why is this ?

[BlueCherry]

Why is everything you want something you had or something you can never have?
Why do relationships start with a smile turn to a kiss and end with tears?
Why dose it hurt so much when some leave someone even if you think you don't love them ?
just a couple of qustions if you think you can anwser go for it ....
I'm stumped
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Take from This What You will.......

 

[Genavieve515]

BlueCherry,
Relationships don't need to end with tears. If you open your heart to someone who makes you feel unreal, chances are, you won't feel so bad in the end. There are answers to these questions, but every one is different. What may be my answer, is your in another view.
I am sorry you may be having troubles with relationships. I can only tell you this one piece of advice. There is someone out there who loves you and is willing to give you a chance. Take this chance, for it might be gone soon. If it seems impossible, the impossibility is decieving. Everything is possible. Go to that person that loves you and he/she will love you back.
Love,
Genavieve*

 

[supersonic]

The grass is always greener syndrome. You want what you aren't because as a human you want it all. Unfortanetly once you get what you want you lost what you had before you got that, and then you want the first thing again. If you have all you need in yourself then you need nothing else. It only goes to tears but needn't end in them, its a balance. You can only be so happy for so long without having the negative balance it out. Its all about sticking it out if it's really worth it, because the good part will then come to balance the negative again, and this happens throughout life in my different ways. And it hurts to lost anything that becomes a part of ones life for so long no matter lover or enemy all are missed for their purpose in your life. But then again these are just opinions

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If anything I do drugs to appreciate reality.

 

[RaVeN_pkfl]

Those are good answers to perfect questions. But why is it so hard if not impossible to see that things will get better? It has happened before and it will happen again. When times are good they're great, when they're bad they're bad and nothing else seems possible. Why is this? or maybe it's just me.

 

[intheshaddows]

Cheer up,
Life & love, it's all one big trial....
Just live/love for the moment, the NOW !
It's all very painful at times but the flow goes on and on and on.
Make your choices for today and forget about yesterday and don't worry about tomorow, it all sorts itself out in the end.
It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

 

[RaVeN_pkfl]

"I can describe everything I learned about in 3 words ...... Life Goes On."
About a week ago someone told me that quote and it helped me out alot. I have been living by it ever since.