StoneHappyMonday
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Because a registry office ceremony is still a "marriage" with all the connotations marriage brings.
Marriage comes with years of 'baggage' and it's inherently patriarchal. It is also closely related with The Church which I hate and want nothing to do with.Can you seriously not just go into a registry office and get married? There is no need to have a religious ceremony in Scotland. Is England really that backwards?
By that I mean the English State, not the the English people :D
Me too shm!I'm glad we share views here GOS, tis nice to have affirmation from other quarters.
We all, gayorstraight () , have the right to choose between civil partnership or marriage.
Marriage comes with years of 'baggage' and it's inherently patriarchal. It is also closely related with The Church which I hate and want nothing to do with.
Yes, if worst comes to worst, we will just bite the bullet and get a marriage.
We all, gayorstraight () , SHOULD have the right to choose between civil partnership or marriage.
They've been doing it in France for years and years.

That's assuming there is a will...Yay, a whole new gender for me to not marry. (I'm pretty sure if you specify who gets what in your will, that's legally binding, no?)
It's good news for folks that are marriagely-inclined, though.![]()
The term "common law marriage" has been used in England and Wales since the 1960s to refer to unmarried, cohabiting heterosexual relationships.[19] However, this is merely a social usage. The term does not confer on cohabiting parties any of the rights or obligations enjoyed by spouses or civil partners.
I believe people that don't like gay marriage are homophobic.

Don't be dumb. If you don't hate marriage because of gay marriage then no, you're not homophobic.I just don't like marriage. End of. Am I a homophobe? I want people to stop seeking to have authorities validate their living arrangements. Does that I mean I hate gays?![]()
I know. Life sucks man, gedoverit.You have no idea. I simply do not know where to start, and when I ask about stuff, like what to do with my hard hat, people just ignore me.