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Horny housewife ! I need the dick

Sorry you're still going through this girl. PM me if you ever need someone to talk to. Im here for you.
 
Hurhel said:
Nope!
Still horny!
Hard nipples and a firm clit!
I need some pleasure immediately!
I have sex toys but damm I want a real body with some real passion and sensuality! It that too much to ask for? Ugh
12 years married
One kid -she will be 2 in December
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That sucks! Mine will manually stimulate, but due to his opiod abuse, things don't work. It's been like 2 months now and about a week ago I was like.... "wtf ask I supposed to do, seriously??" I only get more promises of how it wI'll get better or he will make a dr. Appnt and get some cialisis. I don't think I could handle the length of time you have been enduring this, I really don't feel that's fair to you.
 
Yes! I have he just says that he's tired from the work week. Basically ..that's it
 
I'm going to weigh in here, and say I feel like the husband in this scenario (or I feel like he's acting, I mean). I don't know if my wife wants more sex, but we hardly ever fuck anymore. I look at porn a lot and have for most of my adult life (25 years+ at this point)

I sometimes wonder if my wife feels like the OP. I suppose i should make a move towards her. It's hard when complacency sets in, and yes, I believe porn fucks with perceptions and attitudes greatly. You get so used to an image that does whatever you want, and you forget to interact with people.

Anyways, just wanted to put that out there, as the "other side" as it were may be of use. Also, I am still attracted to my wife, it isn't because I don't view her as desirable......honestly, the porn is just more desirable, it's just that fucked up. It's easier too, as I alluded to before, no work has to go into actually interacting.
 
bobby1978 said:
I'm going to weigh in here, and say I feel like the husband in this scenario (or I feel like he's acting, I mean). I don't know if my wife wants more sex, but we hardly ever fuck anymore. I look at porn a lot and have for most of my adult life (25 years+ at this point)

I sometimes wonder if my wife feels like the OP. I suppose i should make a move towards her. It's hard when complacency sets in, and yes, I believe porn fucks with perceptions and attitudes greatly. You get so used to an image that does whatever you want, and you forget to interact with people.

Anyways, just wanted to put that out there, as the "other side" as it were may be of use. Also, I am still attracted to my wife, it isn't because I don't view her as desirable......honestly, the porn is just more desirable, it's just that fucked up. It's easier too, as I alluded to before, no work has to go into actually interacting.
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Hi!
Yes, I do believe it's easier for my husband to just watch porn and masterbate. Way less work to achieve orgasm. Versus actually having to physically have to fuck me.
Complacency--yeah most likely.
I often feel it's laziness..but yea same thing no.

I know I am a desirable woman but I just feel taken for granted. He can have pussy every night but why bother...it's so fucken sad, really! If your man doesn't wanna fuck YOU --how sad is that ? I'm not gonna beg...he knows my body and my cues --he chooses to ignores my cues and goes to sleep instead.

I'm 41 year old woman who is having sex maybe once every 6 months?? Pathetic !!

I can bet you senior citizens have more SEx than I do!
 
pdaddy129 said:
Where did you say you were from? ��
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Knew that was cumming.

If you want to sort things out talk to your partner. Express your needs. See what his are. It might not work out, there might be compromise, that is marriage.

Do not take porn in the bedroom, my second wife tried that and it annoyed the fuck out of me and she was doing it for me, like it was stuff I had on my computer from when I was single so her heart was in the right place but it did not help.

Porn doesn't really help marriages except something for a quick wank to. If you use porn past the occasional wank ime it will fuck up your sex life for a while. It might be worse for people.

Not everyone can be as fit as porn stars or myself.
 
My husband calls me his little whore, i call myself a self proclaimed sex freak. He knows i have multiple lovers and really doesn't mind. Truth be known he too is a little whore himself. I have 3 male lovers that ravage my body almost daily, I love a man hard member between my legs and cant get enough.
 
You know people cheat. A lot more I think than is commonly known. There is this interesting thing that doctors and nurses always know if a child being born is actually from the husband but the hospital has a policy of not saying anything. The numbers are astonishing. Something like 30 to 40% of men raising children that they don't realize are not really theirs. And that women. Men cheat a hell of a lot more. Personally I don't think cheating is that bad. Its one of those weird thing. We feel about our own bodies like its no big deal to fuck. But the way we feel about our partners bodies is super possessive. Its a huge double standard I think most people have that comes from just the nature of being human.

