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The Big Question - Cat v's Dog


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Thanks for the great tips, guys!

NT, I'd prefer to keep the cat indoors. But if I see that it really wants to go outside, I'll look into it. We live in a calm neighbourhood so I'm not really afraid of it getting run over. However, the people next door to me have a family of 5+ cats and they cling together very strongly. Do you think they'll attack mine if they see it?

i CANNOT stress this enough: part of being a responsible pet owner is keeping your animal safe. that means keeping domesticated cats strictly INDOORS. cats can be victims of other animals, cruel people, parasites and other serious illnesses they contract outdoors. the other issue is the burden your cat will have on your neighbors - people don't take too kindly to a strange cat digging in their flower beds or attacking the nearby wildlife. depending on your budget, you could get a screened "cat patio", which are really cool, but otherwise, mine always seem content to look out the window.

you've got some good advice already from the other posters. my thoughts are:

i also second the houseplants and flowers - make sure any foliage you bring into the house is cat safe since many plants can be toxic to cats.

scratching posts or a cat tree with sisal rope are a must. keep any toys with long strings away unless it's play time.

oh and, i'm not sure this is the case with all kittens, but mine always loved mirrors. they'd do this funny little sideways cat dance at their reflection. :)
 
Indeed. Good call on keeping the cat inside. There's just too many things that can be dangerous for a cat outside, especially in an urban (or mostly urban) area. Cats are very territorial animals and your neighbor's cats would probably consider yours to be an intruder so...another reason to keep your cat inside.

I'm with alasdair, consider your cat to be a person, because, really, there's a reason some cultures have considered cats to be gods. They're certainly more "tuned in" to the vibe of the universe. All animals are. Think of your cat as a portable tiger.
 
If the picture is accurate, the cat is a boy.

(brownie points to the first person who can tell me why)

Because of his elongated face.
;)

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some good advice in here.

desex your kitty while it is nice a young.
talk to your kitty. understand certain signs, like shaking tail means frustration.
let the kitty come to you when it wants and share space with you. if kitty is sleeping or in a comfy spot, don't disturb any more than a little reassuring rub on the face/chin or pat.
 
Alright, now I'll definitely keep the cat strictly indoors.

Fawkes, what do you mean with: "keep any toys with long strings away unless it's play time"? Can't I just leave those toys lying around all day?

About the desexing: I've been told that it won't be necessary to desex him because he won't spray since he's the only cat or animal we have. Is this true?
 
no, his instincts will kick in and his time indoors would become difficult. definitely desex, and early too.
 
fawkes said:
i CANNOT stress this enough: part of being a responsible pet owner is keeping your animal safe. that means keeping domesticated cats strictly INDOORS. cats can be victims of other animals, cruel people, parasites and other serious illnesses they contract outdoors. the other issue is the burden your cat will have on your neighbors - people don't take too kindly to a strange cat digging in their flower beds or attacking the nearby wildlife. depending on your budget, you could get a screened "cat patio", which are really cool, but otherwise, mine always seem content to look out the window.

That said, don't shit your pants if he or she gets outside. It's very likely that the cat will return within 24 hours (they ARE territorial). I had a landlord who refused to facilitate installation of screens on my windows.

ebola
 
Fawkes, what do you mean with: "keep any toys with long strings away unless it's play time"? Can't I just leave those toys lying around all day?
Not to put words in Fawkes' mouth, but that might've been in reference to small string toys--I had two cats who loved munching on that fake grass you put in Easter baskets. Had to pull it out the rear since it was stuck. Probably was NOT the smartest thing to do (and I was only doing what I was told) but both cats lived.

Also, if you have two cats from the get-go, don't suddenly get rid of one--The other may rebel and do all kinds of crazy stuff like defecate on your pillow/bed, pull out his hair, or stop using the litter-box completely.

Lastly, don't throw the cat out a window. Yes, it will land on all fours, but there is the chance that it won't.

Ah, life with my brother and our two cats in the 90s. 8)

OH, also: I don't know if they still make them, but avoid any of those little fabric mice toys with plastic eyes--The eyes can be easily pulled out and pose a choking hazard.
 
