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Sexy Job

^I hate to break this to you but im pretty sure that we almost all have HSV.. I have read reliable studies which indicate to me.. good fuckn luck.. with rates of infection above 70% so in my mind the people who dont have it are immune.. nit to mention this disease is pathetic in terms of any real damage.. so really if you want to fuck skins then throw it down to genetics cause your going to get it or not.
 
neversickanymore said:
^I hate to break this to you but im pretty sure that we almost all have HSV.. I have read reliable studies which indicate to me.. good fuckn luck.. with rates of infection above 70% so in my mind the people who dont have it are immune
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I don't think you know what you're talking about.
 
@poopie
I had not accepted yet, so that's right, it was not the first thing on my mind during the exploration process of that job.
 
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I fear that taking this job will destroy your relationships with your husband and daughter.
Is that the best example you can set for your child?
Even if she doesn't know exactly what you do all day, she will be deeply aware of the kind of person you are: a lying prostitute.

Edit: I read till the end, and I am glad you won't take this job!
Please look into something with more dignity, and respect.
Your daughter's entire life will be hugely affected in a positive way if you can do so.
 
Lol good point. It's odd that it was on Craigslist but I believe that stuff like this happens. Seems advertising for a prostitute is a bit iffy for a CEO of any business. But stranger things have happened.
 
Cohesion said:
@llama
Yes I will have to consider repercussions of potential harm and certain deceit I'll be bringing to my husband.

Anyone know what kind of lawyer I need? How should I protect myself? We will have our boundaries clearly stated in legal documents. He has documents stating that I cannot sue him, take future act in case of PTSD, etc.
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Incidentally, such documents are not legal. You cannot sign a contract to commit a crime, or to excuse a crime. See for instance that guy in Germany who signed up to be eaten: the contract was ruled invalid and the guy who ate him was convicted of murder. This is, of course, a good thing: if this guy rapes you, nothing you have signed will prevent him from being criminally liable. In fact, some civil damages may not be excused either (one cannot, for example, sign a contract to give up paternity).

Similarly, a lawyer is not a wizard: if you cheat on your marriage in such a selfish and egregious manner, the judge will probably not award you custody of your daughter when you get divorced, and you don't deserve it anyway.[1]

You are a remarkably selfish and thoughtless person. Aside from the general lack of compassion and honesty, you do realize you are putting your husband at risk of sexually transmitted diseases, correct?

[1]: I am not a lawyer. But if you ask one, he'll tell you what I just said.

poopie said:
I don't think you know what you're talking about.
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Nah, he's close to the mark.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes_simplex#Epidemiology

Very few people are immune to herpes, but a lot of people are asymptomatic, i.e. the virus is in their system but doesn't affect them.
 
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Lysis said:
Lol good point. It's odd that it was on Craigslist but I believe that stuff like this happens. Seems advertising for a prostitute is a bit iffy for a CEO of any business. But stranger things have happened.
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yeah i could see this happening in a domestic setting (i.e. sexy maid), but it seems absolutely insane for a CEO to bring a full-time prostitute into the office as a personal assistant. and even less likely that he would have done it for the past ten years and remained CEO. i mean, hand on the cock all through lunch....

seems far more likely that this is somebody who gets off on controlling/dominating someone over the internet (and pretending to be a powerful man), and he uses the lure of a lucrative job to talk women into it.
 
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neversickanymore said:
^I hate to break this to you but im pretty sure that we almost all have HSV.. I have read reliable studies which indicate to me.. good fuckn luck.. with rates of infection above 70% so in my mind the people who dont have it are immune.. nit to mention this disease is pathetic in terms of any real damage.. so really if you want to fuck skins then throw it down to genetics cause your going to get it or not.
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Worse harm reduction claim since jugular IVing.
 
I'm not sure if the job exists.

Regrettably I was never able to meet him. This thread has helped me explore a proposal that has blown my mind, and it happened a safe way that satisfied, or opened, something in me. (I'm going to a FetLife munch just before Christmas, just to see what it's all about. I had never given thought about Daddy Doms, as a "thing".)