You have a young child and there is a chance things will change in due course. You never know what he is going through. And the first couple years of having a child are hell on the sex life. My advice is go out and fuck. He deserves it anyway. You cannot neglect your partner like that and expect they are not going to fuck someone else. Masturbating to porn and ignoring you is stupid.

If you live in the NYC, Jersey area, send me a private message. I'm good looking 40 years old white guy. Just broke up with my girlfriend of the past 4 years and feeling a bit sex deprived myself. If your not in my area, find someone in your area. Maybe a married guy in the same boat.

Don't let overly moralistic people rain on your parade. This is life. People need to fuck while they are young enough to enjoy it. It will only hurt him if he finds out, so make sure he doesn't.
 
CaliFish said:
You know people cheat. A lot more I think than is commonly known. There is this interesting thing that doctors and nurses always know if a child being born is actually from the husband but the hospital has a policy of not saying anything. The numbers are astonishing. Something like 30 to 40% of men raising children that they don't realize are not really theirs. And that women. Men cheat a hell of a lot more. Personally I don't think cheating is that bad. Its one of those weird thing. We feel about our own bodies like its no big deal to fuck. But the way we feel about our partners bodies is super possessive. Its a huge double standard I think most people have that comes from just the nature of being human.

You have a young child and there is a chance things will change in due course. You never know what he is going through. And the first couple years of having a child are hell on the sex life. My advice is go out and fuck. He deserves it anyway. You cannot neglect your partner like that and expect they are not going to fuck someone else. Masturbating to porn and ignoring you is stupid.

If you live in the NYC, Jersey area, send me a private message. I'm good looking 40 years old white guy. Just broke up with my girlfriend of the past 4 years and feeling a bit sex deprived myself. If your not in my area, find someone in your area. Maybe a married guy in the same boat.

Don't let overly moralistic people rain on your parade. This is life. People need to fuck while they are young enough to enjoy it. It will only hurt him if he finds out, so make sure he doesn't.
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I totally hear what your saying ...
Guess what ? Even since I wrote this post we still have not had SEx! Wtf!
It's so pathetic !
It's very true ,though, the first couple years after having a kid takes a toll on your sex life! But damm this bad?!!!!
I'm only 41 and I wanna keep on fucking until I can't anymore . What's life without sexual pleasure! I'm young and healthy and I deserve someone who wants me !
I need a boyfriend STAT!

Too bad I'm not in the NYC area!
I'm in California....
Thanks for sharing your perspective!

I feel so abandoned right now. What woman doesn't want a lover to please her sexual desire ? We all want love and attention but hey it's his loss though ...eventually i will find a lover and I will feel amazing again!
 
I second that

My sex life is not as bad (no offense) my husband is quite a bit older than me, very passive and doesn't find any rough/kinky things attractive and I too crave to be fucked like no holds barred. I watch porn , masturbate and as much as I have wanted to stray I haven't because he is so amazing to me and I love him dearly. And I have not been given the opportunity lol. I have to say though I have never felt bad in the past for cheating on exes, until I got caught. But anywho I swing both ways and own a couple strap one just throwing that out there lol
 
Talk to him about it. Try to make him understand how your needs work. Things may get better. If not - at least you are giving him a chance to know what's going on with you. If he really wants you, he may want to take this as his problem to earn you back. Everything is possible.
 
Sensual Sally said:
My sex life is not as bad (no offense) my husband is quite a bit older than me, very passive and doesn't find any rough/kinky things attractive and I too crave to be fucked like no holds barred. I watch porn , masturbate and as much as I have wanted to stray I haven't because he is so amazing to me and I love him dearly. And I have not been given the opportunity lol. I have to say though I have never felt bad in the past for cheating on exes, until I got caught. But anywho I swing both ways and own a couple strap one just throwing that out there lol
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Oh you are adorable circa 2001-2003 my wife and I loved like you.....keep on enjoying life like others don't understand. ?
 
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