My boyfriend thinks I "cheated," but I disagree

[Ksa]

Firstly, I'd like to make it very clear that you're a dumb bitch, but, I don't have to, because you've once again done that one your one.

This is a new syntax in English language " done that one your one"

Very bad sir, very bad. If you're so mad on "cheating" women why can't you open a foundation offering support to women who cheat, and offer them help with their problem? If you believe that these women have a problem, you should strive to offer them help! At once! But of course, no woman will ever show up to such a meeting because it's a non-sense bigger than the Freedom Tower. You're in a jealousy driven haze, you don't know what you're talking about. Calling a child "bitch" shame on you. People like you are the reason why she behaves like that. I would cheat on you and dump you for your friend too if I was a woman.

 

[Animal Mother]

This is a new syntax in English language " done that one your one"

Very bad sir, very bad. If you're so mad on "cheating" women why can't you open a foundation offering support to women who cheat, and offer them help with their problem? If you believe that these women have a problem, you should strive to offer them help! At once! But of course, no woman will ever show up to such a meeting because it's a non-sense bigger than the Freedom Tower. You're in a jealousy driven haze, you don't know what you're talking about. Calling a child "bitch" shame on you. People like you are the reason why she behaves like that. I would cheat on you and dump you for your friend too if I was a woman.

I was tired and made a couple of typos. Stuff happens

I don't have a problem with people cheating. When I hear about it from others, it doesn't bother me much. If it happens to me, that's when I'll care. People are free to do as they wish. I have a problem with people hurting other people, and making excuses for why they were within their right. I actually just have a problem with people making excuses for any type of negative behavior.

And you're right, I shouldn't have called her a bitch. infuriating the little girl outright will just make her blind to the rest of the posts. I doubt that she's ready to grow on that level anyways, but if there were a chance, I should make it as easy as possible for her.

Lastly, do you ever stop doing acid? I mean, do you ever read the things that you say out loud to see what it sounds like to other people?

 

[Ksa]

I was tired and made a couple of typos. Stuff happens

I don't have a problem with people cheating. When I hear about it from others, it doesn't bother me much. If it happens to me, that's when I'll care. People are free to do as they wish. I have a problem with people hurting other people, and making excuses for why they were within their right. I actually just have a problem with people making excuses for any type of negative behavior.

And you're right, I shouldn't have called her a bitch. infuriating the little girl outright will just make me blind to the rest of the posts. I doubt that she's ready to grow on that level anyways, but if there were a chance, I should make it as easy as possible for her.

Lastly, do you ever stop doing acid? I mean, do you ever read the things that you say out loud to see what it sounds like to other people?

I always do that because when you can try to think like other people think your judgement is no longer clouded by your hate for that person. Try to be them, to see what drives their dopamine.

What drives your dopamine is being right! You struggle to be right, you don't struggle to better yourself and other people. You're like, ok, I've learned enough so far, now I know right from wrong, so now it's judging time baby! Now I can FINALLY get rewarded for all those things that I have learned in my life. I can finally be right! And if someone opposes me you know, I'll call him this, I'll call him that, I mean, what else can I do? Go back to learning? No way pal! I'm done.

You know, I always use logic, word for word quotations, references, so that people don't feel offended by emotional content. Emotional content in posts is an abomination, you see: If you say: "Why cheat on men sweetie, you're such a charming girl, you know better, ohhhh, it's not nice of you to do that!". If you say that to someone they get annoyed because you talked and you said nothing. Even if you say that to pet a dog, the dog gets annoyed too.

Playing with people's feelings, doing certain things to hurt those who hurt you, are high-school games, but guess what pal, SHE'S IN HIGH-SCHOOL.

I never had acid ;\

 

[dopemaster]

Don't be angry with a how a 16 y.o. behaves, go be angry with other people of your own caliber, or I must conclude otherwise and respect you less to adjust myself with where you stand.

I am not angry with anyone but maybe a tad bit annoyed with your racism, rape accusations, you saying I don't respect myself, and most importantly off-topic-tangent-rants that somehow all involve codeine and nictoine abuse.

