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Share something POSITIVE from your day!

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Corazon said:
I cut my neighbor's grass today as a favor. Physically I am in the best shape of the last few weeks, whatever that is worth.
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This made me smile :) that's really nice of you to do that so adorable
 
Maya said:
This made me smile :) that's really nice of you to do that so adorable
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thx.
Apparently he had a nervous breakdown. I saw his wife and I guess she was worried about their lawn falling behind. Never would have suspected him to be unstable, he's a middle aged guy who seems to have his stuff together...
 
^^^ Nothing like some good loving.

Today I spoiled my lil guy took him out to the store and bought him a few things, then had him as my lil helper and did yard work he felt so special with a big job so I gave him ice cream money for his hard work lolz. Then I went to work and made that money *ching ching*
 
Today I remembered my Grandmother who I loved dearly. life set her free nearly 2 years ago now.

Whilst I still grieve the loss I spent a short while with her a couple of days before she finally succumbed to the cancer, we spoke of our love for each other and I told her how very special she was to me and how I loved her so much with all my heart and she told me how very special I was to her. We shared a moment beyond words that confirmed all the things I had felt for her and finally understood that we shared that special bind that I had always felt.

Despite being an old lady and my family choosing to hide my mental health issues from her she knew I was troubled, I feel her with me often and know I was truly blessed to have been close to her.

Love you Grandma<3
 
Allein said:
Today I remembered my Grandmother who I loved dearly. life set her free nearly 2 years ago now.

Whilst I still grieve the loss I spent a short while with her a couple of days before she finally succumbed to the cancer, we spoke of our love for each other and I told her how very special she was to me and how I loved her so much with all my heart and she told me how very special I was to her. We shared a moment beyond words that confirmed all the things I had felt for her and finally understood that we shared that special bind that I had always felt.

Despite being an old lady and my family choosing to hide my mental health issues from her she knew I was troubled, I feel her with me often and know I was truly blessed to have been close to her.

Love you Grandma<3
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Aww...that made me tear up.

I miss my grandma.
 
I almost never cry, it's not a good thing I wish I could more often.

But I did shed a tear as I wrote that, like many my family is emotionally crippled but I felt closer to her than anyone I've ever met despite not seeing her all that often.

I should thank Herb who offered some support when she passed, that helped me greatly.

I'm losing my father under difficult and complicated circumstances, no such closure is possible but I know she (his mother) would want me to do what I can .

Odd how such grieving makes me feel more positive in some ways, I think the prospect of death can strip away barriers and provide an opportunity to connect at a deeper more human level which is something I crave buy find difficult to achieve.
 
long shitty week....me n hubby bought the movie the Croods, ben n jerrys, had awesome sex....and no fighting,

MY GOD. Perfect night:)
 
I rang my mum today for no other reason than to tell her I love her & miss her. I also feel less like necking up than I did yesterday so that has to be a bonus & I have not used any drugs today. Might not be big things but they are positive achievements & that counts for something right?
 
Got the day off as I needed to do some work on my car for the MOT (UK raid fitness test thing) which is booked at 12, job finished by 8am and the weather is clearing so I'm going to get my 1964 Lambretta out of the garage and take for a spin, I've struggled to leave the house other than for work lately. I'm currently changing some AD meds over but do feel brighter today for which I am thankful
 
Allein said:
Got the day off as I needed to do some work on my car for the MOT (UK raid fitness test thing) which is booked at 12, job finished by 8am and the weather is clearing so I'm going to get my 1964 Lambretta out of the garage and take for a spin, I've struggled to leave the house other than for work lately. I'm currently changing some AD meds over but do feel brighter today for which I am thankful
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@ Tude congratulations on the job, it's always a great booster when you land that role you wanted , all the best with it
 
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