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Why do we have to be faithful ???

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Silky2013

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Don't get me wrong ... I love my wife and we have the best friend type of relationship BUT being an attractive man it's very very hard to be faithful. Given the fact in Houston there are so many beautiful women ... Shouldn't we be allowed to taste rather than just read the menu ????
 
Is your wife as attractive as you think you are?
If so, do you ,mind if I fuck her?
I sincerely hope that when we have done this deed, that she doesn't find you boring
 
Silky2013 said:
Don't get me wrong ... I love my wife and we have the best friend type of relationship BUT being an attractive man it's very very hard to be faithful. Given the fact in Houston there are so many beautiful women ... Shouldn't we be allowed to taste rather than just read the menu ????
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Why did you get married, if that's the case?
 
....Why did you get married then if you want to be unfaithful?:\

Here's an idea maybe you should talk to her and get a third person involved in your relationship. Down side that shit ends up being a hot mess.
 
Well we all get married for the right reason ... But after so many years ... Is variety the spice of life ?? I guess if reincarnation existed it would be easier to be faithful as variety would simply be one lifetime away. Plus not looking to replace the wife ... Just a FWB :-)
 
Well it's men like you I choose never to get married.
Do all men think the same as you?
Iv always had problems in my relationships because my instincts where a man can never be faithful In a relationship for his entire life. It's Kinda sad considering I have this unrealistic expectation of love and marriage. Shame.
 
Yes sorry to break it to you but I do not know one man that has been faithful to his wife .... It's just life ... Not sure we (both sexes) were designed to be with one partner !!! Best thing is to embrace it and manage it appropriately :-)
 
How long have you been married? Chances are that your wife feels just as bored with your sex life as you do. You can either try and spice it up a bit together or talk to her about adding other people into the mix. If you truly love her you'll have enough respect for her to be honest with your feelings.
 
If I were actually in love, I wouldn't feel comfortable fucking other girls unless it was WITH my girl or at least with her condoning it. Who, knows, I've never been in a relationship that last longer than a few week, let alone 7 years
 
Talk about adding more oil to the flame lol
How does a women 'embrace' these things? And do it appropriately???
My bf calls me a physco and I'm not sure how to manage my emotions knowing every man cannot be faithful.
Isn't there anything a women can do to prevent these things from happening?
 
Well it would be a turn on to include a third but would have to be another woman !!! Not interested in men ... Not a confident thing before you go there ... Just don't really want to see dick and balls :-(
We have been married for over ten years and actually still have a great sex life ... Toys, fantasies and more. Again I don't really mind if she had a FWB ... Just don't want to hear about it. She is an 11 on a 1-10 scale so it wouldn't be difficult for her !!
 
I guess I can't even imagine NOT being faithful. My boyfriend is amazing and I would hate to lose him. He's an incredible boyfriend, amazing in bed, etc. I'm not really looking for anything outside of that. Sure, I may have little crushes on other guys, but it's just them being attractive, I'd certainly never act on it, that is as far as it goes. Even if one of my crushes approached me and wanted to date me or sleep with me, I would say no for sure!!

If you didn't want to be with one person for life, why are you married?

I know plenty of married people who have been with their partner and ONLY their partner for the rest of their life. I do know some who have cheated as well. I also know some who have healthy relationships but who also have threesomes. That is always a possibility....

Before you got married, maybe you should have thought of these things. Why didn't you?

What would your wife think of an open marriage?
 
Fyfm said:
Talk about adding more oil to the flame lol
How does a women 'embrace' these things? And do it appropriately???
My bf calls me a physco and I'm not sure how to manage my emotions knowing every man cannot be faithful.
Isn't there anything a women can do to prevent these things from happening?
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That's a pretty big generalization.
 
Fyfm said:
Talk about adding more oil to the flame lol
How does a women 'embrace' these things? And do it appropriately???
My bf calls me a physco and I'm not sure how to manage my emotions knowing every man cannot be faithful.
Isn't there anything a women can do to prevent these things from happening?
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I am sorry again .... As long as he doesn't throw it in your face and is loving, caring and respectful ... Would it really be so bad?
 
Nah
I think just coming across a lot of men in my short period of life has made me have insecurity issues lol
I think adding a third like these other people are saying is a good idea, doin it behind her back maybe a no no :P

Good luck with the threesome
 
Wanting to sleep around is a natural feeling, especially for men.

In fact, among primates 97% of species have absentee fathers. Humans fall into that 97%.

It is only once humans enter into an organized society that we realize that monogamous relationships are a good thing. It creates a strong family unit that is better at raising kids.

Im not trying to condone polygamist behavior, its a selfish move for guys to sleep around if they're in a committed relationship. Im just highlighting the reasoning for it, its a primal urge that is a relic of times past before humans were as organized as they are today and it can definitely be a challenge for some guys to find fulfillment in a monogamous relationship. Love definitely does exist, but there is a reason that over time it tends to fade in many relationships.
 
I say you ought to grow a set, and just leave your mothering wife. Then you can eat off what ever menu you so choose.

I understand you wanting to stay with your wife, I mean hell, she cooks, cleans, does
the laundry, ect.. Who in their right mind would want to give that up?

You don't have to be faithful it's totally up to you though. Understand this though, no piece of ass is worth paying alimony for.

My 2 cents.
 
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