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promiscuous girls, turn off or turn on?

i think promiscuous girls are a turn on, i love a girl that comes onto you. being a shy person myself, i would prefer a girl to come on to me, other than the other way round. i would find it hard to come onto a girl myself.
 
Depends how she plays the cards. If she's just open and whatever to sex off the bat then I know she isn't anything special, if she plays coy for a while but you know you're getting it I guarantee you she will get or likes to get freaky-fucking-deeky in the bedroom; and that is fucking hot.
 
Promicuous girls can be a real turn off, but mostly the very indiscreet and foolish ones:

I can't tell you how many girls I have known and of who I have known of that don't understand how foolish it is to "mess around" with multiple guys frequenting the same small scenes. Especially guys that are already good friends! or friendly enough to compare notes.

That lack of discretion and care makes me question the girl's intelligence and her inner compass. But that is just me.


On the other hand, I agree with New:

Sex is to be talked about frankly and treated as a worthwhile and enjoyable activity. Slipping between the sheets with someone who is still uncomfortable with their sexuality and/or in their own skin doesn't really sound like much fun, if one's intention is not to settle down and procreate at some future date.

:)
 
turn-off really. I'd never take a promiscuous girl seriously. It wouldn't be a good idea either. Also, there is a thing called AIDS out there? why are people still promiscuous as hell? The media certainly encourages it.

I don't particuarly care for describing details of sex life and do not like to hear other people's sex stories. Privacy is a good thing.
Man...I wuz gunna stick it her butt for buttsecks and she like totally let out a shitty fart on my cock...
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Thanks for telling me...that's real nice.
 
^ not true...women who don't respect themselves and throw their vag at anyone who smiles at them, these women are sluts. Nothing wrong with a woman who just likes to fuck a lot though.

To answer - Depends how promiscuous - I am too, so that would be hypocritical.

Not necessarily gf material generally though, but yeah - sexually it's a turn on!!
 
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B1tO'RoughJack said:
^ not true...women who don't respect themselves and throw their vag at anyone who smiles at them, these women are sluts. Nothing wrong with a woman who just likes to fuck a lot though.

To answer - Depends how promiscuous - I am too, so that would be hypocritical.

Not gf material generally though, but yeah - sexually it's a turn on!!
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Women who don't respect themselves.

How do you know they don't respect themselves?
What's your definition?

That's right those women who throw their vagina at anyone who smiles at them.

Well I honestly have never heard of women who have sex for smiles, so what on earth could you mean by that?
Oh you mean a girl who chooses to have sex with more people than you think she should.



So in other words your definition is subjective imposed on the girl from your own opinions.


I say again, no such thing as slutty girls, or guys for that matter either.
Unless someone's choice harms in a non consensual manner, then noone has a right to label others based on their choices, even, when, they, don't, agree with those choices.



Am I a male slut for eating my own semen?

Society would not have a kind view of my activities, if they knew, but it's nothing to do with them.
 
No, mate. You're just not getting what I'm saying.



"I'm responsible for what I say, not what you understand."

I have great insight into people I meet IRL - I've been called wise on a good number of occasions, but wouldn't call myself wise myself - I can see when someone doesn't respect themselves.
 
I think the term lack of self respect is itself subjective.

I think it is a label or buzzword applied to put down or explain away actions of other people that we personally don't agree with.

A drug user is often said to not respect oneself.

I am a drug user.
I do not disrespect myself, whatever the hell that means.
I value myself greatly.
But I am willing to accept a certain level of harm to my person in exchange for enhanced life quality from the drugs.

Drugs are not a socially acceptable means of making this exchange, while other means are, like mountain climbing or car racing, so I am labeled as lacking self respect, while the latter is just enjoying their life to the max.


I really don't think it's possible to 'disrespect yourself' as I don't believe the condition is a real thing.
 
Drugs are socially acceptable in doing that, just not in western cultures, so your point is mute.

Of course it is possible, and easy to disrespect yourself, and I see loads of people doing it.

I am a drug user too, and I respect myself more than ever before with the use of drugs now, including alcohol - but there was a time, recently even when I wouuld spend my food money on booze to perpetuate my depression - this is self-sabotage and if that isn't disrespecting oneself, I don't know what is??!

SO a woman (or man - not biased I fucked around indiscriminately for years until I started working on myself, bettering myself) who fucks anyone that acts friendly to them, evven if they're not attracted to them is a slag/slut...and should be pitied and helped, not shunned.

You should only really have sex with people you're honestly attracted to, otherwise it will bruise your self esteem LIKE A PEACH.

You don't understand, because, well...you don't.

If you want to argue (and I'll win), then take it to PM's please.
 
My wife had 13 sexual partners to my 5. The way I viewed it, I was the last one and that was all that mattered.
 
I've been known to be protective with the lady gifts, but in no way has that impacted my freak factor. The truth is I'd meet this ridiculous calculation with flying colors but none of that matters when it comes to how I perceive my body and respect sexual maturity. Any individual who's been with 5 partners or 50 partners I think at some point realizes the freak factor comes from real trust with a partner and people can achieve this in different ways. I'll agree "slut" is a label and sometimes an appealing one, but great sex has more to do with trusting yourself and or the person you are with than the number of partners. It only took one to awaken my understanding of this and that could have been the first or the last. And it also has to do a lot with where someones at mentally (because great sex is born of vulnerability - hence the dominant/submissive role playing people loathe to love). If venereal disease is in question there's always ways to protect yourself before you wreck yourself! ;)
 
It gives off a vibe of childhood sexual abuse. Sad more than anything.
 
I like women that have alot of experience because they actually know wtf they are doing. I don't want some fucking virgin who has no clue as to wtf she's at. So yeah women with experience are a turn on for me.

And how come it's okay for us guys to bang everything in sight but if women do it they get labelled as being sluts? That's a fucking pathetic double standard.
 
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And how come it's okay for us guys to bang everything in sight but if women do it they get labelled as being sluts? That's a fucking pathetic double standard.
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But if we don't want to we're considered losers so it's not so great. Whatever though, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
 
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But if we don't want to we're considered losers so it's not so great. Whatever though, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
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Who cares what people think do whatever makes you happy that's how I think anyways.
 
paranoid android said:
I like women that have alot of experience because they actually know wtf they are doing. I don't want some fucking virgin who has no clue as to wtf she's at. So yeah women with experience are a turn on for me.

And how come it's okay for us guys to bang everything in sight but if women do it they get labelled as being sluts? That's a fucking pathetic double standard.
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Agreed here. Usually a lack of experience makes for a prud in bed or someone who just lays there unconfident of her abilities. And with that, I dont want to know about the previous relations they have had anyways. Maybe if she has been a pornstar would be an exception

Why does it matter at all and what good comes of it? Nothing I see except some uncomfortable moments of silence after the info is revealed. I dont want to think about some other dude railing my chick anyways. Like someone mentioned their wife had 13 other partners. How do you know this? Did you ask or did she freely give up the info, both being odd.
 
I find it interesting that a lot of people think that the more people a girl sleeps with the better she gets at sex. or that a seemingly prudeish girl jsut doesnt know what to do...
in my experience, even the least experienced girls can put on quite the show if they are so inclined and with the right person. a girl willing to listen and ask for advice and act upon it is more likely to be fun than one that considers her partner just another drop in the ocean... surely you ve all been with experienced slutty people that dont know what the f*ck they re doing

i think it matters more what kind of personality and attraction 2 people have than their previous experience
 
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