rocketqueen
Bluelighter
Yes, my vagina is gorgeous and I would post it I am so proud of it but I think I would get in trouble...yeah, I have pics lol
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are you happy with your genitals?? HONESTLY
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hiphophippy
Bluelighter
lounge nudie thread
rocketqueen
Bluelighter
You are saying I will be a star? OMG! I think it is great to talk about what you have, but if you say you are working with sumptin special lemme see that shit. lol Just keepin' it real.
fivelinefury
Bluelighter
As long as it's working I don't give a shit haha
Dr3wb34r
Greenlighter
So I was the typical teenage skateboard weirdo, back before skateboarders were the hot thing, haha. Hence, I didn't really get a ton of girls until high school. A consequence of this (which I am certain many men on this site will relate to, based on the presumption that many of us were probably not the most popular kids in school), was spending many nights furiously jerking off to porn, usually featuring an extremely large man pounding a desensitized pussy. As a result, I was very unsatisfied with my own package, believing that the average cock was a porno-dick. It wasn't until later in my teenage life, when I started having sex on the reg and getting good at it that I realized I was actually very well hung. 7.5" erect, quite thick, straight, nothing off about it. The nutsack is pretty normal, nothing out of the ordinary; it hangs with the best of them. I just always thought that was the average. But every girl I had sex with had trouble taking it for the first few minutes. I stood-or more appropriately, hung-corrected.
However, don't take this as me just gloating about my amazing penis. It takes a smooth, gentle technique with the vast majority of women to have a thicker, fairly long cock. A good few girls I've dated have been virgins, which is just difficult to work around with a large member. And even months after our first experiences, I still had to go very slow for the first five minutes or so. My partner and I have been having sex for a year now, very often, and I would hurt her badly if I just rammed it in there. The proper technique seems to be more of an exploratory poke, followed with a couple expletive-laden moments before the jackhammer can rev up.
The denouement here, is that having a big, thick cock can be great. You can work out some really exotic positions. You'll be able to rub against the vaginal walls more easily, which the majority of the ladies of bluelight will certainly admit is real proper fucking technique. You can cause more contact with those vaginal walls, and the g-spot in positions which would otherwise be in-out, low friction affairs.
However, there are just as many downsides. Insertion is an intricate motion; done too fast or too dry, sex will violently end before it begins. It takes a little bit to acclimatize the vagina to its new friend, so taking it slow at first might flaccidize an insensitive cock. If you go for too long, and things start to dry up, rubbing the wrong way could pull the skin inside the vagina, causing agony and/or bleeding. Worst case, pray it not, the tragic event of a slip-out anal poke could occur, and being a large man thrusting con gusto into an unprepared asshole will bring a crashing halt to any sexual conduct for at least a few days, provided that your partner doesn't turn you down, fearing a repeat reaming.
My genitals and I have had a complex relationship, but I've concluded that most men have a fairly unrealistic perception of their cock, and an even more unrealistic perception of what women want their cock to be. Most girls have no desire to be turned inside out by a mandingo dong. Even a below-average cock can garner praise with excellent technique. Yet with improper maneuvering, a perfect specimen will just tear a new hole in your partner and your sex life. The happiest medium seems to lie in a comfort zone a little above or below average, but size is nothing without technique. In fact, I venture to say in all but unreasonable circumstances (no baby dicks or kong dongs), technique is 40% of good sex. Attraction makes up the other 40%, and size is a meager 20%. An attractive guy that can handle a woman like eros can usually make up for being kinda small or large. So unless you have a serious issue, don't fucking worry about your dick. Work out, eat right, dress well, work on your game, do something with your life, and learn how to fuck. If pleasing women, for you, is a problem, your cock is usually the smallest part.
However, don't take this as me just gloating about my amazing penis. It takes a smooth, gentle technique with the vast majority of women to have a thicker, fairly long cock. A good few girls I've dated have been virgins, which is just difficult to work around with a large member. And even months after our first experiences, I still had to go very slow for the first five minutes or so. My partner and I have been having sex for a year now, very often, and I would hurt her badly if I just rammed it in there. The proper technique seems to be more of an exploratory poke, followed with a couple expletive-laden moments before the jackhammer can rev up.
The denouement here, is that having a big, thick cock can be great. You can work out some really exotic positions. You'll be able to rub against the vaginal walls more easily, which the majority of the ladies of bluelight will certainly admit is real proper fucking technique. You can cause more contact with those vaginal walls, and the g-spot in positions which would otherwise be in-out, low friction affairs.
However, there are just as many downsides. Insertion is an intricate motion; done too fast or too dry, sex will violently end before it begins. It takes a little bit to acclimatize the vagina to its new friend, so taking it slow at first might flaccidize an insensitive cock. If you go for too long, and things start to dry up, rubbing the wrong way could pull the skin inside the vagina, causing agony and/or bleeding. Worst case, pray it not, the tragic event of a slip-out anal poke could occur, and being a large man thrusting con gusto into an unprepared asshole will bring a crashing halt to any sexual conduct for at least a few days, provided that your partner doesn't turn you down, fearing a repeat reaming.
