Evey, while it's good to see that you are standing up for yourself a little bit, I think you may be swinging a little too far the wrong way.
I'm saying this in public because I think other people need to hear it, and I don't really believe in private bollockings -- doing it in the open avoids the bollockee being humiliated by being dragged off, and it prevents the bollocker from going too far. Plus, it gives everybody a warning, in case there was not just one person responsible, or somebody else thought they could get away with it.
You know you can be a strong person when you have to. Now just please try to avoid turning into a bully.
That's it, end of announcement. Go and shake hands or offer to make a cup of tea or hug or something. Life is too short to waste on crap.