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Women and Drama....why?
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llama112
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I prefer living life drama-free. And I'm female.
Sooooo I think it is just SOME females that love drama. Some males love drama as well.
As to why these people love drama, perhaps it is to keep them entertained, keep them centre of attention? I'm not really sure.
Sooooo I think it is just SOME females that love drama. Some males love drama as well.
As to why these people love drama, perhaps it is to keep them entertained, keep them centre of attention? I'm not really sure.
As an outlet for strong emotions...not just for entertainment like some people think....either way, some love feeling strong emotions and acting them out.
A bit too much made out of the whole thing, if you ask me, it's not like it's the crime of the century.
A bit too much made out of the whole thing, if you ask me, it's not like it's the crime of the century.
Mel22
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It may not be the crime of the century, but it's incredibly annoying at best. It also interferes with other peoples' lives unnecessarily, and often adversely affects people around the drama queen, not just her. The negative consequences range from mild to devastating. I do however tend to agree that it can be a way of acting out emotions, and women tend to be more emotional then men in general (obviously a sweeping generalisation, but tends to hold some truth IMO).
There are many reasons why this occurs, and it would differ greatly from person to person, and situation to situation. And obviously, not all women exhibit such behaviour, nor are all men devoid of it.
If your flair for the dramatic is having a negative impact on those around you, it's time to learn to control and manage your emotions and behaviour.
There are many reasons why this occurs, and it would differ greatly from person to person, and situation to situation. And obviously, not all women exhibit such behaviour, nor are all men devoid of it.
If your flair for the dramatic is having a negative impact on those around you, it's time to learn to control and manage your emotions and behaviour.
pofacedhoe
Bluelight Crew
it depends on the individual- some people are never happy and its a personality issue rather than a mood problem![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
you create your own happiness by appreciating what you already have to be thankful for
lots of women dont want drama. you've just picked one that does...
you create your own happiness by appreciating what you already have to be thankful for
lots of women dont want drama. you've just picked one that does...
Pretty_Diamonds
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^ :nods:
95Land
Ex-Bluelighter
Fuckin amen. I have gone through a relationship walking on eggshells for fear of causing a problem/slight. Miserable.
I HATE drama. Most the time a "problem" was called to my attention, usually via yelling, I had no idea what I had "done." Not a fun way to go through life.
there are women who enjoy drama.
there are women who do not.
there are men who enjoy drama.
there are men who do not.
alasdair
there are women who do not.
there are men who enjoy drama.
there are men who do not.
alasdair
T. Calderone
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I think some people create drama without realizing they're doing it. I have a guy friend who calls me and almost each time he starts off with "Are you sitting down? You need to hear this..." It's always about some client who's overdosed, went to jail, died, etc. Not usually good news but this makes me glad I don't work there anymore and I'm not the person having to call 911 each time.
It's his quirky style of communication and that's one of the things I love about him. On the same token, I phoned him blubbering like a baby last week and crying is something I usually try to stifle. It got to the point where I just lost it and without his sympathetic ear, I don't know what I would have done.
Drama doesn't bother me too much if it's genuine, I know that's probably the wrong way to put it. But I know certain people who consistently exaggerate a lousy situation over and over again. When that conversation begins, I know where it's going and want to gouge my eyes out. Emotional vampires that just suck my energy and leave me exhausted.
It's his quirky style of communication and that's one of the things I love about him. On the same token, I phoned him blubbering like a baby last week and crying is something I usually try to stifle. It got to the point where I just lost it and without his sympathetic ear, I don't know what I would have done.
Drama doesn't bother me too much if it's genuine, I know that's probably the wrong way to put it. But I know certain people who consistently exaggerate a lousy situation over and over again. When that conversation begins, I know where it's going and want to gouge my eyes out. Emotional vampires that just suck my energy and leave me exhausted.
pofacedhoe
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I think some people create drama without realizing they're doing it. I have a guy friend who calls me and almost each time he starts off with "Are you sitting down? You need to hear this..." It's always about some client who's overdosed, went to jail, died, etc. Not usually good news but this makes me glad I don't work there anymore and I'm not the person having to call 911 each time.
It's his quirky style of communication and that's one of the things I love about him. On the same token, I phoned him blubbering like a baby last week and crying is something I usually try to stifle. It got to the point where I just lost it and without his sympathetic ear, I don't know what I would have done.
Drama doesn't bother me too much if it's genuine, I know that's probably the wrong way to put it. But I know certain people who consistently exaggerate a lousy situation over and over again. When that conversation begins, I know where it's going and want to gouge my eyes out. Emotional vampires that just suck my energy and leave me exhausted.
real drama is juice but people who make drama out of a boring nothing situation=whats the point
O/P,
Good question here,I will lend my thoughts.
Women are estrogenic beautiful minds.Also,aside form the fact they ovulate,they want to see if that male specimen involved in their life is going to be able to overcome anything life throws at them,considering the relationship(e.g)common sense,obstacles,money issues,even sex.If she sees no perseverance/progress,she WILL consider alternatives,that is someone else to problem solve her beliefs and partake to a beautiful,intuitive mindset that will benefit any relationship.....phew/
Good question here,I will lend my thoughts.
Women are estrogenic beautiful minds.Also,aside form the fact they ovulate,they want to see if that male specimen involved in their life is going to be able to overcome anything life throws at them,considering the relationship(e.g)common sense,obstacles,money issues,even sex.If she sees no perseverance/progress,she WILL consider alternatives,that is someone else to problem solve her beliefs and partake to a beautiful,intuitive mindset that will benefit any relationship.....phew/