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are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY

Are you happy with your genitals?

  • Yes

    Votes: 189 70.8%
  • No

    Votes: 26 9.7%
  • I am undecided

    Votes: 23 8.6%
  • I would like to have my genitals altered in some way

    Votes: 29 10.9%

  • Total voters
    267
  • Poll closed .
Hey, I have genitals! I'm so excited, it's something that actually applies to me!

Actually I rather like my package. Dong's about 6 1/2, maybe 6 3/4 on a good day, fairly nondescript balls. I'm uncut though. Some people say they prefer circumcised...I disagree. I think mine looks more masculine and natural the way it is. Idk, cut ones just look like they're missing something, they look somehow less impressive.

What's this about self consciousness over vaginas though? That's craziness. The only thing that can really be wrong with a vagina is if it smells a lot. I mean, I know there are some guys who are kinda pansies in general and might be bothered by something like a rather hangy labia minora, but the solution is to not show your vagina to guys like that anyways. If they're so immature or unmanly or w/e that they could be in the vicinity of a naked, willing woman who was clearly attractive enough that they'd wish to get alone with them in the first place and the appearance of said chick's vag would make them hesitate for, hell, even a second, they likely aren't worth it anyways.
 
If they're so immature or unmanly or w/e that they could be in the vicinity of a naked, willing woman who was clearly attractive enough that they'd wish to get alone with them in the first place and the appearance of said chick's vag would make them hesitate for, hell, even a second, they likely aren't worth it anyways.

The same could be said for women and penises no? I mean unless it's so small that you don't feel anything at all...which has happened to me :|
 
A lot of the posts in this thread don't seem to be aware of the actual medical literature on penis size.

This conversation comes up enough that I've actually researched it, and these charts address the most relevant concerns to my mind. These charts are from http://averagepenissizes.blogspot.com. I believe the chart is based on averages of study findings from measurements taken by doctors. This is necessary since men tend to add up to an inch on average if self-reporting.

From an article on the site:

SMALL: 1-to 4.3 inches
MEDIUM: 4.4 to 5 inches
AVERAGE: 5.1 to 5.8 inches
LARGE: 5.9 to 6.6 inches
EXTRA LARGE / HUGE (aka: Oww!): 6.7 and up

Bar graph with penises as the bars:

NSFW:
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This chart is based on what women report as ideal size based on satisfaction/pain. I remember reading that the fact that women prefer significantly longer penises is mostly just for aesthetic reasons. That makes some sense since the average vagina is only 3 to 7 inches deep and I've read there's not nearly as much nerve fiber after about the first 3 inches anyways, though I suppose longer allows a greater variety of sexual positions. Girth seems more important overall because that will dictate how much sensation is felt.

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I'm ideal girth and close to ideal length, fairly even keeled and straight (preferred aesthetically), so I don't have any reason to be unhappy with my equipment. The chart is based on average preferences, though, so if you're outside of "ideal" or "very satisfying but not ideal" there's still plenty of women out there that will find your range ideal for them. I'd think a little smaller than average is better than a little bigger than average for women's satisfaction to be honest, since bigger than average is going to cause pain in the average woman.

Here's a kind of funny world map comparing national IQ averages to average nationally reported penis size (surprise, Africa has the largest penises).

this chart is so bullsh*t because its not the size that makes it hurt/pleasurable, its the person wielding it and how they fuck
 
^Oh I've found size can really make a difference...have been with too big and it really was genuinely painful no matter what he did or how gently he did it. I just couldn't :\

Have also been with very small and barely felt anything. These were both extremes, but still. Size doesn't matter as much as most men seem to think but it does play a bit of a role.
 
I'm fine with mine... no complaints here... haven't had any complaints from my boyfriend or my ex really. I don't know what makes a "good" vagina or a "bad" vagina lol. It's clean. I shave.

As for dick size, I'm a bit small so a huge dick would NOT work for me. Size does matter a little bit but not THAT much.
 
Man, every guy wants a bigger dick. If I had a 10 inch cock I'd be like "damn, I want an 11 inch cock."
 
^Oh I've found size can really make a difference...have been with too big and it really was genuinely painful no matter what he did or how gently he did it. I just couldn't :\

Have also been with very small and barely felt anything. These were both extremes, but still. Size doesn't matter as much as most men seem to think but it does play a bit of a role.

Yes, what matters mostly is the performance ;)
 
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