mydrugbuddy
Bluelighter
Like some kind of antipodean Jeremy Kyle?
Thats just plain nasty bullying, i couldnt watch it for more than 30 seconds, it was so horrific.
Like some kind of antipodean Jeremy Kyle?
since when have we given a fuck about what alisdair thinks
farmaz/dsp/msb, one of them i would guess
I don't really want to close this thread since though it may have deviated from the original (questionable) point of rating EADDers, people now seem to be focusing on a much more pertinent often insightful analysis of what it takes to avoid being an EADD dickhead.
Shoulda got in there sooner thenOi that's my job![]()
I think the Samaritans should maybe take on some of OTW's advice and do a trial run with his theory. Lets see what the results are for them
'Oooh, yer want to kill yourself do ya laddie? You fucking nutter! What about your family, your daughter ... what do you mean you're all alone, and have nobody, NONSENSE, pull yourself together laddie, man the fuck up and grow a pair. Get down to Ritzy or whatever meat joint is open on a Saturday night and get yourself laid Laddie ... you'll be fine ..... what, will I come with you to give you some support, willl I be your friend?'
CLICK ... phone goes quiet (thinks GET TAE FUCK)
He doesn't understanding the key difference between enabling people to try to help themselves, and reduce harm, and actually physically helping them to do it. Nor that the whole 'man the fuck up, or youre going to DIE' isn't the kind of terminology that most people respond to, it normally makes their ears shut down.
Unless you can be physically there to hold the hand of the person youre trying to help, and take them through the physical stages, the 'you're going to die if you don't stop you stupid cunt' has only a negative effect in the main.
For someone who spends her time reporting everyone's posts.
Erm I haven't reported anyones posts from this thread. Havent reported a post for ages, and it certainly wasn't one of yours.For someone who spends her time reporting everyone's posts and memborating you really don't have much of a grasp on harm reduction.
I'm more than happy to be transparent about my complaints of people, and that includes any reporting.My favourite inside source / I'll kiss your open sores.......
Kinda bad form to say that on a open board if it's true, even worse if it aint.
Everything I've said about you ever, has always been in public. ALWAYS.. You spend just as much time crying to the mods as her
You can't shut up too bodda you whiney shit. You spend just as much time crying to the mods as her. You a pretty good at picking a fight then running off to cry that folks are trying to get you banned. Fucking cry babies who need their lives moderated by others. Jesus is there a single backbone in this place?
And to think the British were once empire builders.
I'm more than happy to be transparent about my complaints of people, and that includes any reporting.
Call me on anything and I have no problem giving the truth.
I'm not talking about you reporting me. I have been on this site long enough to know the rules. I'm talking about every other little whine and whinge you go running to the mods about. Here's a thought, rather than complain about how this place is run, how about modding yourself. There are plenty of forums here that run on skeleton staff that would love a rule book following know it all like yourself.Everything I've said about you ever, has always been in public. ALWAYS.
I tend to like to have my disagreements for all to see, so it flushes out all the bullshitters and reduces the amount of gossip mongerers getting the opportunity to shit fling (ie: lie) in PMs without the truth being heard, and their nonsense going unquestioned
OTW, are you buggering off when TL's new mod gets appointed? I had afantasythought that you may be resigning at the same time (ie: youre pretty much being sacked but will resign instead).