Hi all, I want a bit of help with diagnosis to either rule out/in the possibility of bi-polar.
Very quick outline of me: 25yo Male from England, lost my mother to cancer when I was 17. I suffered a major bout of depression when I was 20 and was diagnosed with both 'Major Depressive Disorder' and 'General Anxiety Disorder' when I was 20. Consequently been on and off meds (mainly SSRI's and some atypical meds and Benzo's) for 5 years now.
It's obvious to both me, and those around me, that I 'suffer' from some kind of mood disorder. I'd almost consider to myself to be tri-polar: in the sense that I fluctuate fairly quickly between bouts of severe low depression, to states of being on edge/anxious, to being manic and feeling that I'm on top of the world.
I think a lot of the time, this almost 'high' kind of feeling with erratic behavior has been put down to as a result of my anxiety. Thus the diagnosis of MDD and GAD. I know that I do have anxiety problems but I feel that the 'high' is something else entirely. The only thing I can compare it to, sadly, is a cocaine high. Invincible, unbeatable with an unrivaled sense of ambition like I can take on the world
I have a close friend who was diagnosed as bi-polar and I see him go through his ebbs and flows. It wasn't until I saw a new psychiatrist who presented me with the 'symptoms' of bi-polar that I felt I could REALLY relate to what was being said. I seemed to fit quite neatly into the 'box' of how someone who is bi-polar goes about their daily life.
I've ALWAYS felt like I was bi-polar, but my 'highs' were always dismissed as anxiety and I was encouraged/directed to take a benzo (I've tried pretty much all of them available in the UK) to 'kill' the anxiety/high.
I don't really know where I'm going with this, but I guess I'm asking for help? I guess it's hard illness to provide a definitive diagnosis for and I think I'm asking for help as to how I can rule myself in/out of being bi-polar? I just feel a tad overwhelmed at the moment so I'm sorry if this seems like a long ramble. I think I just need some direction with this. I think I'm scared because I've grown up with my friend and I've seen him be put on lithium and it stole his personality completely. He became unrecognisable, a drone, plain as vanilla. As soon as he was off of it, his personality re-appeared, but so did the lows and highs. I've asked to re-see the psychiatrist for an appointment next week and I have no shame in admitting that I'm fucking terrified of that happening to me.
I don't know whether to be honest, or just carry on with the whole MDD/GAD thing and ignore what I believe to be bi-polar. Though with that, I also ignore the potential of the help that can be extended to me. Of course they can prescribe me anything and I don't have to take it, but I dunno. Honestly, I'm just scared and I don't know what to do.