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Cohesion

Cohesion

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I responded to an ad on Craigslist and it turned out to be real. Sexy secretary for CEO of large firm. He is already controlling me. Salaried, wardrobe, benefits, 100% discrete.

I can't stop shaking...
 
Only you can say for sure whether this is a good or a bad thing. I certainly understand eroticizing power. I take it your husband doesn't know? I take it part of the arrangement is that you're being intimate with the CEO.

This is not tended to judge. Trying to clarify here.
 
Thanks for asking. I can't tell anyone. We are still negotiating terms so it's not definite. I don't know how much I can discuss after signing confidentiality, if I could discuss more anonymously under a different UN or what.

Yes I am exploring whether this is good or bad. Potential risks anyone can think of? I am seeing my therapist in the morning to give myself a jolt of whatthefuck.

My husband would never know.

My Daddy is going to take care of everything..Yes this is a mind-fuck.. He has specific designers. He will tell me exactly how short to hem my skirt. Will buy 2 of the same outfit in case one gets "ruined". Escort him to lunch every day, one hand on cock the full meal.
I could be his fuck d o l l

He had a secretary like this for 10 years but he relocated and she stayed.

Sexual demands include 8am model and fuck, mid-morning bj or other, and afternoon as well. Call at 9pm to ask Daddy what he wants me to wear the next day.

My best friend is asking me - how will this affect my daughter? I will work 8-3 m-f as a secretary. It seems like it would not affect her, is it?
 
So, let me get this straight, your husband would never know that you were cheating on him? I mean, obviously cheaters don't want their partner to know. I find this ridiculous for someone in a serious, committed, monogamous relationship.

If your relationship is open, and you and your husband are okay having sex with others, then that's fine, I wouldn't have any problems with it.

As for your daughter, as long as your husband is fine with it and it doesn't present problems in your marriage, then it would be fine.

The only problem is if you have a monogamous relationship, really.
 
This is some kind of joke, right?

There are so many things wrong with this , it's incredible.

Where are your morals? Your ok with being someones fuck doll, Married with kids? Why not just be a prostitute? I feel bad for your husband. What kind of sex life can you possibly have with him after being someones fuck doll all day long?

Does your husband know who he's married too? Just get a divorce and save the poor guy from his eternal life of hell with you.

What if he found out and just blew up? Something in his head just clicks and BAM!!! You never know...
 
wow,

where do I meet a nice secretary like this?

guess I got to start a company and make myself CEO....:)

I could us an F-doll. :\
 
Well it is not my intent to judge either as I do not know you but sounds like trouble in the making to me...I also found something else a little interesting..let me ask...sex is a dominant part of your life maybe? I just looked out of curiosity at the your recent posts and like the last 11 I think all have to do with sex and on several various different threads (not all one thread and just a continuation of a conversation). As a woman I just hate to see you subject yourself to a man that is going to control that much of your life, including sex and you are not even married to him....but his employee?? Somewhere along the way, your self esteem is really going to suffer if that is not already part of the reason you are really considering this.
 
@Not Again
Please tell me one by one what is wrong with this. It is called sex work. It's a profession with a valid history.

@missmeyet?
Trouble how? Please tell. For self-esteem, I will need to continue to engage fully in activities that nourish, heal, and satisfy me. I am a whole person and I am not looking for validation. I am 30 and to be perfectly honest with myself, I feel like everything in my life has groomed me perfectly for this seemingly epic opportunity.

I'm not a sex addict and it is not a major part of my life. I have had sex about 30 times this year, 25 of them with my husband. I used to moderate this forum so this is where I like to hang out when I do come here.

I will have to consider if I mind being controlled from 8AM-3PM (not *that* much of my life). Aren't our employers supposed to control us during work hours? They even tell us what to wear.


@llama
Yes I will have to consider repercussions of potential harm and certain deceit I'll be bringing to my husband.

Anyone know what kind of lawyer I need? How should I protect myself? We will have our boundaries clearly stated in legal documents. He has documents stating that I cannot sue him, take future act in case of PTSD, etc.
 
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so you don't think this dude will get tired of you?

honestly me being able to control a women, with no boundaries, means that I would tire of her in about two weeks

I guess he had a "fuck doll" for ten years, so maybe he doesn't get laid enough and has to pay for sex enough that he doesn't mind
 
I thought the same thing.
I think it is like his drug. I thrive on smoking herb 3 times per day, and he needs sex 3 times per day. Fine, I get that?
 
and you think you're hubby would be kewl with this? this would be so much worse than just regular sleeping around - do think of your children, please

although I will say that I find that there are old, rich, and no doubt fat CEOs out there who are looking to salary young women (with full medical benefits, no doubt!) for sex - a little fascinating

sigh. as crazy as I am I guess I'm just old-fashioned when it comes to this sex stuff
 
What an incredible situation. I give you credit for being amazingly open-minded and enthusiastic about seizing opportunities. And I can see why you'd be shaking ... the excitement level must be off the charts! BUT ... fantasies aside for a moment. I wonder how anyone could maintain a job like this AND any semblance of a healthy marriage. That's because even if you have an open relationship with your husband, I can't imagine a relationship open enough to allow for the serious sexual imbalance that this job is going to create. That is, you currently have sex with your husband every other week it seems ... and you'll have sex with your new boss multiple times per day? Just food for thought.

