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Psyduck - I also think you should tell her casually as you said you wanted to. :) If there's a mutual connection, then you can both make the effort to see each other and exploring the possibilities further.

I have good news, SLR. :)

I have a real boyfriend now in New Dude. My roommate and now you guys are the ones who know so far. He and I had a non-traditional 3rd date in that we talked relationship rather than sex. We agreed that we really like each other and that we want to be more than just dating, so he asked me to be his girlfriend, outright. :) Then we had dinner, a bowl of some kind greens, a beer, and walked his dog. What we didn't do was have sex! We're in agreement that we needed that commitment from each other and that it's a lot to deal with at once. Neither of us wants to fast-track it. I know it will be worth the wait.

Not sex but explicit under the cut:

NSFW:
I did see and touch his handsome dingle. It's perfect! Very nice size and thickness, just right. It's also very responsive to touch. I liked giving my new boyfriend an epic hand job. :)


My exes are simply going to have to understand that I am now in a relationship. Neither of them could give me what I want in the form of loving structure and commitment.

Next date is Saturday! We're working basically opposite schedules until then but both of us have the weekend off. We're going to do dinner and a show. That might be *the night*... we shall see.

:) :) :)
 
^Wow! That sounds like such a nice date, really not what you'd expect at the very beginning of a relationship either. I'm happy for you :D
 
smelling like your partner is the best

...nice to hear you had a great time Lysis.

:)
 
Mariposa said:
Psyduck - I also think you should tell her casually as you said you wanted to. :) If there's a mutual connection, then you can both make the effort to see each other and exploring the possibilities further.

I have good news, SLR. :)

I have a real boyfriend now in New Dude. My roommate and now you guys are the ones who know so far. He and I had a non-traditional 3rd date in that we talked relationship rather than sex. We agreed that we really like each other and that we want to be more than just dating, so he asked me to be his girlfriend, outright. :) Then we had dinner, a bowl of some kind greens, a beer, and walked his dog. What we didn't do was have sex! We're in agreement that we needed that commitment from each other and that it's a lot to deal with at once. Neither of us wants to fast-track it. I know it will be worth the wait.

Not sex but explicit under the cut:

NSFW:
I did see and touch his handsome dingle. It's perfect! Very nice size and thickness, just right. It's also very responsive to touch. I liked giving my new boyfriend an epic hand job. :)


My exes are simply going to have to understand that I am now in a relationship. Neither of them could give me what I want in the form of loving structure and commitment.

Next date is Saturday! We're working basically opposite schedules until then but both of us have the weekend off. We're going to do dinner and a show. That might be *the night*... we shall see.

:) :) :)
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Awesome! Do you have a number of dates rule too, Mariposa before sex? haha I love it. The thing is for me, if I am really interested and attracted to someone, I can't hold out for that long, so three dates is my minimum, but that chemistry is hard to resist.

Grats on the new boy toy.
 
Mariposa said:
Psyduck - I also think you should tell her casually as you said you wanted to. :) If there's a mutual connection, then you can both make the effort to see each other and exploring the possibilities further.

I have good news, SLR. :)

I have a real boyfriend now in New Dude. My roommate and now you guys are the ones who know so far. He and I had a non-traditional 3rd date in that we talked relationship rather than sex. We agreed that we really like each other and that we want to be more than just dating, so he asked me to be his girlfriend, outright. :) Then we had dinner, a bowl of some kind greens, a beer, and walked his dog. What we didn't do was have sex! We're in agreement that we needed that commitment from each other and that it's a lot to deal with at once. Neither of us wants to fast-track it. I know it will be worth the wait.

Not sex but explicit under the cut:

NSFW:
I did see and touch his handsome dingle. It's perfect! Very nice size and thickness, just right. It's also very responsive to touch. I liked giving my new boyfriend an epic hand job. :)


My exes are simply going to have to understand that I am now in a relationship. Neither of them could give me what I want in the form of loving structure and commitment.

Next date is Saturday! We're working basically opposite schedules until then but both of us have the weekend off. We're going to do dinner and a show. That might be *the night*... we shall see.

:) :) :)
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Awesome! Do you have a number of dates rule too, Mariposa before sex? haha I love it. The thing is for me, if I am really interested and attracted to someone, I can't hold out for that long, so three dates is my minimum, but that chemistry is hard to resist.

Grats on the new boy toy.


smelling like your partner is the best
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Fuck yeah! It lasts for about the rest of the day and goes away, but it's awesome.
 
Lysis said:
Awesome! Do you have a number of dates rule too, Mariposa before sex? haha I love it. The thing is for me, if I am really interested and attracted to someone, I can't hold out for that long, so three dates is my minimum, but that chemistry is hard to resist.

Grats on the new boy toy.
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I actually don't, that's the funny part :D But my longest-lasting and overall happiest relationships in the past, we waited a little while (4-6 weeks) to seal the deal. I was kind of shocked when he initiated "the talk" because I was fine not having it. He's a bit old-fashioned, not someone prone to a wandering eye. I like that. We're working on the relationship part first. We agreed we had to both be sure we fit into each others' lives, and that will take a little time.

Congrats to you as well. I imagine there's something very nice about your dude even though he is a bit rough around the edges in The Lounge. :)
 
Mariposa said:
I actually don't, that's the funny part :D But my longest-lasting and overall happiest relationships in the past, we waited a little while (4-6 weeks) to seal the deal. I was kind of shocked when he initiated "the talk" because I was fine not having it. He's a bit old-fashioned, not someone prone to a wandering eye. I like that. We're working on the relationship part first. We agreed we had to both be sure we fit into each others' lives, and that will take a little time.

