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Will I have any More problems with my Ex?

MedicalCoding

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Paul and I were dating for a few months in the summer of 2008. I know this sounds weird, but after we broke up hes been trying to get back with me ever since. I had about 5 situations of calling me or showing up at my house. I started dating my current husband Chris (Paul didn't know) in late 2010.


In late 2011, I was engaged to Chris and living with him when Paul started texting me on Christmas 2011 (About 6 months after I had heard anything from Paul) I started having an affair with Paul for 4 Months. Then I called it off in March 2012 when Paul got serious. In August 2012, I ran into Paul at a coffee shop and it didn't go well. Then he sent me an email on Halloween calling me a "Dumass" and to leave him alone!



Do you think I will have more problems?>
 
You will have more problems if you dont stay away from him for good. If he insists and bothers you about meeting up, stand your ground and assure him that you don't want to have anything to do with him anymore. If he doesn't stop and harasses you or stalks you then notify the cops.
 
If you tell someone you don't want to see or talk to them and totally ignore them and they keep on trying to contact you, be around you, near you or involved in your life that can be classed as stalking.
 
Sounds like you are the one playing around and stringing him along, cheating on your husband with him. How about you leave paul alone?
 
Sounds like you are the one playing around and stringing him along, cheating on your husband with him. How about you leave paul alone?

It's up to YOU. You need to ensure you don't talk to him again.
 
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