its not on me to do it but you dontunderstand man
my uncle (well hes my moms 1st cousin actually but ive alwasy called him uncle) has not once went and visited his dad since he was pout in the home and neither has his mom..so its not like they seem to really care about him, the guy is 50 and lives at home with no bills to pay, has a half pint of whisky and a couple beers drunk by 1pm cause thats when he goes and gets lunch for his mom and stops at the liqour store for another 6pakc and half pint(he cant buy a whole fifth cause he says he will just drink it to fast and his drinkin would be even worse), he has 10dui give or take and has never spent more then a couple days in jail that wasnt forced cause thye always bailed him out, the reason his father is in the home is bc the nurse that would come once a week was threating calling protective services cause he wasnt getting the care he should have been bc my uncle is a drunk,and i can keep goin really
they(my grandma and his sister) want him to spend sometime in there cause they dont know what else they can do, he refuses rehab cause he can do it by himself but the guy once every couple months "sobers up" but after 3days of withdrawls (worse the opiate wds too cause ive watched him go threw them) but a couple more clean days to make it maybe a week, and hes right back at it. they are really afraid hes gonna kill someone driving drunk so they hope that with him getting stopped again for the 2nd time in 4 months, that spending sometime in jail will get him sober up longer then a few days and it will get him to thiunki about what it is hes done and why hes in there..i mean the guy lost his license for 10years cause of duis and finally got it back and goes like 14months before he gets another and again now its his second.
i really feel bad for the man cause he is lonely and drinks for the same reasons alot of us use dope..its all depression, the guy lives in the past and that sucks..because of alsohol he still thinks his fiance who left him in 1994 is gonna come back, he talks about her like they broke up a month ago and really cant get it threw his head and the guy alwasy drank but thats when he became an "alcohol addict"..he really has no real friends, his friends are just people hes know his wholel ife buyt they are all crackheads who only come by to ask for money or try and steal something from him, he has no one to really hang out with or talk to and because of it the guy will call my house 4-5times a day to let my grandma know basically everything thats goin on (he will call and let her know hes goin to the store and then will call when he gets home to tell her what he got) and it really drives us nuts, and he has no concept of time, he will call at 11pm, 1am,330 am, it doesnt matter and gets mad when we dont answer and will cuss us out over the answering machine even thoiugh its 1230 at night, sometiems he will call and want me to wake up my grandma for an emergency and the emergency will be "i want to let you know i wont be home in the morning cause im goin fishing" and its like really randy? thast the emergency? and he get mad when you question him like that cause he says "im just letting you know, so you dont get worried if you call the house tomorrow morning and no one answers"..thats how wacked out of his mind he is and ive got to the point where i tell him im not gonna wake her up unless the ambulance is there and they are taking his mom to the hospital and i really only answer in the first place cause hes calling the house phone at 230am and that will wake the house up if we dont..
so the guy can use a little time in jail, i mean making 20calls in a day bitching that we wont get him out and that we arent his family and then him hanging up on us and then calling back 10mins later like he never called, is worth the block..he doesnt care his dad is in the home cause hes the real reason why hes ther and not at home, he hasnt visited him once in the 2months being in there, except for when my grandma goes and literally drags him and his mom into see him..they are gonna get him out eventually but they want him to sit and think about it, they want him to sober up..if its possible. we know hes drinking himself to death we are just worried about how many people hes gonna take with him befoer it happens cause the drunk never dies in the accident and like i said if my freind didnt kill that lady last weekend, he would prolly be out but its just too fresh in our minds and my mom knows how close i was to him and how i could have been in that car and it just i dunno..they want him to sit\
sorry for the tldr but its just like gettin shit offr your chest and befoer you know it you typed a whole page, and i really could have kept goin cause its so frustrating and the stories are unfortunalty interesting but its either i post what i wrote or erase it and start over to shorten and to me thats not as fun