Congrats to you as well. I imagine there's something very nice about your dude even though he is a bit rough around the edges in The Lounge. :)
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oh, we've had that "everyone thinks you're a douchebag and I ruin my rep seeing you" conversations. lol It's a bit of a joke, but at the same time, jesus what a horrible rep he has. He will kill me for saying it, but he's funny and exactly my style but not the asshole he comes off in the Lounge. Actually, he's pretty awesome.

rangrz said:
lol at 3 dates minimum. I'm ok with 0 dates before sex... that is, bang first, then after, cause of how dope they are, go out. :P

Not that I'm up to such antics any more.
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3 dates or even just playing hard to get gets rid of the people who are not at my level. I am not interested in casual sex, and men who are interested in that stuff won't bother with me for that long if that's all they want. It weeds out a lot of players.
 
Lysis- I already tried to text Paula. No response yet. Faggotry! :D<3 (loved the picture, though. and it looks/sounds like you two had a blast)




Since this debacle almost 2 years ago, I've been walled off. I am unable to tell someone how I genuinely feel or what I'm thinking.

But, tonight, I said what was on my mind. Nothing monumental, mind you. It was so well-received, though. And, it wasn't a big deal.

Goddamn groundbreaking, I tell you.
 
As I mentioned in the last time you had sex thread, I banged so hard with Ms.G last night that I literally bled all over her and then had to have the rather painful experience of reducing a paraphimosis... on myself...fucking owwww.

Must remember to ask Dr about my wrench next time I see him. But, well, he wears a rather small hat and does not work on Saturdays, so I'm afraid he'll want to cut my lizard instead of Rx me some coritcosteroid cream to for this issue. But no harm in asking, I suppose.
 
Thanks for the images rangrz. Now I wont be fapping tonight. Just got fantastic head and was going to fap (girl had to leave to go home) and now insta-boner-kill. :P now you need to make up for it. Or maybe you posted a hot sexy story in the "last time you had sex thread". *switches thread and gets prepared to fap*
 
Serotonin101 said:
Thanks for the images rangrz. Now I wont be fapping tonight. Just got fantastic head and was going to fap (girl had to leave to go home) and now insta-boner-kill. :P now you need to make up for it. Or maybe you posted a hot sexy story in the "last time you had sex thread". *switches thread and gets prepared to fap*
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^ lol

Rangrz should have his own thread for his sexcapades.
 
I need to just hang out with the guy and ill probably be able to have as much fun as he does. I call dibs on being his wingman.
 
poopie said:
Lysis- I already tried to text Paula. No response yet. Faggotry! :D<3 (loved the picture, though. and it looks/sounds like you two had a blast)




Since this debacle almost 2 years ago, I've been walled off. I am unable to tell someone how I genuinely feel or what I'm thinking.

But, tonight, I said what was on my mind. Nothing monumental, mind you. It was so well-received, though. And, it wasn't a big deal.

Goddamn groundbreaking, I tell you.
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he better treat you good. you deserve it.

i hope its not too late before he does or burns your patience out in the meanwhile.

i love you bb gurl. dont let any old asswipe steal your heart; youre too special.

save it for someone special and deserving. its time someone gave a little back.

<3

...kytnism...:|
 
Lysis said:
oh, we've had that "everyone thinks you're a douchebag and I ruin my rep seeing you" conversations. lol It's a bit of a joke, but at the same time, jesus what a horrible rep he has. He will kill me for saying it, but he's funny and exactly my style but not the asshole he comes off in the Lounge. Actually, he's pretty awesome.
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Hahha. Lysiiiis you're ruining his credibility! :D

So tonight I'm going out clubbing with a bunch of people, among which'll be the cute virgin guy who turned me down but still continues to flirt outrageously with me. I'm thinking once he's really drunk and starts complimenting me again, I make a move.
 
poopie said:
Lysis- I already tried to text Paula. No response yet. Faggotry! :D<3 (loved the picture, though. and it looks/sounds like you two had a blast)




Since this debacle almost 2 years ago, I've been walled off. I am unable to tell someone how I genuinely feel or what I'm thinking.

But, tonight, I said what was on my mind. Nothing monumental, mind you. It was so well-received, though. And, it wasn't a big deal.

Goddamn groundbreaking, I tell you.
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He probably fell asleep like I did. We did not sleep much at all, and the last night (Absinthe night) we hardly remember but woke up at 4am to a trail of clothes from the door to the bed. I don't even remember, but we must have walked in and just got naked. I think he said "I have to pee" and within that time I passed the fuck out. I wish I had a video of him showing off his ass and saying "Rate my ass." LOL It was hilarious and one of the few things I remember from Absinthe night. I was so tired yesterday and he got less sleep than I did, because at least I didn't have to work.

And about your groundbreaking speech, I tell ya girl I am a well-guarded soul too and it takes time to crack me, but those moments of clarity and bravery where you just let it all out are awesome. This way, you get to say what you want and let it out and it either works out or it doesn't but at least you spoke your mind and didn't hold back. I have those moments rarely too, but at least you got to say what you needed to say. And it's been 2 years, so fuck it, just say it.
 
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