I was probably one of the few men to support the OP's decision to shag one her ex's mates. Bloody hell, if a women says she wants to take a break, I will take it at face value and get busy with whom I would like to. That being said I don't do it to hurt people, yet I really don't mind if it hurts someone who hurt me. See if someone breaks up with you just to beg for you back (playing games with your emotions), well than they just hurt you, so fuck their feelings.

If he did not want her to have sex with other men, he shouldn't have dumped her in an attempt to manipulate her.

See I think about this situation if a woman had dumped me and then got mad about whom I had shagged after begging me to take her back.

 

[oldirtybizza]

I never had acid ;\

Maybe you should give it a shot, it might rein in some of your smart ass tendencies.

 

[Ksa]

Maybe you should give it a shot, it might rein in some of your smart ass tendencies.

This is against harm reduction lol.

 

[pofacedhoe]

This is against harm reduction lol.

but promoting the use of nicotine isn't- if you can't take it dont dish it out

stop accusing people of rape

there is a huge difference between a moral crime and technical one but more importantly your yet again failing to stay on topic.

if you can't play nice (and this applies to anyone dishing out abuse) there are repercussions

 

[Ksa]

but promoting the use of nicotine isn't- if you can't take it dont dish it out

stop accusing people of rape

there is a huge difference between a moral crime and technical one but more importantly your yet again failing to stay on topic.

if you can't play nice (and this applies to anyone dishing out abuse) there are repercussions

Naaaaa :S With nicotine I said, "I used". In his post he says "YOU SHOULD TRY". Sound like an invitation. If I tell you "I jumped off a building when i was 9 y.o." will you then go and jump? But if I say "go jump off a building". AHHhhhh!
:D:D:D:D

 

[freehugs]

This is against harm reduction lol.

He is trying to reduce the harm you make by your posts lol

 

[pofacedhoe]

Naaaaa :S With nicotine I said, "I used". In his post he says "YOU SHOULD TRY". Sound like an invitation. If I tell you "I jumped off a building when i was 9 y.o." will you then go and jump? But if I say "go jump off a building". AHHhhhh!
:D:D:D:D

childish

always trying to have one up on everyone. it makes you so big in all our eyes.

its just another example of dishing out what you dont want to hear back. when people make allusions to you taking a drug (lsd) to imply that it has made you behave the way you are behaving they are taking the piss and being sarcastic. this is the response you get when you try to provoke people all the time in little ways all over the place. thats the end result. if you want behave like you're in the lounge there is always the lounge.

back on topic...

anyone who thinks cheating is fine as long as it doesn't happen to them has a very narrow point of view on it. eventually what goes around comes around to an extent due to the sort of people you hang around with.

 

[Ksa]

^ Brother, when someone says a 16 y.o. should know how to behave in a couple, I have to prove him wrong. Of course, when someone says 2 + 2 = 5, and then I come say it's 4, of course the person feels insulted and provoked. Opps...my bad but, I gotta do it. Read this:

maybe it's just because stimulants cause the blood vessels to dilate, which increases blood flow to those special areas. Therefore making them more sensitive to the lightest touch, softest kiss, slightest stimulation feels awesomely more intense than normal. Just a thought

So goregirl said that 2 + 2 = -3. Stimulants cause vasoconstriction not vasodilation. But then the sister would come and argue, "if sex feels better with vasoconstriction, then, why do people use Viagra which is a vasodilatant?". So again I have to come explain that with vasoconstriction, the discharge pressure in the capilaries is greater which causes greater stimulation on the already exited nerves etc. And that people use Viagra to obtain an erection, not to enhance pleasure. I have to correct the misconception.

People say absurd things so I must correct them. I say "Doctors cure sickness and disease" then comes people and argues "If DOCTERS cure sickness and disease, then how come there's more sick people in hospitals, where there's doctors, then at home where there's no doctors!?". So again I must show them their belief is wrong.

