The reason SSRIs get a lot of bad press is multi-layered. Firstly, a lot of people are on them who either don't need to be on them, or who aren't ready to be on them - e.g. a therapist listens to them for half an hour, then just shoves them on a script, shoos them out the door and lets in the next patient. It's a shame, but the mental health system is overworked and ADs are seen as a quick fix, often in place of examining other routes like diet, therapy, etc. They are constantly prescribed without a proper assessment of the patient, because they are 'safe' (e.g. a patient can't abuse or overdose on them, and it 'might' help, too many still still don't seem to realize the harm a 'bad experience' causes against SSRIs in general). A lot of people are also put on it who don't want to give up other drugs that interfere with it, so they either get diminished effects, or they regularly skip their dose to achieve maximum effect with their recreational drugs when they take them, so the spotty dosage has problems.
The other is, that it's hard to find the right SSRI even if a person could benefit from it, and it takes so long before you necessarily feel any real effect. What far too many psychiatrists don't seem to realize is that 4-6 weeks is usually an eternity, particularly to an extremely depressed or suicidal patient. They get about two, three weeks into it and are feel so awful, and so utterly discouraged at the fact the pills have done shit, that they stop taking them and/or turn back to other drugs. Or even if they stick out the drugs, there's still only so long each person can keep up with the 'hit and miss' approach of medicating in the hopes that eventually, 4-6 weeks in and then trying the next one, something <i>might</i> make a bit of difference. Then, of course, the withdrawal symptoms.
I know people who have found the right medication, stick with their proper dosing and really do benefit from it and have a lot of praise for the tremendous difference it makes in their lives. However, for every one of those it seems there's five who have had bad experiences with SSRIs which is very, very easy to do, particularly if you're receiving little to no support while trying to find the right one, and again that's a lot of people. On a drug forum, it's a pretty safe bet you'll encounter a disproportionate number of people with bad experiences with SSRIs (hence turning to or sticking with other drugs) so try not to take that to heart. They CAN work, but it can be a very difficult process. If yours work for you, then that's fantastic - I do hope you're not wanting to come off them because you've heard so many people saying they're bad. It's hard to find the right one, so if it really is helping, stick with it! Although if you're coming off it for other reasons (feeling ready to handle things on your own) then best of luck.
Edit: And way to stereotype there, ballsaq. You can usually tell the 15yo pillheads anyway; they're the ones constantly posting, 'How do i get high from my paxil????' or whatever pointless substance they've found in the medicine cabinet that they're incapable of a five second Google search on.
