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Slender girls vs. Curvy Girls? MERGED. [mild work warning]

I think half of why I'm so hard on myself reguarding myk weight is because I so desperately wish I was a guy. I don't want to be one of those "dyke bitches" as my X-boyfriend calls them. But I do wish I was a guy. I wear a lot of guy clothes. By staying skinny---no hips, no boobs, etc---i feel more like a guy.

I've always had a thin build, but now that I'm off the tweak, my annorexic thought-pattern is kicking back in. I'm scared to eat much now. When I'm tweaking I eat all kinds of junk food and never gain a pound. I'm 5'8" and weigh 115 at the moment---and think I should loose 10 pounds.

Yeah, the media tells us skinny is okay. I mean, look at Mary-Kate Olsen. And they say she recovered? Yeah... sure.... whatever.

A-tweak
 
cire113 said:
Im sick of girls going super thin thinking they are so hot and bomb...


I like a real GIRL... with REAL Curves,, and im a skinny good lookin guy

There is nothign wrong witha some meat on a girl....


Not fat but nice and thick and womenish with those hips...

WHy are some girls obessed with their weight its real troubling..
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its that right there thats the problem man... im a skinny good looking guy... you cant just be a good looking guy? ive seen some chunky guys that looked good... why bother adding skinny?... because its what is "in" and what looks good
 
oh man i have HIPS.. haha i guess thats what getting pregnant and giving birth does to a girl.. err.. woman.. but i desperatly wish i was a guy too, and agree with you on always wearing baggy clothes.. and man.. 5'8 and 115 pounds is LESS THAN AVERAGE.. if you lose 10 pounds, you'll be able to get that legendary ribs sticking out picture like Mary Kate.. do you want that?

i hope not.. :/

and to the guy who wrote about how its the same for guys.. it totally is.. and its stupid (this topic interests me.. lol) cos seriously.. everybodys got there own special look about them (most people.....) and thats what it should be, everyone shouldnt try to be a certain something or other.. i mean fuck.. thats so lame.. stupid world..

and yea.. down with the media!
 
i agree, that this sucks for women, but i've known a lot of chicks that are just as obsessive about their man's weight -- as in they will dump their man if he puts on weight. it's a two way street.
 
i know guys that find it intimidating walking down the beach with their top of coz as we all know, all the muscled up guys with no top are down there.
i guess it can be the same for girls because all the hot toned up girls with nice legs, nice tits, nice ass are down there wearing fuck all.
 
I can think of a certain female user on here that's absolutely hot (my husband agress and girls aren't even really his main thing), but she'll deny it and say she's too flabby or something.

My problem isn't so much my weight, it's also my height. Nobody goes for short guys much, and that's a bit harder to change than my weight (though that's also quite difficult for me).
 
I think half of why I'm so hard on myself reguarding myk weight is because I so desperately wish I was a guy. I don't want to be one of those "dyke bitches" as my X-boyfriend calls them. But I do wish I was a guy. I wear a lot of guy clothes. By staying skinny---no hips, no boobs, etc---i feel more like a guy.
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My wife has always had a tomboy streak in her; when she dresses up she's told me that she sometimes feels like a bloke in drag (her actual reference was to Frank-n-Furter from the Rocky Horror Picture Show!), but regardless of that she's very rarely worried about her weight (she's more Amazonian in physique ie curves) and still wears mainly mens clothes, boots etc for everyday wear - the pic in my gallery is one of her forays into femininity (& even then she ends up going for a dominatrix look!)
 
the porn industry and the media both tell women they have to be super skinny, the archtype of feminine, and have that "look".
 
The issues are preference and perception. One man's BBW is another's overweight slob, just as one man's slender hottie is another's stick-chick.

That society and expectations have shaped our ideals can't be fully denied, IMO, but as much as I hate to say it, I think people should leave tastes well enough alone.
 
Dude... while I really (believe me I do ;)) appreciate your sentiment, because I am what you'd call a curvy 'voluptuous' woman myself, I'm going to have to change your topic heading because I don't know that calling skinny women "anorexic bitches" is all that constructive. In fact it smacks of hipocrisy because some girls who are naturally skinny go through just as much backlash, degradation and unfair hatred in this society as do girls with a bit more flesh on their bones.

If there's something I've learned from SLR ( and this forum has changed my attitudes in more ways than one) it's that skinny girls don't always get the best deal... quite often they're ridiculed and picked on as well, and the people I know who have the lowest self-esteem are often ones you'd consider "model-types". It seems that in some cases, people think it's acceptable to put down thin people because of certain prejudices and inadequacies within themselves, and unfortunately when someone like you comes along who's simply trying to sincerely compliment girls who are curvy, naturally that's going to set off some angry reactions amongst those who are thin because it seems a little one-sided.