Lack of knowledge hurts, then you come accuse me that I provoke people by correcting their misconceptions. It's their fault. Why don't they have knowledge, then I wouldn't come and correct them.

 

[Animal Mother]

anyone who thinks cheating is fine as long as it doesn't happen to them has a very narrow point of view on it. eventually what goes around comes around to an extent due to the sort of people you hang around with.

In case you were referring to me,
I do not feel like cheating is fine, I feel like it is wrong and hurtful to others. I ,personally, am not hurt or bothered by it until it happens to me.
A child dies in Africa, I don't care. A child dies in my home, and I do. That's my point.

 

[bennyZA]

OP: You're an immature girl looking to confirm your own moral failures, you're boyfriend is an immature little boy who doesn't realize when he's getting played. Move on and set his ass free. You will learn why what you did is fucked soon enough when someone does it to you.

KSA: You, well, you simply are one of the more interesting characters I've met on the internet...

 

[Mr.Scagnattie]

OP: You're an immature girl looking to confirm your own moral failures, you're boyfriend is an immature little boy who doesn't realize when he's getting played. Move on and set his ass free. You will learn why what you did is fucked soon enough when someone does it to you.

KSA: You, well, you simply are one of the more interesting characters I've met on the internet...

 

[Tommyboy]

and you seem to be more offended than i ever was for her lol dickrider much?
if you wanna argue, go to the lounge.

Offended about what? That post doesn't make much sense. You were offended for her? I wasn't offended at all, so no way I was more offended than anyone here. Don't be so full of yourself, I'm not riding anyone's dick here, just pointing out that your ex must have had a low self esteem to get back with a girl that fucked his friend, even considering you were on a one week break or whatever it was.

^ Brother, when someone says a 16 y.o. should know how to behave in a couple, I have to prove him wrong. Of course, when someone says 2 + 2 = 5, and then I come say it's 4, of course the person feels insulted and provoked. Opps...my bad but, I gotta do it. Read this:

There's a difference between opinion and fact. You can't prove someone wrong over something that people have varying opinion on. It's not the same as mathematics. As for the rest of your post, keep it on topic.

 

[pofacedhoe]

^anyone who turns opinion into math is talking complete ass. i just cant engage with that personally

In case you were referring to me,
I do not feel like cheating is fine, I feel like it is wrong and hurtful to others. I ,personally, am not hurt or bothered by it until it happens to me.
A child dies in Africa, I don't care. A child dies in my home, and I do. That's my point.

okay, but that applies to everything all the time. do you cheat? i have (in the past as an 18 year old) and it was a big fucking mistake that i wouldn't do again.

my main worry with a partner is not are they going to cheat, its whos bringing what std's home. i dont feel possessive over people but i dont want to catch something either

 

[Ksa]

^ Brother, if you learn how to read when you're 6, then, a week after you know the alphabet, your mother beats you up because you skip some letters when you read out loud and you can't read fast enough, will you get mad? Will you get mad yes or no? Then you argue, my mother beat me because my reading was hurting her ears and to let me know I shouldn't hurt other people. I say no, it is normal for a 6 year old, who is in the process of learning how to read to make certain mistakes! You can't punish the child! Give it time.

Same thing here, the child is 16 y.o. she makes mistakes, it's normal. Who are you to come say otherwise? You never made mistakes when you were 16? You expect her to be perfect? Then you all bash her because she did this and that? Go bash adults lol.

 

[bennyZA]

Do you want people to hold her hand and say everything is all right, should she get a pat on the back saying it's okay? She is not a 6yo learning how to read. She made a decision about an adult subject and has to be prepared for adults telling her how it is.

 

[Mr.Scagnattie]

If she made a decision to start having sex and being in a relationship, than she should be able to see how wrong it is to cheat like that. She's not 5.. She's 16. I was very aware of right and wrong at that age.. it's absolutely no excuse.

 

[RedRum OG]

It's not cheating but it is close.

And it definitely hurts to be on the other side, makes it seems like you don't really care, like, if you really cared you'd be too upset and still attached to want to be with someone else even if you're technically broken up.