Wow, yeah...
When I was in college and my early-to-mid 20s, I heard a lot of success-minded peers self-righteously talk about how they "got the partying out of their systems" in high school, so that they could buckle down and get serious with their lives. Some were quite smug about the fact that drugs and large doses of alcohol had no more allure for them, that they were "done experimenting", and that all their substance-fueled mischief was locked away in a sealed juvenile record. Some went so far as to say they pitied the myopia of unsober peers who hadn't "wised up" (or worse, "grown up") yet. I was a nerdy, goody-goody straight-As drama geek in high school, who didn't even touch marijuana or alcohol until I was 18 and at college. I still use drugs when I've got the time and energy, and may never fully quit. Though my party line has always been that drugs are for adults, I've sometimes wondered ruefully if my peers who started young and finished young weren't the wiser. Now I wonder if, on the contrary, I was ahead of my time. Are the 20s the new teens? And the teens the new early childhood?