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Daily Personal Affirmations Log Vs IM THE SHIT & NOT a piece a.. not playing me. NOPE
Addiction has many weapons.. Its always messing with our conscious minds. One of the big manipulations it throws at us is it degrades us. Just like an abusive partner will do. It tries to make us feel worthless. It tries to make us believe we are garbage. It tries to fill us with shame, guilt, self doubt, hopelessness. Just like an abusive partner It tries to make us believe we a stupid, weak, ugly, crazy, a failure etc.
Just like in an abusive relationship this is all about control. People who begin to unjustly believe they are weak are less likely to put up a fight as the don't see a chance of winning. People who fall for the lies that they are worthless no longer see any point to resisting and start to believe they deserve the ill treatment. People who doubt themselves are easier to control.
A Broken down person is easier to manipulate. Like usual the addiction is totally full of shit.
This thread is a place to build ourselves back up and combat its nonsense. The guilt and shame are unwarranted, don't you love that sneaky bastard.. drives us to do so many things we would never do and then makes us feel shame and guilt for "choosing" to do those things to try and drive us to do more of those things. Learn how it works and we will no longer get played.
So stop in often and give numeral uno a whole bunch of love
. Your an amazing person and more than deserve it. Throw the guilt and shame out the window of a launching rocket ship. It not warranted , does no good, and really is just another manipulation to try and drive us to use.
We are not a Gods.. We are human fuckups like everyother of the 7,125,000,000 people on earth. Quit holding ourselves to the unachievable standards of a God. Quit making ourselves misserable.
%)Lets give ourselves some LOVE already. %)
Addiction has many weapons.. Its always messing with our conscious minds. One of the big manipulations it throws at us is it degrades us. Just like an abusive partner will do. It tries to make us feel worthless. It tries to make us believe we are garbage. It tries to fill us with shame, guilt, self doubt, hopelessness. Just like an abusive partner It tries to make us believe we a stupid, weak, ugly, crazy, a failure etc.
Just like in an abusive relationship this is all about control. People who begin to unjustly believe they are weak are less likely to put up a fight as the don't see a chance of winning. People who fall for the lies that they are worthless no longer see any point to resisting and start to believe they deserve the ill treatment. People who doubt themselves are easier to control.
A Broken down person is easier to manipulate. Like usual the addiction is totally full of shit.
This thread is a place to build ourselves back up and combat its nonsense. The guilt and shame are unwarranted, don't you love that sneaky bastard.. drives us to do so many things we would never do and then makes us feel shame and guilt for "choosing" to do those things to try and drive us to do more of those things. Learn how it works and we will no longer get played.
So stop in often and give numeral uno a whole bunch of love
. Your an amazing person and more than deserve it. Throw the guilt and shame out the window of a launching rocket ship. It not warranted , does no good, and really is just another manipulation to try and drive us to use. We are not a Gods.. We are human fuckups like everyother of the 7,125,000,000 people on earth. Quit holding ourselves to the unachievable standards of a God. Quit making ourselves misserable.
%)Lets give ourselves some LOVE already. %)NSFW:
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