whoa, take it easy pal. no one needs to be shot.
but i think i'd actually rather get high than have sex most of the time, because an opiate high lasts several hours whereas with sex after i come i'm kind of just waiting for him to finish and the thrill is gone quickly. i would compare it to crack, but i've never tried crack. 8)
then again, i've had some amazing sex while in a very loving relationship, so i might choose sex especially if i hadn't had any in a while ("a while" for me is about a week or so)
damn it, i love them both so much.