Do you consider oral sex to be sex?

[rangrz]

if ya can get stds from oral sex then ya i will consider it as sex, but if you couldnt get stds from oral that wud b a dream come true. blow jobs from prostitutes ALL DAYY!

That sounds like shit man. I'd rather be nomming the girl I love and watching her squirm with pleasure and then cuddle with her after and smoke a cig w her, or even do a hot, kinky, fetish scene with a FWB who I at least like as a friend than get a blowjob from some girl who is not into it and is only there for the $$ any fucking day.

Shit, I'd rather fap and go do math by myself than get a BJ from a prostitute tbpfh.

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

nah not really. If I did then I have gotten laid a LOT more than I previously considered.

EDIT: ahhh I guess I would. I wouldn't say I'd fucked a gal, but yeah I would say we shared some sex....maybe

 

[tackyspiral]

nah not really. If I did then I have gotten laid a LOT more than I previously considered.

EDIT: ahhh I guess I would. I wouldn't say I'd fucked a gal, but yeah I would say we shared some sex....maybe

This brings up a good point.... if oral sex is sex than has a man lost his viginity if he gets a blow job or does a woman lose her virginity by giving one?

 

[Apostacious]

Nah. Oral sex has always been foreplay for me. I've never been satisfied with a blowjob, and its not because I've never had a good one. Sex is only sex if you are fucking someone imo. Rhythmic thrusts of the pelvis will always entail sex to me. I imagine you could do so with someone's mouth, however, there are teeth there, and I don't like choking my partner.

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

I actually wasn't talking about that but cunnilingus - I've always been more of a giver than a taker, so fellatio actually didn't cross my mind haha.

This brings up a good point.... if oral sex is sex than has a man lost his viginity if he gets a blow job or does a woman lose her virginity by giving one?

I would say definitely not!

 

[aussie101]

Definitely, esp if they suck your schlong b4 sex

 

[RedRum OG]

Only if they're lesbians

Hetero 69 is pretty close though, and feels just delightful if you know how to work the girl so she works you, plus it's sort of like upside-down head, so that's interesting.

 

[Venrak]

Thing is... why is it most commonly referred to as "oral sex" over simply "oral" if it isn't sex?

Could be a misnomer.

"Oral relations"? The sterility sort of just highlights the naughtyness of it. I guess the question is... what is the essence of sex, that makes it "sex"?

...plus it's sort of like upside-down head, so that's interesting.

Bahaha

 

[Raz]

IMO- If you are engaging in any activity with another person for sexual gratification then no matter what that said activity is then yes, it is sex.

+1

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