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kytnism said:
rangrz and s/o. reading you guys arguing was uncomfortable, and i had to stop. i felt like a fly on the wall.

i just hope you can both get past the issue and back on track with loving the pants off of one another. <3

...kytnism...:|
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Thanks. We have. :)

We also went on a date with a hot, geeky (Ph.D girl, MBA and former Submarine Officer guy) couple into BDSM last night. They took us to a fancy dinner and they're cool... hopefully we get them tied up and helpless soon. :D
 
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mmmm submarine. She must know some subliminal shiiit

Edit: Fkn lol i say some strange/funny shit when im drunk. Didn't read properly, or perhaps you edited it later, i dunno. Rangrz are you wanting to have a foursome with Ms.G, "Ph.D girl" and "former submarine officer guy"? He might go down on you, ya know.
 
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Serotonin101 said:
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New girl tore me up last night
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doesn't matter had sex
 
aarggg, me and this nice girl had sex yesterday, we used a condom, but it broke... :( she took a morning-after-pill today... She might be coming over again tonight.... is it safe to have sex after taking the morning after pill? We for sure will be using a condom again, but probably I will have some lingering psychological blockage (and performance anxiety) that it will break again... I never feel completely safe except on double protection (birth control + condom)... Do I have double safety buffer (post-MAP effect + condom) tonight, or only a single safety buffer (condom)?
 
Someone correct me if I'm wrong but I'm pretty sure it'll still be in effect since you can technically take the morning after pill up to 72 hours after sex. Its effectiveness will have decreased a lot by that time though, and she shouldn't take it again the next morning if the condom breaks again (those things really aren't good for you).

How's it going with the friend/crush btw Psyduck?
 
Psyduck said:
aarggg, me and this nice girl had sex yesterday, we used a condom, but it broke... :( she took a morning-after-pill today... She might be coming over again tonight.... is it safe to have sex after taking the morning after pill? We for sure will be using a condom again, but probably I will have some lingering psychological blockage (and performance anxiety) that it will break again... I never feel completely safe except on double protection (birth control + condom)... Do I have double safety buffer (post-MAP effect + condom) tonight, or only a single safety buffer (condom)?
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go buy a bigger size, thicker, not cheap...it will be fine if she's unnecessarily taken the morning after. Unless she's ovulating it's almost always unnecessary to take it. Tell her to read into her cycles. And you brother - you need to read up on the consistency of cervical/vaginal secretions. I can tell if a girl is ovulating after a few minutes with just my fingers.

There's only so many times you can take that shit before it causes irreperable damage.
 
Psyduck said:
aarggg, me and this nice girl had sex yesterday, we used a condom, but it broke... :( she took a morning-after-pill today... She might be coming over again tonight.... is it safe to have sex after taking the morning after pill? We for sure will be using a condom again, but probably I will have some lingering psychological blockage (and performance anxiety) that it will break again... I never feel completely safe except on double protection (birth control + condom)... Do I have double safety buffer (post-MAP effect + condom) tonight, or only a single safety buffer (condom)?
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You're fine and yes pagey it's 72 hours although its efficacy diminishes the longer you wait.

She might be nauseous though. It made me nauseous but everything makes me nauseous. Lol
 
B1tO'RoughJack said:
Tell her to read into her cycles. And you brother - you need to read up on the consistency of cervical/vaginal secretions. I can tell if a girl is ovulating after a few minutes with just my fingers.
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This method is based on the consistency of her secretions correct? If its thick it means she's ovulating I believe. Also body temp fluctuates when the chick is ovulating too if I remember correctly. They have apps for smart phones you can set up to help monitor monthly cycles. I believe they were intended to help people get pregnant to find the most fertile time but can be viewed "backwards" to calculate least fertile times. Always use birth control and contraceptives if possible. Is there a reason she isn't on a form of bc? That's a "screening question" for potential partners I bring up. If they aren't on a form of BC, I drop em quick as I don't wanna chance anything with them.
 
Psyduck, she did the right thing. You don't fuck around with stuff like that. I especially wouldn't put my future in the hands of any dude who thinks he can tell if I'm ovulating. She did the right thing.

I pity any girl who would risk pregnancy by listening to any man tell her what her cycle is doing.
 
Serotonin101 said:
This method is based on the consistency of her secretions correct? If its thick it means she's ovulating I believe. Also body temp fluctuates when the chick is ovulating too if I remember correctly. They have apps for smart phones you can set up to help monitor monthly cycles. I believe they were intended to help people get pregnant to find the most fertile time but can be viewed "backwards" to calculate least fertile times. Always use birth control and contraceptives if possible. Is there a reason she isn't on a form of bc? That's a "screening question" for potential partners I bring up. If they aren't on a form of BC, I drop em quick as I don't wanna chance anything with them.
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Yes, but fertile cervical secretions are thin and stretchy, not thick. They are about the consistency of egg whites.

Also, temperature does fluctuate, but it is by the hundredth of a degree. You have to use a basal body thermometer and you have to take your temperature vaginally every morning before you even get up to pee. Then, you have to graph it. This method works, but you have to be extremely dedicated to it.
 
rangrz said:
Yes, we would not want a woman to trust a foolish and naive man who has no idea about that kind of thing at all. Like this guy for example
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uhhh we're talking about some guy with no med school training sticking his fingers up there and telling you (a female) whether or not she should worry about going out to get the morning after pill.

Stay on focus, rangrz.
 
Lysis said:
uhhh we're talking about some guy with no med school training sticking his fingers up there and telling you (a female) whether or not she should worry about going out to get the morning after pill.

Stay on focus, rangrz.
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sounds about as good an idea of having some dude give you a coat hanger abortion in a motel tbh.
 
Lysis said:
uhhh we're talking about some guy with no med school training sticking his fingers up there and telling you (a female) whether or not she should worry about going out to get the morning after pill.

Stay on focus, rangrz.
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That's a bad idea if one did it themselves or if another female did it too...

Your post was phrased in a way that seemed to be focused on males and their (presumed) lack of understanding of female reproductive physiology. Sorry if that was not your intent.

<3
 
Beachcat said:
Yes, but fertile cervical secretions are thin and stretchy, not thick. They are about the consistency of egg whites.

Also, temperature does fluctuate, but it is by the hundredth of a degree. You have to use a basal body thermometer and you have to take your temperature vaginally every morning before you even get up to pee. Then, you have to graph it. This method works, but you have to be extremely dedicated to it.
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Thanks for correcting me babe. Don't want some gal getting knocked up and tell her man "well sero said so!" :)
 
rangrz said:
That's a bad idea if one did it themselves or if another female did it too...

Your post was phrased in a way that seemed to be focused on males and their (presumed) lack of understanding of female reproductive physiology. Sorry if that was not your intent.

<3
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My post was aimed at Bit's comment on "oh, I can tell if a woman is ovulating." Really bad idea if a condom breaks. Better to just get the pill and be on the safe side, and it's actually really appalling to even suggest to a girl not to worry about it.
 
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