^ agreed! please do not declaw. (though i assumed the OP might live in a
nation where declawing is outlawed; if the OP isn't, DON'T DO IT; it's inhumane.) to the person calling it "minimally invasive", would you not think it invasive if your digits were all severed at the first knuckle?
declawed cats have been shown to exhibit psychological issues/behavioral problems and physical ailments like arthritis earlier than their clawed counterparts. they use their claws to do things like mark their territory (territory is VERY important to a cat - if they aren't marking it by scratching, they'll find other means), exercise and stretch.
regarding the toys with string - addictive and Cyc explained it well. i have really long hair and, if eaten, even that can pose a danger to kitty's insides.
and to chime in on some of the discussion concerning discipline - i find redirection is best. if kitty is told "no" to one thing, make sure to be able to say "yes" to another. for instance, if kitty is scratching your chair, calmly pick him up and put him on his cat tree or scratch post.
EDIT: i also saw it mentioned that kittens are nocturnal and i don't believe that's indeed the case. cats see best in low-light, so they are most active at dawn and dusk.
also, it was mentioned that FIV+ cats and cats with feline leukemia are "doomed to a short life" and i don't believe that is necessarily the case either. certainly have your furbaby tested, but if he comes back positive for either, when managed, many cats can live full lives with these illnesses.
EDIT #2: where's n3o!?