There's a difference between "naturally thin" and "forcing yourself to be anorexic because you want to look like Nicole Ritchie" - I think the latter is really sad, borne of insecurity and shallowness. And it's sad that naturally thin people get a bad rap because of that.

That said, I honestly *do* think debates like this sway towards the side of larger people because it's more common, and easier to relate to. The plight of "thin" girls is never going to get as much sympathy simply because most people are more commonly attuned to how hard it is to lose weight, and see thin people as 'lucky'. And the other side as the underdog.

Just saying "be nice"; is all. Some people have the choice. Others don't. :)

And thanks. I happen to really like my curves and this thread couldn't have come at a better time since my own dad yesterday called me fat :( Carry on.
 
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heh, theres a big difference between what is "fat" and what is FAT...

The other day, i saw this chick, must've weighed a good 125kg... SKOFFING DOWN BURGER KING?? WTF!!

Now it's these people who dont seem to care that they are fat, but the girls who are 4-8kg 'overweight' (whatever the fuck that means) saying.. "i'm fat"...

I think most of them do it as a cry for attention, models are models for that reason - perfect - no one wants to looks at average people... Girls are fucking stupid if they perceive fat to be over 40kg ROFLMAO...

I'm not a heavy set dude, i weigh 60kg, and thats gaining 12kg in the last 3 months, since really not gaining any weight (due to drug abuse) since about 16... Quite an effort

I wish girls would stop comparing themselves to the best, and look at the worst - the glass is half full, not half empty.

Heh, i wish i was bigger and bulkier, but i accepted that this is me, and this is who i am, what do i care? i'm alive - i pick up... IMO your not UGLY you cant pick up on grounds of physical appearance.

All the girls i know who say they're fat have no problem getting laid - strange?
 
cire113 said:
WHy are some girls obessed with their weight its real troubling..
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The reason some girls are obsessed with their weight is because they have developed a belief (based on society's expectations/pressure) that thinness = success, attractiveness, control, acceptance, love etc etc

Of course, in reality, not all of the world's population is attracted to skinny girls, but society portrays the message that if you are skinny you are beautiful. This becomes hardwired into girls and some go to extremes to achieve this
 
I like "healthy" women. I dont like skeletons, and i dont like girls who are seriously overweight(who have no desire to become healthy). Every woman's body structure is different and i dont make weight the only deciding factor. But yes, i generally go for people who are emotionally, mentally and phsyically healthy.
 
thin girls, ok, skinny chicks make me think "damn that dont look right" although i wouldn't hesitate to bone either, now curvy chicks! thats where its at, really rev's my engine thick hips, a fat ass, n' decent sized tits, o0o weeee!
 
yea i hate skinny girls that look like a 14 year old boy....yuck really yuck!!

my girl is perfect....and i cant imagine anything better than a nice ass with curvy hips when i am fucking; something most "skinny girls" lack!!!

she thinks she is overweight, but i dont think so at all. she certainly is not what i consider skinny, but because of the media/issues, telling that to her would certainly make her feel "fat"....it pisses me the fuck off.

i hate guys who go for those lanky ass girls with zero tits/hips/ass etc....i think they are secretly gay and cant accept it.

sorry to any women on here that are too skinny....the best thing u can do is to eat alot of protein and work out ur legs, butt, etc....

tits are not important, but i MOST have something!

teenage-boy-fuckers. lol
 
here are some examples of nice bodies IMO from bluelights galleries lol:

Please do not post pictures of others from the gallery without their permission. We also discourage direct links to images in SLR. ~Mariposa
 
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cire113 said:
Im sick of girls going super thin thinking they are so hot and bomb...


I like a real GIRL... with REAL Curves,, and im a skinny good lookin guy


There is nothign wrong witha some meat on a girl....


Not fat but nice and thick and womenish with those hips...

WHy are some girls obessed with their weight its real troubling..
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Because skinny girls ARE hot.

It's seems that most of you don't like skinny girls. Does that mean that you consider models and most famous actresses unattractive?
 
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i have this 16 year old friend. She has a great body but insists on this unhealthy diet due to the fact she thinks she is fat.

In American its either to skinny or to big never any between.
 
gimme curves,i can't deal with stick figures...shes gotta have a shape,like my girlfriend is(slamming curves and a great ass too boot)...rolleover
 
"forcing yourself to be anorexic because you want to look like Nicole Ritchie" - I think the latter is really sad, borne of insecurity and shallowness.
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There happens to be this thing called mental illness...and it's the major cause of eating disorders.

There's being shallow, and then there's being sick. These two are not related. Most girls who want to be REALLY thin are not shallow -- they're fucked in the head. And it's a very deep problem. :\
 
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