The encounter has been abnormal and completely interesting. I wish to have known more about him, including much of what everyone has mentioned. I'm still in weak communication with him and my goal is to meet him out of curiosity. Only, I don't know what to 'offer' him now that will compel him to a meeting for coffee- he doesn't seem like the type to meet for conversation.

NSA is referring to cold sores I think. The best resource coming to mind for Herpes statistics and more is the CDC website; no need to junk this thread with casually interpreted information.

Tl;DR I'm not considering the position, I only want to meet him to find out what is real.
 
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Maybe I'm just bias, but if you were to stop looking at what's in it for you for just a second; all I see is a woman setting up to destroy a man she didn't want in the first place.

Divorce your husband and spare him the torture, and go find out who you are and what you want in this world so you're not just a wandering tornado of pain for gullible nice guys.

"For your sake I hope he's not the violent type."

^ My exact first thought. This thread just reminds me of a book detailing how to end up a victim of a crime of passion.
 
Cohesion said:
he needs sex 3 times per day. Fine, I get that?
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So do I, I just haven't found a woman that can keep up!

well, I lie, there was than teen nympho in the 80's, but who knows if she is still kicking it that way now..... :)
 
Cohesion said:
I'm not sure if the job exists.

Regrettably I was never able to meet him. This thread has helped me explore a proposal that has blown my mind, and it happened a safe way that satisfied, or opened, something in me. (I'm going to a FetLife munch just before Christmas, just to see what it's all about. I had never given thought about Daddy Doms, as a "thing".)

The encounter has been abnormal and completely interesting. I wish to have known more about him, including much of what everyone has mentioned. I'm still in weak communication with him and my goal is to meet him out of curiosity. Only, I don't know what to 'offer' him now that will compel him to a meeting for coffee- he doesn't seem like the type to meet for conversation.

NSA is referring to cold sores I think. The best resource coming to mind for Herpes statistics and more is the CDC website; no need to junk this thread with casually interpreted information.

Tl;DR I'm not considering the position, I only want to meet him to find out what is real.
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I think going to a munch is a really good idea. Power exchange in sex and BDSM are totally hot and awesome, but much better when the power exchange is within the play and you are not genuinely in a vulnerable position with the person (e.g. you can have a dom role-playing your boss or other authority figure but he's not actually your boss, so you never have to consent to anything beyond your limits and you always have the power to make it stop if the play makes you uncomfortable). It's important to be in control of your own boundaries, even if you surrender control in an erotic settings.

Either way, sound like this has opened a new direction in your own sexuality so I hope you have lot of fun with this journey, and maybe your husband can also be incorporated somehow!! ;)
 
Cohesion said:
I responded to an ad on Craigslist and it turned out to be real. Sexy secretary for CEO of large firm. He is already controlling me. Salaried, wardrobe, benefits, 100% discrete.

I can't stop shaking...
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Good for you! Go for it. :D
 
Either way, sound like this has opened a new direction in your own sexuality so I hope you have lot of fun with this journey
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I often wonder... after people (rightly) started to reject the overly strict Christian sexual moral, are they so much better and free now? In a "whatever-you-want" and "experiment-as-much-as-you-can" culture, have we not lost part of our human dignity?

IMO, a situation with absolutely no sexual morals is equally bad as a situation with extremely strict sexual morals.

Some of the things people say here often shock me.
 
Encouraging her to cheat on her husband is harm reduction?

Psyduck said:
I often wonder... after people (rightly) started to reject the overly strict Christian sexual moral, are they so much better and free now? In a "whatever-you-want" and "experiment-as-much-as-you-can" culture, have we not lost part of our human dignity?
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Yup, people have no morals these days and it's only getting worse. You would think as much as we've evolved technologically that we would be some really enlightened beings, but sadly I swear we seem to be going backwards in that regard. All that matters is personal freedom at any cost.
 
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nuttynutskin said:
Encouraging her to cheat on her husband is harm reduction?

Yup, people have no morals these days and it's only getting worse. You would think as much as we've evolved technologically that we would be some really enlightened beings, but sadly I swear we seem to be going backwards in that regard. All that matters is personal freedom at any cost.
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If she wants to fuck around, that's her personal choice.

Who cares about "morals"? There's nothing wrong with indulging one's personal desires, as long as everyone involved is an adult.
 
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