jones-in_J
Bluelighter
So you never gave an update what ended up happening with Her???
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so i think im in love - help.
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She's dating me now. She told me he's very conceited and arrogant and wants a nicer guy who treats her like a lady, not some kind of "fuckable property". Jokes aside, I'm feeling almost as if this was a troll.
jones-in_J
Bluelighter
Oh well, he's made 2,000 posts and will probably be making a lot more but regardless of if he says it was a joke or whatever ill remember him for this dumb ass letter lol
Lysis
Bluelighter
Listen to this guy right here. :D
When are you available for lunch? =) I also got a couple movie tickets if you'd like to catch a matinee or later show if you'd like. You can pick the movie of course.
Lysis
Bluelighter
And that's how it's done....
Seriously though. That's all the guy has to do. Take note, guys! Doesn't mean it will be a great date, and doesn't mean anything will happen, but hey you never know and hopefully even if you don't have a romantic bond, you can at least have fun for a night.
Pharcyde
Bluelighter
Wow you sure do come off like a cocky fuck
I promise you will have a great time =) What kind of food would you like to go have? I could always do a homecooked meal if you'd like.
tender lamb shank
Bluelighter
Annnnnd now it's getting creepy
It was a joke... More or less to illustrate how to communicate without being a cocky cock, and be flirtatious at the same time.
jones-in_J
Bluelighter
Don't worry everyone else got it except him
CoffeeDrinker
Bluelighter
I thought the "i got unlimited everything" line was a little bit of a cocky thing to say. That's really saying quite a lot isn't it?
I meant unlimited minutes and text messaging lol. Not financial resources (I'm actually quite poor sadly 
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Lysis
Bluelighter
^^ LOL I knew you were kidding. I thought it was a nice comment. I met someone one time after he invited me to go snowboarding. We knew each other online and I was in a transitional stage in life between jobs and being single. I forget how he put it. He said something like "If you ever came to Utah, I would love to take you snowboarding." He told me he thought I'd never do it, but the next day I kinda thought about it and asked if he'd really be up for me vacationing there for a week. So, I went, we hung out for about 4 days, and he eventually moved to Florida with me. That was probably the most awesome time of my life aside from not liking my job at the time. lol But romantically, it was freakin awesome.
ETA: I should note that we chatted with each other for about 3 months before he invited me. I always had a crush on him, but I kinda left it alone, because we were far apart. He threw out the invitation he said kinda thinking I'd never do it, but at the same time hoping I would do it. And, well, I did. :D
ETA: I should note that we chatted with each other for about 3 months before he invited me. I always had a crush on him, but I kinda left it alone, because we were far apart. He threw out the invitation he said kinda thinking I'd never do it, but at the same time hoping I would do it. And, well, I did. :D
tender lamb shank
Bluelighter
oh I got it. The first time. And the second time. And the third. Fourth time? Getting weird. I think the point had already been thoroughly made. Anyway, now you've made me look mean because you forced me to defend myself, when really my comment too was only intended to lighten the mood. Make me feel better please.
jones-in_J
Bluelighter
hahaha sorry!
insert shitty/creepy comment in memory of the OP's letter :: oh I'll make you feel better hubba hubba hubba::
lmfao!
MrIbis
Bluelighter
lmao, well that spiralled out of control.
clearly you guys got the wrong message from what i wrote. Yes i was very confused, no i'm not in love with this girl - yes it was just lust. That said she's still all over me. and yes i have candidates to choose from - what the fuck is wrong with me having a potential list of girls who'd make a good partner for the future? it's just good preparation. I've narrowed it all down - and even come to terms with this lust.
Turns out she wasnt avoiding me at all, and she had the flu. She took everything i wrote to her seriously - and after more forethought on my part i decided that im best leaving this be. It had taken up so much of my attention i warped it into something else just to justify it to myself that I was doing the right thing.
fuck forgive me for needing to vent, you guys can all suck a fat dick. Not one bit of constructive advice at all.
