denise1979
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outpatient prescribed him some antidepressants but he can't take anything else
Thank you zephyr i say to him all the time that he chooses drugs over us he says no way it's the addiction. I'm going for at least a free consultation with a divorce attorney next week. Not sure what my options are as far as assistance while we are still legally together. It would be a lot easier for me it he just gets himself arrested again then me and my girls can stay in the house until it forecloses and i can save up as much as possible. not what i want to ultimately happen just trying to have a back up plan
Its a shame the house is forclosing but its just a house. You can always get another eventually by yourself and no man can take it away.
So be sad about losing it then put it behind you.
Your husbands actions as an addict are understandable to me as I am also an addict.
As an addict I have to say its very hard to stop and it costs friends relationships jobs and invesyments.
But that is his problem and he will have to figure out what he wants from life on his own. He probably wants just everything. You. The kids. Drugs. Someone to just do everything while he does nothing but indulge.
So please mate. See this lawyer and get good solid advice.
There will be assistance available depending on your area financially and benefit wise and housing but its hard to get all the information. You have to go looking for it.
Take every bit of welfare and assistance you can get. Its what its for.
Maybe this shock will snap him out. Maybe he will use it as an excuse to get back into it. Thats up to him. Hopefully he will do the right thing.
You really need to put you and kids first and let him know you are there should he want to talk or see the kids. But let him work it out and be the man you once knew.
... I have no one else to talk to about this and just typing this out makes me feel a little better.