My genitals and I have had a complex relationship, but I've concluded that most men have a fairly unrealistic perception of their cock, and an even more unrealistic perception of what women want their cock to be. Most girls have no desire to be turned inside out by a mandingo dong. Even a below-average cock can garner praise with excellent technique. Yet with improper maneuvering, a perfect specimen will just tear a new hole in your partner and your sex life. The happiest medium seems to lie in a comfort zone a little above or below average, but size is nothing without technique. In fact, I venture to say in all but unreasonable circumstances (no baby dicks or kong dongs), technique is 40% of good sex. Attraction makes up the other 40%, and size is a meager 20%. An attractive guy that can handle a woman like eros can usually make up for being kinda small or large. So unless you have a serious issue, don't fucking worry about your dick. Work out, eat right, dress well, work on your game, do something with your life, and learn how to fuck. If pleasing women, for you, is a problem, your cock is usually the smallest part.
argentina420
Bluelighter
I am quite content with my genetallia. Wouldn't change a damn thing. :D
tricomb
Bluelight Crew
I am highly satisfied with my package
raverholland
Greenlighter
Yes, I wasn't when I was still a virgin years ago but somehow after the first time I stopped giving a fuck. Plus my penis is pretty average (6.5"/16.5cm or maybe it was 17 idk) and like Dr3wb34r pointed out "learn how to fuck". You can have the wildest sex and she probably won't care about the size of your dick for even a second.
footscrazy
Bluelight Crew
Haha, nice post Dr3wb34r.
tricomb
Bluelight Crew
I'm one of those men who, by from what I've seen and been told, am well-endowed however I also believe to a certain extent that body parts are proportional to some degree by height, and I'm a tall mo'fo at 6'4" and am built alright, a little thin but I diet and exercise a lot and am in relatively good shape.
I'm not going to post my dick size because I don't see why the exact number is relevant... plus the only people who have seen it are BL staff
Good length and also big around the girth. Size aside, I'm happy with everything else, high sex drive, performance, balls, pubic style, amount and force of ejaculation, high sperm count, but this is due to lots of diet and exercise.
Only problems I ever have are drug induced.
I'm not going to post my dick size because I don't see why the exact number is relevant... plus the only people who have seen it are BL staff
Good length and also big around the girth. Size aside, I'm happy with everything else, high sex drive, performance, balls, pubic style, amount and force of ejaculation, high sperm count, but this is due to lots of diet and exercise.
Only problems I ever have are drug induced.
Dre1990
Bluelighter
not so much, I have hypospadias
raverholland
Greenlighter
I checked wikipedia to find out what that means since I'd never heard of it before but wow, I feel your pain dude. Is it very bad? I read there are different kinds. It's a lot less noticable in the penis on the first picture than in the last one for example. Or maybe you'd rather not talk about it.
Here's a link for the lazy people: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypospadias
EternityBeing
Greenlighter
I am back and forth. I have large labia's and a large clit. I have at times felt self-conscience about them, usually when comparing with the women of porn or other females that I have seen. Other times I love that my clit is an easy find for my sexual partner . I am slowly accepting that comparing oneself to others gets me absolutely no where. I am the perfect me, and you are the perfect you.
Maybe I should post a pic in the nudie thread! Lol
. I am slowly accepting that comparing oneself to others gets me absolutely no where. I am the perfect me, and you are the perfect you. Maybe I should post a pic in the nudie thread! Lol
:D_mistresspoppy_
Bluelighter
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I'm happy with my lady parts, tight vag (never had kids or a large partner), a tight but broken-in ass, relatively large clit and labia but nothing ridiculous. If anything I'd like a vertical clit hood ring, more for functional reasons than beauty. To have that ring bumped and vibrated during sex would be awesome! But my fiancee is old school and hates piercings, so no.
As far as my body, at 5'4" and 110 lbs, I would like to be lighter with bigger breasts, but not willing to go through surgery. My fiancee likes them (I'm 32 B) just the way they are, he likes girlish figures, but I wear ridiculously uncomfortable pushup bras that supposedly boost 2 cup sizes all the time (to bed and usually during sex, unless he asks me to take it off) to make me feel better about my body. I'm considering taking saw palmetto to boost breast size, but my fiancee would hate that. Idk, the bras are our compromise.
As far as dick size, anything above average would be less convenient, would require slower penetration and I couldn't take the pounding I enjoy from my fiancees perfect, thick 6 inch cock. Plus, I can take him anally just perfectly, not quite painful but enough to be acutely aware of every stroke. But if there was a bisexual big boy that wanted to join us for a threesome, I'd be happy to let him work in every inch
As far as my body, at 5'4" and 110 lbs, I would like to be lighter with bigger breasts, but not willing to go through surgery. My fiancee likes them (I'm 32 B) just the way they are, he likes girlish figures, but I wear ridiculously uncomfortable pushup bras that supposedly boost 2 cup sizes all the time (to bed and usually during sex, unless he asks me to take it off) to make me feel better about my body. I'm considering taking saw palmetto to boost breast size, but my fiancee would hate that. Idk, the bras are our compromise.
As far as dick size, anything above average would be less convenient, would require slower penetration and I couldn't take the pounding I enjoy from my fiancees perfect, thick 6 inch cock. Plus, I can take him anally just perfectly, not quite painful but enough to be acutely aware of every stroke. But if there was a bisexual big boy that wanted to join us for a threesome, I'd be happy to let him work in every inch
I'm happy with my girlie bits. Never felt any shame that others seem to have. Worked for years as a stripper so I have seen A LOT of pussy and they are all basically the same. Sure they are all unique for each person, with different bits hanging longer, shorter, more tucked in, etc. but I have never seen one that struck me as hideous. A pussy is a pussy is a pussy.
For some reason this thread is reminding me of this documentary I watched recently where it showed labioplasty surgery, in up close graphic detail. *shudders* Ladies: don't think about chopping off any of your bits! Your vulva and all of its accompanying parts are all perfect. Don't listen to socially constructed lies that it is supposed to resemble only one mold.
For some reason this thread is reminding me of this documentary I watched recently where it showed labioplasty surgery, in up close graphic detail. *shudders* Ladies: don't think about chopping off any of your bits! Your vulva and all of its accompanying parts are all perfect. Don't listen to socially constructed lies that it is supposed to resemble only one mold.