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Cats have a hard time spitting stuff out once they start to swallow. If that thing happens to be a piece of string it can cause an intestinal blockage, which can either translate into hundreds (sometimes thousands) in vet bills to get it back out, or in some unfortunate (and IMO unnecessary) cases, euthanasia.
 
have your kitten tested for feline luchemia and feline HIV. you don't want to take care of a kitten for a few months and bond with it only to find out that it is doomed to a quick and horrible death dew to being born with either of these.

most people feed wet food as a special treat either once a day or a few times a week. if you plan on giving wet food all the time it is not such a huge deal but if you only do it once a day or a few times a week, and you value your sleep, don't feed them wet food first thing in the morning. they will come to expect it an will cry at 4am until you get up and feed them their wet food. best to do it during the day or evening.

kittens are small and not very coordinated and get under feet for the first 2 months or so. take you shoes off when you are home so if you do step on them you don't hurt them too much.

male cats will mark their territory even if they are house bound and female cats will cry and cry when they are in heat for the attention of a male. get male cat nutered at about 5 months and they will not feel compelled to mark your house because it removes their sex organs before they are fully mature and figure out that they are supposed to mark. Vets spay/nuter at 5-6 months most of the time. get it done as early as they will let you but don't push it past 6 months unless you like your place to smell like cat piss.

kittens will climb everything. they will even climb you! if you plan on getting them declawed they typically wait and do the spay/nuter a the same time. it is cheaper that way and easier on the cats. they will need something to scratch that is more appealing than your furniture and pantlegs and something to climb on that is not you or your curtains.

I have 6 cats and my wife is a vet tech so anything you need to know just ask...
 
To train a kitten to keep away from certain things, like your electronics, sink, trash cans, etc.... yelling at it or snapping at it like you would a dog will not work. A small spray bottle with water is much more effective. Just give them a quick spritz and after a few times they will get the hint.

Kittens are nocturnal so you might want to try and wear him out before you go to bed so kitty gets in the same sleeping routine as you. Laser pointers 6 for $10 from Amazon ftw! lol

Recently I've had to start closing the lid of my toilet because my kitty likes to climb ALL the way in there and play around and drink the water :| Sick. I am not usually a lid-closer, but now I pretty much have to be. Ew.
 
I thought this was a drug forum....

However, it's nice others help outl with all kinds of things :]
 
if you plan on getting them declawed they typically wait and do the spay/nuter a the same time.

Please, please, PLEASE do not get your cat declawed. It is brutal and painful, akin to truncating the finger at the joint near the tip.

ebola
 
Please, please, PLEASE do not get your cat declawed. It is brutal and painful, akin to truncating the finger at the joint near the tip.

ebola

doing so even if your cat is an indoor cat leaves them susceptible if they did happen to get out side, not only because they can not defend themselves but they cant climb.
 
Get the cat neutered early. Not only will he begin to spray and roll around in dirt, but if you happen to allow him to be an outdoor cat he will fight with other neighborhood kitties, to the point of serious injury or death. Additionally, he will be impossible to keep inside if he is not neutered.

If this is your first cat, be prepared for the possibility that he can be ferocious and damn near mean as a kitten. Try to ignore it, do not train the cat as you would a dog. Not that I have ever purposely hurt any of my kittens, but my first kitty was a little devil like no other, and I was ignorant to cat raising, so in attempting to restrain the cat to avoid gashes in my legs I ended up making the cat even more rough. Cats are fucking tough, and also more empathetic than they would lead you to believe, so the more strength you show with them the more they will show with you. If you are gentle while playing, they will learn to keep their claws in. But if you are rough (I'm not talking about hurting the cat, once again, simply rough playing) they will come at you with full force. If the cat gets too rough, ignore him as best you can. They will get gentler with time provided you do. Also keep in mind that cats really seem to like rough play, they need to adjust to your levels. If you have ever seen a litter together you see how tough they are. Some of them will lead you into the rough play trap while their claws hardly break skin, but if you continue with the level aggression that he wants it will take time to train out of him when his claws start doing real damage.

Don't ever make the mistake of spoiling them with treats. Seriously, they will bother you day and night. It takes a while to train out, and all it takes for my cats to relapse back into bratty treat behavior for a month is one extra portion on one day.