Let me also note, for all you females out there who know anything about astrology, this girl in particular is a Scorpio, the mother of my child is also a scorpio and looking back - so are all of my ex's. I am totally incompatible with this type of girl. But they keep me on my toes and love to play games, they're also very sexual, traits i am attracted to - not to mention somewhat psychic.
anyway i hadnt checked this thread til now, im not sure why i did. you've only planted seeds of self doubt in my already made up mind - so thanks for that. Perhaps it hadn;t been obvious at first but when I wrote that to her, i clearly wasn't thinking straight - it did however (since she and i have a connection you guys clearly don't with me, and are good friends) accomplish just what I had intended - and for anyone close to me who read the letter and understands my sentiment - they thought it was brilliant.
I do hang with this girl like all the time - we are very close friends, and she brought the sex into my head, not me. She brought it up - what the fuck else was i supposed to do when I was toey and the only girl i've felt anything for in a long time actually reciprocated some feelings - sent me into a bit of a crazy lust filled few weeks. It's all chill now but i'd appreciate if you guys acted like adults when someone comes askign for advice with clearly confused emotions they dont understand. Instead of dissing them and making them feel like fucking idiots.
Shame on you lot who call yourself mods or advice givers, because again, now i just feel like a fucking moron for opening up to someone, and more so for opening up the story to you lot. Next time i'll bottle it up til it becomes a real problem...
COLLECTIVE CONCIOUSNESS 2012, perhaps you guys just don't get it.
clearly you guys got the wrong message from what i wrote. Yes i was very confused, no i'm not in love with this girl - yes it was just lust. That said she's still all over me. and yes i have candidates to choose from - what the fuck is wrong with me having a potential list of girls who'd make a good partner for the future? it's just good preparation. I've narrowed it all down - and even come to terms with this lust.
Turns out she wasnt avoiding me at all, and she had the flu. She took everything i wrote to her seriously - and after more forethought on my part i decided that im best leaving this be. It had taken up so much of my attention i warped it into something else just to justify it to myself that I was doing the right thing.
fuck forgive me for needing to vent, you guys can all suck a fat dick. Not one bit of constructive advice at all.
Let me also note, for all you females out there who know anything about astrology, this girl in particular is a Scorpio, the mother of my child is also a scorpio and looking back - so are all of my ex's. I am totally incompatible with this type of girl. But they keep me on my toes and love to play games, they're also very sexual, traits i am attracted to - not to mention somewhat psychic.
anyway i hadnt checked this thread til now, im not sure why i did. you've only planted seeds of self doubt in my already made up mind - so thanks for that. Perhaps it hadn;t been obvious at first but when I wrote that to her, i clearly wasn't thinking straight - it did however (since she and i have a connection you guys clearly don't with me, and are good friends) accomplish just what I had intended - and for anyone close to me who read the letter and understands my sentiment - they thought it was brilliant.
I do hang with this girl like all the time - we are very close friends, and she brought the sex into my head, not me. She brought it up - what the fuck else was i supposed to do when I was toey and the only girl i've felt anything for in a long time actually reciprocated some feelings - sent me into a bit of a crazy lust filled few weeks. It's all chill now but i'd appreciate if you guys acted like adults when someone comes askign for advice with clearly confused emotions they dont understand. Instead of dissing them and making them feel like fucking idiots.
Shame on you lot who call yourself mods or advice givers, because again, now i just feel like a fucking moron for opening up to someone, and more so for opening up the story to you lot. Next time i'll bottle it up til it becomes a real problem...
COLLECTIVE CONCIOUSNESS 2012, perhaps you guys just don't get it.
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jones-in_J
Bluelighter
I got flamed on a thread I made in the lounge telling people to message me cuz I was bored and was really aggravated at the responses I got so telling me how pathetic and desperate i must be so i understood this last post and not liking the responses you got
But dude, you did sound extremely cocky in a lot of parts of it and even in some of your last msg you do need to check that. Doesn't mean your a bad person but its a bad trait
But dude, you did sound extremely cocky in a lot of parts of it and even in some of your last msg you do need to check that. Doesn't mean your a bad person but its a bad trait
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