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Horny housewife ! I need the dick

OP I simply read the thread title and now I'm posting - I'd fuck you to pieces if given the chance on your attitude alone. I haven't read anything more but I hope you got sorted! ;)
 
I can see why many people don't have sex during the week. Honestly, if you're working 8 or more hours, maybe you have 2 hours of commuting time. How are you supposed to have the energy? It's completely understandable.
What do you do on weekends? Maybe you need to have a romantic night, just the two of you, without the kid around?
 
I think you should just talk to him about it and let him know that you're feeling unattractive, and not desirable.

Then possibly, do a date night every week , and have a baby sitter.
 
This is a known problem of pornography. The unrealistic standards, the fucked up power dynamics,the escalation (as with drugs) into harder and harder stuff. Not saying this is the root of al the problems in your relationship, it's probably symptomatic, but it is a prime driver as far as fucking up the sexual dynamics of men and women. I mean maybe find out what he is into in pornography (although prepared to be disturbed) and think about acting out some of those fantasies (assuming they are not too disturbing for you.) Also, of course, couples' sex drive does not always match and waxes and wains not always in sync with one another. Some of this is natural. Some of it is beyond that, and problematic; the pornography probably falls into that direction. There is a lot of reading to do about pornography from various perspectives (religious, feminist, criminalist, etc.) NoFap looks like an interesting forum/resource for men who have trouble with pornography. It may give some insight. It really is a genuine problem in society and is not a harmless thing that it is perceived: not only, the horrific exploitation of almost all of the women involved except perhaps some at the very pinnacle of the business, and also the effect on men, and on a tertiary level, the women who are in relationships with those men. It is sad. But I think the pornography angle is one to be pursued. There are a lot of resources online and elsewhere that deal with the problem and those affeceted by it and from various perspectives.


If there is no more passion, I think it's time to break up.
 
Fuck, some times my advice is kinda cruel. Before u break up, just try to find out if something is wrong with his psychology. I know, you are a woman, it's not your job to fix a broken man, you prefer to find a strong pationate dude that will make you feel good. But pls give it a shot. He could be depressed or something. Try to help him, u have a child together. That's why people get maried, I guess, to help each other, not just judge when the other one doesn't behave good.
 
You are in luck. There are billions of pee pee's on this planet. Its literally covered in pee pee's!!
 
Look at those idiots who haven't been laid since the begining of time and are trying to date a woman they don't even know how she looks like just because she wrote she is horny. Have some self respect men, u will never be laid with these minds and all you do is feeding the arrogance of women.
 
its not just miss matches sex drives. These people just don't put out. Fuck u know how many times ive gotten a hard on just cuz my partner was horny? Happens all the time. U find pleasure in it even if your not totally in the mood.
 
Seems like there is more to the story than we are being told....any story where someone is %100 the victim is usually not true. We need more details
 
Geez, that's like 3 times longer than I thought. Really sorry about the book! I just always try to give lots of info and details when seeking help.

Sorry!!!
Hang in there bro. Start fucking her brains out and maybe she will come around. Good sex on a constant basis will change anyones point of view eventually. Seriously though, don't give up hope
 
So I'm new here, this post is a bit outdated and I was curious...did he man up and fuck her??? My nipples got hard reading the o.p. - I guess I'm hanging on to see what happens.
 
This is a known problem of pornography. The unrealistic standards, the fucked up power dynamics,the escalation (as with drugs) into harder and harder stuff. Not saying this is the root of al the problems in your relationship, it's probably symptomatic, but it is a prime driver as far as fucking up the sexual dynamics of men and women. I mean maybe find out what he is into in pornography (although prepared to be disturbed) and think about acting out some of those fantasies (assuming they are not too disturbing for you.) Also, of course, couples' sex drive does not always match and waxes and wains not always in sync with one another. Some of this is natural. Some of it is beyond that, and problematic; the pornography probably falls into that direction. There is a lot of reading to do about pornography from various perspectives (religious, feminist, criminalist, etc.) NoFap looks like an interesting forum/resource for men who have trouble with pornography. It may give some insight. It really is a genuine problem in society and is not a harmless thing that it is perceived: not only, the horrific exploitation of almost all of the women involved except perhaps some at the very pinnacle of the business, and also the effect on men, and on a tertiary level, the women who are in relationships with those men. It is sad. But I think the pornography angle is one to be pursued. There are a lot of resources online and elsewhere that deal with the problem and those affeceted by it and from various perspectives.

That is very well put.

Porn is like candy substituting for food. Not good.
 
Did the husband ever come through???? The OP made me hottttt... feel like im reading a steamy naughty novel and need to finish! My nipples seriously got hard making myself throb in places. I can totally relate since my bf won't stop the opiates long enough to take care of me sexually. I neeeeed him to. I offered to order some porn or go to the strip club with him, he just never wants to leave the house if it doesn't involve using our procuring opiates of some form.
 
Nope!
Still horny!
Hard nipples and a firm clit!
I need some pleasure immediately!
I have sex toys but damm I want a real body with some real passion and sensuality! It that too much to ask for? Ugh
12 years married
One kid -she will be 2 in December
 
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