Speaking of which, learn kitty language. One of my cats would jump up on my table and lick my food in order to get treats, and I was able to cure him after two years of this behavior by hissing at him. It only took two occasions, and he hasn't jumped up on the table since (he is my bad communication kitty, he doesn't know how to get what he wants by being vocal like my other cats, so he relies on annoying behavior and persistence in it until I finally make the lucky guess). He was terrified, and I felt bad and consoled him, but he learned quick. I would only use this technique on an adult cat who still has bad habits that I am otherwise unable to train out, never a kitten who is just forming his/her maternal bond with you (every owner becomes the new mommy to their kitten). Judging by how terrified my cat got, I would say this is a surprisingly extreme method, so be sure to only use it as an absolute last resort to a problem that can be easily communicated with them.

Buy good food. Look for cat food that contains chicken as the primary ingredient. Most cat food seems to contain marrow or stock as the primary, but provided you compare prices and ingredients you will find that the companies that use better ingredients are of a similar price to the companies using disgusting ingredients. Some of the most expensive brands contain crappy ingredients as well.

Do not get your cat declawed. As a good vet would explain it, it is similar to cutting off human fingertips. Claws are even more essential to cats, as should they ever find their way outside they use them to survive (climbing and self-defense). It is a brutal and totally selfish idea. Just buy the right scratching post and you will be fine, although some furniture damage is simply to be expected.
 
If kitty ever gets a small boo-boo, you know like a self inflicted scratch or even a dry patch that isn't an emergency or doesn't warrant a trip to the vet, you ARE ALLOWED to use a little plain Vaseline on it- or even a pin-head dab of ORIGINAL NEOSPORIN. Never use the neosporin with +pain relief ingredients in it. Make sure it's Original Original Original! The Pain relief formula can be poisonous/deadly for poor kitty if they were to lick too much off of themselves.

Thought this would be a good little tip in case you need to fix any little boo boos in the future.

Hope you enjoy your baby:)
 
have Patience and get a water squirt bottle or a small squirt gun, these are great tools for discipline as one they get wet once they will remember it as soon as you reach for it a next time they are misbehaving in a rather extreme way they will likely stop before you ever have to squirt them. I know this might seem mean to some, but it is a far better tactic that ever beating or spanking your cats, ESPECIALLY A KITTEN.

Remember cats are not like dogs, they are independent, but cats do grow very attached to their owners, and will listen to you when you build the right relationship with them. You want your cat to respect you as a cherished friend.
 
^I already put it in my original post, but I would like to agree and reiterate that you NEVER hit or spank your cat. Even kittens are a lot tougher than we people are, and the more aggressive you are with them the more aggressive they are with you. This type of punishment has the opposite effect of what you intend. I learned that with my first kitty, who was also the toughest to raise kitty I've ever come across, although she was sweet and funny and insanely intelligent as well, she had a mean streak and my inexperience in cat raising led to me accidentally encouraging her aggression instead of removing it, and she retained it for her entire life (keep in mind the difference between "spanking" for disciplinary reasons and abuse, as well. I've raised some severely abused strays who wandered over to my house from some anonymous evil neighbors and it is terrible to see them flinch every time I reach to pet them. A poorly disciplined kitty will attack).

The most important thing is to be gentle, and to use your cunning as discipline instead of your hands. Water bottles never worked for me, but a good simulation of the fight-hissing cats do works perfectly. Be creative, but once you find out what works on your cat you will rarely have to discipline him for the same thing more than twice.

Oh, and be sure to take them to the vet at least once a year, and pretty much immediately after you get him. Most kittens have a ton of little parasites that need to be treated. Also, unlike dogs they get sick about as often as we do and you should closely monitor any sickness you perceive, and use your best judgement when determining whether or not they are sick enough that you have to take them to the vet. Keep them updated on their shots, and find a good cheap vet. The expensive vets overcharge you for the same exact services a cheaper vet will provide, and they put them through unnecessary testing that they can charge you for.

Oh, and lots of attention as kittens. I sleep with my cats as soon as I feel they are big and agile enough to avoid any potential accidents that can occur while I'm sleeping (you don't want to sleep with your kitten when they are still so small and uncoordinated that one bad roll in your sleep would do them in). Sleeping and playing together seem to be the great bonding experiences. The more attention you put in while they are kittens, the more they will give back when they are cats. You don't want to end up with an aloof kitty that only pops out when they want food. Those types perpetuate poor cat stereotypes.
 
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