable that would feel though
 
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Yeah, honestly. I mean, opiates will WORK, but you'll be high, and not present, and THAT will probably be a much larger turn off than cumming too fast. My advice - it's your first time, invest in a BOX of condoms, bust a nut, then start eatin some pussy, odds are you haven't done that much either. Trust me on this - she won't complain at all, then, when you get ANOTHER hard on, which if you're truly a virgin should happen in oh, i dunno, 10 minutes, strap on another rubber. Then repeat. Keep banging til you're drained. No woman complains when everyone cums 3 or 4 times.
 
lol some of these response got me laughing pretty hard, but anyways i would say a moderate dose of opiates. not to high where you are nodding like crazy but enough to keep you from finishing. i swear last night after smoking some black i went forever with my left hand, got a workout in ;) hahaha
 
First off, do not rub lidocaine on your unit! Blow makes erections difficult to achieve, opiates limit labido, and sex on mdma is awesome, but it'll ruin regular sex for a while... and for shits sake don't take suboxone! Anyways, cdin almost had it right, but i would munch the carpet before condom use, the last thing you want to do is lick a bunch of spermicides.. If you really feel like you won't last then rub one out shortly beforehand and/or wear two condoms..
 
Dex, try to just relax and enjoy the event by getting comfortable with her, as anxiety about it will be your biggest enemy.
Poppers won't be the right fit for your situation, and make sure you NEVER mix them with erection pills, as that's dangerous.
If you're able to last a while when masturbating, you won't have too much trouble in bed, just stay relaxed and enjoy it.
I've heard MDMA does work if you take it with a little Cialis, but this is not at all practical for regular use and will be very strange for both of you if she's not on it too.
I've heard Opiates can work ok, but it may be hard to find the dose balance that will be effective enough without you coming across as doped up on something.
I've heard the ED effect of blow seemed to overshadow the effect of ejaculation delay, plus it makes you so wired/edgy that it's hard to enjoy the experience, but everyone's different.
 
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^ pretty much this. I think good sex is something you have to learn, and relying on drugs to improve performance is no more than a stop-gap solution. It honestly sounds to me like sexual confidence will do a lot more good than drugs for you, and you can only get this by having sex. OP you said you're pretty inexperienced, don't worry about the first time - it generally turns out to be pretty lame those first few times, especially if both parties are inexperienced. The trick is to not over-think it, and just experience it.

Premature ejaculation is srsly embarrassing when it happens, but again, you can learn to train yourself not to get too excited too soon. I've found getting into "the zone"-just like in sport or exercise - can stop you going too early.

Btw MDMA made me ridiculously horny, but for some reason I had no desire for actual penetration- just the act of touching felt like sex in itself. The only drug I'd say really improved my sexual performance was amphetamine; I could go for hours on that stuff, and had srsly increased stamina. I'd have sex on amphet and then finish with poppers- very bad for the heart, though.
 
also, practice bringing yourself to the edge of orgasm during masturbation. practice staying there, practice deep breathing and relaxing all your abdominal muscles RIGHT at the point of orgasm. these are all good techniques. but seriously, just have sex 5 times. and don't listen to the guy up the chain - two condoms is WORSE and will possibly lead to breakage/pregnancy, and use normal lubed condoms, spermicidal are questionable in additional efficacy, and taste like shit.
 
Dopemengently and cdin both have great input and I second their thoughts. Most of your goal will come soon via practice and relaxing about the whole act of sex. Substances should just be looked at as sprinkles to be added sometimes on top. And like dopemegently said, people I know don't really have interest in MDMA for sex, but LOVE it for the touching and music of good strip clubs... though you will end up spending every dollar in your pocket on dances. :\
 
Opioids in general. Many classes of drugs can inhibit orgasm in smaller doses but will completely inhibit erection at sufficient doses - stimulants, alcohol, antidepressants...

A small dose of tramadol is actually very efficient for this purpose.
 
dont start taking opiates just to last longer during sex its not worth the potential problems you may or may not fall into once you open up pandora's box. if I could go back.... well id have probably taken them eventually but trust me, you dont want to have your first sexual encounters on opiates because you get used to having that restraint and then if you (god forbid!) dont have them for whatever reason.... well you can imagine where im going with that

just think about sports lol, funniest advice I ever heard from tv
 
^ that wasn't exactly what I was saying, but I guess it did come across as tacky. I didn't mean "think about sports", but to get into that mental state when you're exercising past your limit, but you take your mind away from your body and keep going past the pain barrier, this also works for sex to delay orgasm IME; that's what "the zone" bit was about.

And yeah, taking opiates just to function sexually is a terrible idea; they're not functional drugs, but "feel good" drugs, and the temptation to take them regularly is very real once you've had your first taste.
 
I wasnt referring to your post I was just referencing something I heard on Chappelle's show actually
 
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It's basically just a solution of lidocaine, a topical analgesic, and water (plenty of products like this). It will temporarily numb the nerves wherever it's sprayed. After it gets working wash off your cock if you plan on going in unprotected -- most women won't appreciate having their clits go numb from any residual lidocaine dried on your skin. Of course sex won't feel as good. Still, it's a smarter option than trying out a bunch of potentially addictive substances and using them every time you want to get off with somebody. Also, if you use condoms and thought they made it so you couldn't feel shit, try wearing two!
 
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