Cohesion said:
Anyone know what kind of lawyer I need? How should I protect myself? We will have our boundaries clearly stated in legal documents. He has documents stating that I cannot sue him, take future act in case of PTSD, etc.
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As a contract lawyer myself, just off the top of my head, I have NO IDEA what kind of lawyer you need ... LOL! (Seriously, I was in law school a lifetime ago, and nothing this interesting ever came up!) My guess is that your run-of-the-mill employment lawyer is going to be totally baffled by this one. Moreover, you're entering into an arrangement that could be interpreted as being illegal in your area ... and, if so, no lawyer will touch it. That actually calls to mind the principle that you can't "contract around the law," and so any agreement that you reach may ultimately be unenforceable. Maybe try to find a lawyer that works in the adult entertainment industry -- you know, someone who handles contracts for adult film stars, dancers, and the like? That's the closest I can think of. They're bound to be LA- or NYC-based, but I wouldn't think that would matter that much. This is pretty straightforward and amenable to being handled long-distance (i.e., from wherever you live). Beyond that, I'm aware that public legal discussion isn't allowed here -- at least with respect to drug matters(?) So, if you'd like further thoughts on this, you're more than welcome to PM me. I'm concerned enough that I'd like to help you find someone who can safeguard your interests, if possible.

Good luck!
 
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Lysis said:
Cohesion, did you marry the Indian dude? Cuz I don't think The Indians are into sharing their wives....
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didn't I just see a couple posts in SLR where an indian man was trying to share his wife with redleader. pretty sure I saw that posted somewhere


@ Cohesion. Does your husband meet your needs sexually.. I mean from your posts in the sex craving thread.. which once again very nice posts.. you seem to have a strong desire or need to be dominated. Is this something you need to be satisfied and want to happen?
 
Something about this feels very off to me. I am not close minded sexually in any way, shape or form. I've done the master(me)-slave(her) thing and it was great for a while but ended up as way too much work.
What would terrify me if you were a close friend of mine is even with a legal contract in hand, there's so much room for blackmail, still.
What if he starts calling you at 7pm and demanding you come over for sex? Saying, "Yeah, I know there's supposed to be no sex after work hours but I want it and if you call your lawyer I'll have a anonymous source call your husband and tell him what's up."
That's an example of a very possible scenario, IMO. No contractual language is gonna keep everything on the up and up.
Guys like this want everything from you. You're giving 85% of your soul to me? Fuck that. I want 100% and I'll make your life hell till I've got it.
I understand the draw for someone that clearly wants to be dominated. But the tie-ins with all these other parts of your life would be terrifying if I were you. There is SO MUCH potential for problems. I don't know. Proceed with caution, please.
 
@95land
Tell me more about "guys like this". Who are guys like this?

@nsa
I don't know anything about submission and being dominated. Never done it. I don't want to get in over my head. It's a sudden and strong desire. I want it to be satisfied and perhaps in the end it can be expressed in a less encompassing way.

@Lysis
Yes. Husband lives in India and we are apart indefinitely until we have enough money for everything. He did NOT satisfy me sexually when we were together. I was in a constant state of primal desire, but he fucks like an 18 year old boy and it just didn't catch. He tried oral once halfheartedly and was grossed out. From a woman who has been with 70 men, I need specific and advanced sexual acts.

@GG
Great response, sending pm.
 
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Cohesion said:
I wanna be fucked from behind in the shower and then gently put onto the shower floor on my hands and knees, and fucked deeply into the floor.
Then I want him to make me suck his cock and make him cum into my mouth, and I swallow it if he tells me to. If not I will spit it out, easy in the shower.

After he tells me to make him chai, I comply.
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I want to be controlled by a man of power in my house while his good friend fucks me. I want to be told my asshole has to be fucked, and he will take all the time I need to make it ready for that. I want him to slowly warm up my ass, through light and soon deeper fingering.. Opening me up for over 10minutes until the man with the smaller cock takes me first .
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If this isn't the certainty of gettin real fire over being dominated.. IMO it seems like nothing but.. can your hubby provide this and is this something you need?
 
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