PotentiallyExcited
Greenlighter
Hi - total noob here and not sure how to get the ball rolling. If there's already a discussion going on point with this, feel free to point me in the right direction.
Quick summary - Married 5 years, together about 7, multiple kids from prior marriages, mostly grown and out of the house. I would honestly describe us as very happily married - good open communication, rarely argue, and in general a good "team". My wife has become increasingly flirtatious over the past several months to year. Allowing/encouraging strangers to feel her up, motorboat her, etc. when she's out. First time I was out to get us drinks and came back to watch her take turns pulling a couple of guys facedown into her goodies. Similar incidents a few times, sometimes I'm there, sometimes not and then not sure I'm getting the whole story. More recently, she's been really flirty with a particular mutual guy friend. She admitted to me (after multiple discussions downplaying/denying the situation) that she made out with him a couple of times, told him to play with her tits, grabbed his ass, that sort of thing. The last time we were out in a group she pretty much passed herself around the group, and ended up telling this guy that she wanted to fuck him. Repeatedly, and in front of me. So, I'm this weird combination of being freaked out and being totally turned on. He told her he wouldn't do anything unless he could bring in a girl for me to do the same. She vacillates between denying any feelings in that regard to openly telling me she wants a 3 or 4-way, and really wants to blow him. I'm turned on by the idea of seeing her pleasing someone/being pleased, but a little concerned about potential attachment, since it's someone we know. Does that make it safer, or higher risk for emotional context? Anybody experienced with this or going through similar questions?
Thanks
Quick summary - Married 5 years, together about 7, multiple kids from prior marriages, mostly grown and out of the house. I would honestly describe us as very happily married - good open communication, rarely argue, and in general a good "team". My wife has become increasingly flirtatious over the past several months to year. Allowing/encouraging strangers to feel her up, motorboat her, etc. when she's out. First time I was out to get us drinks and came back to watch her take turns pulling a couple of guys facedown into her goodies. Similar incidents a few times, sometimes I'm there, sometimes not and then not sure I'm getting the whole story. More recently, she's been really flirty with a particular mutual guy friend. She admitted to me (after multiple discussions downplaying/denying the situation) that she made out with him a couple of times, told him to play with her tits, grabbed his ass, that sort of thing. The last time we were out in a group she pretty much passed herself around the group, and ended up telling this guy that she wanted to fuck him. Repeatedly, and in front of me. So, I'm this weird combination of being freaked out and being totally turned on. He told her he wouldn't do anything unless he could bring in a girl for me to do the same. She vacillates between denying any feelings in that regard to openly telling me she wants a 3 or 4-way, and really wants to blow him. I'm turned on by the idea of seeing her pleasing someone/being pleased, but a little concerned about potential attachment, since it's someone we know. Does that make it safer, or higher risk for emotional context? Anybody experienced with this or going through similar questions?
Thanks
